Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

We Met At Acme

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We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

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Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

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Society

Podcast website

art19.com

Latest episode

Oct 11, 2026

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Episodes

According To This Guy, The Rules Don’t Work ft. Jon Birger 21.11.2021

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Jon Birger, author of Make Your Move. We discuss the rise of hook up culture, declining marriage rates, why Jon is anti dating online, if men are afraid to approach women, his theory that men don’t need the chase, why you should date your coworker, and maybe even propose to your male SO! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss feeling safe in a re...

If Astrology Isn’t Real, How Is The Pattern So Spot On? ft. The Pattern’s Lisa Donovan 14.11.2021

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Lisa Donovan, creator and founder of The Pattern app. We discuss how she got into astrology, Lisa gives me a chart reading, my compatibility with Steven's chart, Lisa's timeline for her own relationship, what it takes to dedi- cate yourself to your calling, why The Pattern is so thorough and accurate, using astrology for dating, what to say when someone i...

I Went To Couples Therapy So You Don’t Have To ft. Elizabeth Earnshaw 07.11.2021

In this episode, I virtually sit down with well known couples therapist Eliz- abeth Earnshaw, LMFT. We discuss the best practices for conflict resolution, the leading rea- son for divorce, how to not let your SO’s mood affect you, signs a couple won’t make it, how men and women handle break ups, if some people are just better apart, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss more we...

How You Treat Your Body Is How You Treat Your Partner ft. Max Lugavere 31.10.2021

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Max Lugavere, NY Times best selling author of Genius Foods. We discuss learning from past relationships, love languages, why being kind is the most important trait of all, why not being healthy is a dealbreaker, how loss sparked his food curiosity, if we're hoping to date people similar to our parents, why eating well is a form of self respect, and more!...

Healthy Relationships Don't Get Ratings ft. Hannah Berner 24.10.2021

In this episode, I actually sat down IRL with the one and only Hannah Berner (RIP Summer House). We are back at the studio!!! We discuss our upcoming nuptials, getting engaged in less than a year, Summer House drama that no one knows about, how she felt about Kyle and Amanda’s wedding, her friendship with Alex Cooper, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why I didn’t like “In...

Engaged And Very Enraged 17.10.2021

In this full solo episode, I discuss the non-glamorous wedding planning process, how to move forward when you feel distance between you and your SO, what is a red flag vs normal as the honeymoon period comes to an end, is it better to "fall" in love or "choose" love, how do you deal with a partner who tends to dismiss your problems, friends not liking your SO, how to bring up relationship history...

The Number One Thing Men Discuss In Therapy ft. Talkspace’s Dr. Meaghan Rice 13.10.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined Talkspace therapist Dr. Meaghan Rice. We discuss being a military wife, the most important advice for couples to get along, how it works to be in couples therapy via Talkspace, how to know when it’s a good fit with your therapist, the baggage we all bring to relationships, how to be more self aware with your partner, the most common topics that men discuss in...

There Is No Such Thing As A Perfect Couple ft. Elin Hilderbrand 10.10.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined writer Elin Hilderbrand. We discuss making more than your spouse, dating an extrovert when you're an introvert, why her relationship works now, if novels glorify the idea of having an affair, who would play her characters in a movie, couch guy tiktok, what to do if your partner isn't romantic, why you shouldn't stay with a high school SO when you go to colleg...

Every First Date Should Be Dinner ft. Koko 03.10.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by Koko, make up artist and queen of high maintenance. We discuss why she hates dating apps, if women should be more high maintenance when dating, her viral tiktok video, why opposites don’t work in dating, if coffee dates should or shouldn’t be a thing, why long distance would never work for us, and more. This episodes starts with a solo where I discuss why...

How To Crush It On Dating Apps ft. Bre and Shelby 26.09.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by Shelby and Bre co-hosts of Emotional Check-In Podcast. We discuss how to crush it on dating apps, what it means to have an emotional check in, how Shelby met her hinge bf, having a high sex drive and how to communicate that, taking anti-depressents and how to bring that up, if mental health a valid excuse to end a relationship, and more. This episodes star...

Interpreting Texts: Men vs. Women ft. Nicky and Jenna 19.09.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by Nicky Hammond and Jenna Wolf, co-hosts of We Are Not Saints Podcast. We discuss behaviors that scare people away when dating, getting too deep too soon, if there are people out there who have nothing "dark" about them, why dating men is so different than dating women, if women and men receive texts differently, what are the signs that you're heading in the...

The First Question I Didn’t Need To Turn Into A Poll 12.09.2021

I’m ENGAGED!!! WHAT?!! I’m still in shock. In this episode, I answer all your questions about my engagement. How I knew he was the one, how it all went down, the worst piece of advice I got along the way, the ring process, what happens next, and so much more!   www.talkspace.com with code ACME for $100 off your first month www. Vivino.com/ACME for 20% off your first order of up to $200 www. Articl...

How To Bring Up Trauma When Newly Dating ft. Matt Bocchi 05.09.2021

In this episode, I am virtually by Matt Bocchi, the author of Sway. We dis- cuss starting a new relationship, how to make it work if it's an LDR in the beginning, addiction, struggling with the tragic loss of a parent, what it means to date younger vs older, being sexually abused as a child, how much you should open up about your trauma, how to bring up trauma when newly dating, and more. This epi...

Don’t Compliment A Guy Before You’re Official ft. The Boys From The Latke Room Boys 29.08.2021

In this episode, I am virtually by Jonny Lazarus, Justin Kapelmaster, and Max Mastbaum from The Latke Room Podcast. We discuss how to know when a guy likes you, if guys and girls can be friends, why it’s bad to tell a guy he’s handsome, the meaning behind following an ex on social media, what makes a girl stand out on the first date, what guys care about physically, and more. This episode starts w...

Why Men Love Bitches And Why Men Marry Bitches 22.08.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by Sherry Argov, the author of the world renowned book Why Men Love Bitches and Why Men Marry Bitches. We discuss what exactly it means to be a bitch, what’s wrong with being a yes woman, how her rules would apply to technology today, how to “pull back” on social media, her most controversial advice, if women love a-holes, why it’s bad to be an open book, the...

How To Be Confident Breaking Up Was The Right Decision ft. Caroline Stanbury 08.08.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by the beautiful and ageless Caroline Stanbury. Caroline was a cast member on the Bravo show Ladies of London, and is now the host of fellow Dear Media podcast Divorced Not Dead. We discuss her marriage ending, why it's so hard to leave a partner, signs that make it clear that you're making the right decision in breaking up, how she met her younger man, why “...

Debunking Myths About Guys In Their 30s ft. My Producer—Brian Peoples 01.08.2021

In our 200th episode(!!!!!), I am virtually joined by my incredible producer Brian Peoples. We discuss what it’s like working with mostly women, living in LA, the cringy-ness of my old episodes, what he’s looking for in a partner, his favorite piece of WMAA advice, our rocky start, where to meet a single 30 something year old, where a man’s head is at when he’s 30 and single, biggest dating mistak...

The Importance Of Being Single ft. Steffie Baik 25.07.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by Steffie Baik. We discuss co-dependence in relationships and on your family, growing up without a parent, Korean culture, suppressing your feelings, different kinds of therapy, attachment styles, dating creatives, what it’s like to date people of all cultures, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss last week’s episode, a reflection on my...

What Saying I Love You Means To A Guy ft. Lev Fer 18.07.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by comedian and podcast host Lev Fer. We discuss what guys think when girls shoot their shot, not caring about meeting the parents, why it took 9 months for Lev to DTR, if men getting serious is linked to their career, my texting rules, how to go up to guys when you’re out, how soon into a relationship guys know if they want to marry you, dating younger guys,...

Sometimes You Need To Sleep In Separate Beds ft. Rebecca Minkoff 11.07.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by fashion designer and author Rebecca Minkoff. We discuss manifesting her now husband, prioritizing kids when they're young, not talking to friends about your relationship, how she got started with her clothing line, how she feels about fashion influencer culture, how to overcome desperation when dating, how she feels about imposter syndrome, the perfect fir...

Don’t Worry, A Porn Star Is Not Going To Steal Your Man ft. Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia 04.07.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by hugely successful porn star and now fellow podcaster Eva Lovia aka Candice Horbacz. We discuss open relationships, how onlyfans relates to the porn industry, why it's okay to have a healthy relationship with porn, how her and her boyfriend met, one night stands that don't work, being afraid of your kids being made fun of, how to not be scared of your famil...

We All Need To Be Less Co-Dependent ft. Mark Groves 27.06.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by human connection specialist Mark Groves. We discuss how to know if you’re in love, how to know if your relationship is over, things you can work through and not work through, breaking up and getting back together successfully, what codependency looks like, how society affects our relationships, if it’s better to fight all the time or never fight, why coupl...

Stop Giving Up After Two Dates ft. Jena Kingsley 20.06.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by Jena Kingsley, of Social Studies podcast. We discuss botox and when you need to get it, why friend break ups are harder than romantic ones, not sleeping together in the beginning of a relationship, normalizing not liking every friend of your SO’s, how to bring up your needs in a relationship, the importance of giving someone a good chance, and more. This e...

Why There Are No Rules In Gay Dating ft. Matteo Lane 13.06.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by comedian (and opera singer!) Matteo Lane. We discuss the gay take on my rules (since you haven't heard about them enough), the difference between growing up and having to "come out" vs. growing up without that, the experience of being gay in the 90s and being gay today, why it's so important to be true to yourself, who should be paying on dates, why i'm je...

Maybe You’re The Problem ft. Whitney Cummings 06.06.2021

In this episode, I am virtually joined by the hilarious Whitney Cummings. We discuss lessons she's learned, having an addictive personality, how she started dating her vet, why it's important to have a partner who doesn't feed into your BS, what you don't like about your partner is your fault, why you'll never get 100% happiness in a relationship, finding the right birth control for you, something...

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