We Don't Have Time For This

Part 2 of our four-part Summer series, where the vibes are high but the budget is… unavoidable. Whether you’re knee-deep in a DIY glow-up, planning a full rebuild, or just here to witness dust, delusion and financial denial, we're happy you're here. We’re diving into the least fun part of any project: the budget. Bring a calculator. Lower your expectations. Mentions: Nicole from...

Gem’s finally on holiday and living her best smug life, yes DLs, it’s possible that one day you can enjoy a break with kids. Then, Good Mum Energy incoming... it's back to school 101 with Gem and Revz chatting through how to nail the school lunch box. Next we unpack a big question, Can you parent other peoples kids? And is this the answer to all of our parenting problems? Happy School...

Imagine being cancelled by your imaginary best friend and all-round Brit It Gal, Lily Allen, on day three of your new job. Sounds like a living nightmare, right? Welp, this actually happened to Bella and she’s finally going public with this never-before-told dark tale of shame. Meanwhile, celibacy is taking Hollywood by storm with the likes of Julia Fox and Khloe Kardashian crossing their le...

Today's caller is torn between her husband wanting 2 kids when she thought she wanted 1. - Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Subscriber Golden Ticket Lunch- BOOST your entry here Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Check out our Amazon Storefront Sign...

Surprise! You’ve been absolutely frothing over Revz’s c*nty cottage, so we thought… why not record a four-part Summer series? Whether you’re knee-deep in a DIY glow-up, planning a full rebuild, or just here to live vicariously through someone else’s dust and delusion, we’ve got you. We’re kicking things off with the most important step: finding your style...

First up, important question: what is the world’s favourite song? Naturally, we spiral into our own top songs and movies—play along, DLs. Then Revz drags us through a recurring dream she’s had for years, is it therapy or torture? From there, it’s a full-on nostalgia trip through high school: who we were, who we thought we’d be, and how spectacularly unprepared we were...

We’re back for episode two and the sched is more lit than the dance floor at Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis’ wedding. We unpack the soccer golden couple’s stunning Perth nuptials, plus why we’re convinced JLo and Ben Affleck might be (probably, maybe) trolling us all. We also serve up our pop culture predictions for the year ahead - from a bombshell royal tell-all to an Abbie C...

This week, we're squeezing a big dilemon: bro code versus the wife.  Mentions: Every Boy Is Born With 2 Dogs - Submit your Dilemon Check out our Amazon Storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we’re asking the hard questions, like, whether the gutter goblin dress code has an expiration date, and why simply wearing makeup now earns us unsolicited compliments like we’ve done community service. We tap back into Slim Aarons energy (bring it back, immediately): glamorous, detached, and lightly judging from poolside. We reflect on Gem’s 40th birthday party, which casua...

Happy first ep and happy almost-NYE! Today, Bella breaks down what in the bedazzled gold suit is actually happening with Harry Styles and his long-anticipated musical comeback. Lu slips into her Inspector Gadget trench to investigate the Beckham family’s latest bout of festive beef, before the girls recap the weird, wild year that was 2025. Plus, they share the cocktail of the summer and the...

Today's caller is hearing crickets after multiple job interviews. - Submit your Dilemon Check out our Amazon Storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You asked… and we kept talking. Welcome back to our AMA part 2, where the questions kept rolling and so did the tangents. From festive chaos to future plans, this ep is mildly educational, honest, and absolutely unnecessary (in the best way). Happy Holidays DLs! Notspon: Raw C Pure Coconut Water infused with White Chocolate and Pistachio - Subscriber Golden Ticket Lunch- BOOST your entry he...

This week's caller got a frustrating call from daycare. - Submit your Dilemon Check out our Amazon Storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH (FREE TEE with every purchase!) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Five years ago we bought a mic and absolutely did not have time for this. And yet… here we are. What started as a half-baked idea has somehow turned into the most unhinged, hilarious, supportive little corner of the internet full of like-minded DLs we could never have imagined. You’ve shown up, tuned in, slid into the DMs and made this whole thing what it is. We are endlessly grateful...

Today’s caller wants to know: what should it feel like dating in your late 30s and early 40s? - Submit your Dilemon Check out our Amazon Storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH (FREE TEE with every purchase!) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome to the December brain-scramble: pedal pushers are back (are we collectively unwell?!), Revz has a whole new house to drag into the light, Gem’s cortisol is peaking ahead of her 40th, and the Elf on the Shelf is the final straw holding this chaos tower together. We don’t know what’s happening, we don’t have time, but we’re unpacking it anyway.   #notspons...

Today’s caller doesn’t know how to react to her 5 year old nudist. - Submit your Dilemon Check out our Amazon Storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH (FREE TEE with every purchase!) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Strap in besties, today’s episode is a full plate served hot with extra chicken salt. We debrief on our poddy Xmas party and the importance of a good theme. Then Gem has a story that doubles as an important reminder to teach your kids your phone number. We also dive into raising respectful sons, finding the right role models, and what it really means to raise boys who grow up to be good huma...

Today's caller wants to reduce her Christmas mental load without losing the magic. - Check out our Amazon Storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH (FREE TEE with every purchase!) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The gals are spiralling straight into the vortex of modern motherhood. First up: Revz has an update on her Roblox story. Hallelujah! It’s Perinatal Mental Health Week, Gem reflects on her perinatal experience and please, DLs, if you need it, there is so much support for you. Meanwhile, Revz needs to vent about her shit-box car, and speaking of, why can’t we have nice things with kids a...

This week's caller doesn't know if she should send her kid's school an email or just keep quiet. - Check out our Amazon Storefront LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Gem’s found a rogue black hair in a  very unexpected place, and naturally… it’s peri until proven otherwise. Meanwhile, Revz has had a financial fright courtesy of her child and a very large in-app purchase. Cue a deep dive into kids, devices and digital chaos. How the hell are we meant to keep boundaries, when ours are hanging by a thread?   #Notspons R: Made by Fress...

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Revz kicks off the episode with the ultimate jar-opening hack—it might just change your life. Then we dive into godparents and why, honestly, we should be allowed to choose our own. Next up: the great hair-in-your-food debate. Would you say A) it’s not that bad, or B) that food is dead to me? Spoiler: opinions get heated. And parents, pay attention: Gem has a PSA you don’t want t...

This week's caller needs her husband to get a social life.  - LIVE SHOW MERCH (use code 4UDL for FREE SHIPPING) Subscribe to MORE TIME on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.