We Do Whatever It Takes

Send us Fan Mail Podcast #13- Tricks to Becoming Wise with Finances Intro- I am a professional magician and a pastor. I am working towards my license as a Marriage and Family Therapist. K- when it comes to money, have to be on the same page- otherwise arguments and frustrations.  -we have had our ups and downs for sure -we started with $1000, used credit cards, etc, -2008 recession caused all of o...

Send us Fan Mail Podcast #12- Escaping Traps of Social Media Intro- I am a professional magician and a pastor. I am working towards my license as a Marriage and Family Therapist. K- As a magician, tell us about trap doors and what does that have to do with social media  D- discuss trap doors in magic -discuss trap doors in marriages (social media) K- some of the dangers and pitfalls= -comparison,...

Send us Fan Mail Fear in our Marriages Intro-  I am a professional magician and a pastor. I am working towards my license as a Marriage and Family Therapist. K-Today we are talking about fears that we have in our marriages and how they affect us. D- First of all, our beliefs determine our actions. (Repeat) Explain K- We all have fears, but some of them come from lies we believe or lies we have bee...

Send us Fan Mail Intro- D- creating magic in the bedroom requires more than one trick up your sleeve. In fact it demands that you are on your A game in all areas of communication. So that means talking about what you both need to make the magic happen. We have to be open with each other and talk about sex, even if it’s awkward, uncomfortable, embarrassing, or even painful because of past trauma. K...

Send us Fan Mail Danny- intro Kim- last episode we talked about conflict in your marriage. Today we are going to continue that conversation and also talk about ways you can be prepared for conflict. Here are a few tips  Danny-  How you talk to your spouse matters Everyday starts out fresh! Bring up grievances as they occur Overlook an offense if possible. Prepare for conflict- as a magician being...

Send us Fan Mail Kim- intro who I am-MS in Counseling Psychology  Danny- intro who he is & what he does  Danny- story about same trick lots of ways & new view on conflict  Kim- I used to see conflict as a bad thing, I’m a peacemaker  But now I understand it as a way of bringing glory to God even in the midst of a heated argument  Danny- some people actually enjoy a good fight. See it as a...

Send us Fan Mail What you say, when you say it & how you say it matters!  Kim- and sometimes it’s a script that we say. Just like you as a magician or any performer memorizes a script, we actually have scripts in our marriages Danny- example of first year of marriage same fight kept coming up  Kim- the longer you have been married, the more unhealthy scripts you might have. To truly experience...

Send us Fan Mail Read your wife’s mind K- intro, so what on earth do you mean when you say you can teach people to read minds? D- mentalists K- reminder that the point of this is not entertainment but it’s how we should be loving our spouse.  K- THE KEY IS INFORMATION!!! Ask questions- read the room, don’t assume, and get more information by asking husband or wife what was the best or most difficu...

Send us Fan Mail The best mind readers study body language, have an uncanny ability to observe the smallest details, gather information surreptitiously, ask the right questions, and listen to everything. An old joke among mentalists (those who supposedly read minds) goes like this: you know it’s bad when you have to put your glasses on to read someone’s mind. Information Is the Key 1. Ask Question...

Send us Fan Mail Secrets are for magicians, not marriages. As a magician, I don’t keep secrets from people; I keep secrets for people. If I shared the secrets of my illusions, the audience would miss out on the wonder, the magic, and the astonishment of a great show. In a marriage, secrets destroy trust, kill hope, and cause spouses to miss out on the beautiful friendship they could have with each...

Send us Fan Mail Put simply,  learning to be thankful in our marriages changes the trajectory or our lives.

Send us Fan Mail Today, we are talking about focusing on the things that matter. We are a magician & an (almost) therapist and we do whatever it takes to have a thriving marriage. We have tips and tricks to help you do the same! https://wedowhateverittakes.com

Send us Fan Mail