We Chat Divorce Podcast

If you’ve ever stared at a four-figure legal invoice and thought, “Where did my money go?” — this episode is for you. In this episode, Catherine and Karen break down the true cost of divorce and share how to spot red flags, avoid wasteful spending, and build a lean, efficient legal team. You'll hear about real-life examples of inflated invoices, underused experts, and clients who got burned by not...

In this powerful episode of WeChat Divorce, hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan welcome Samantha Boss, high-conflict divorce coach and certified mediator, to discuss what a real parenting plan should look like—and why the standard legal templates aren’t nearly enough. Drawing from her personal experience and professional work with divorcing parents, Samantha shares why parenting plans must...

Hosts: Catherine Shanahan, CDFA & Karen Chellew, Legal LiaisonPresented by: My Divorce Solution You’ve done the work, your mediation date is approaching—and your spouse has barely provided more than a screenshot or two of their accounts. What now? In this episode, Catherine and Karen take you behind the scenes of what happens when mediation is scheduled but the documents just aren’t there. They wa...

In this empowering episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan welcome financial powerhouse Laura Webb, founder of Webb Investment Services and an advocate for women’s financial empowerment. Together, they dive deep into the emotional and practical barriers that keep women from owning their financial lives — and how to overcome them. From personal money stories to professional...

In this episode of WeChat Divorce, co-founders Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan unpack the themes from Time Magazine’s viral article, “When Having It All Becomes Wanting a Divorce” by Ada Calhoun. They explore the emotional and financial realities facing Gen X women navigating midlife questions, career shifts, and marriage fatigue. Drawing from personal experience and professional expertise, K...

In this powerful episode, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with Imago Relationship Therapist Colleen Kowal to explore the emotional complexities of marriage, divorce, and co-parenting. Drawing from her personal journey and years of professional experience, Colleen shares how relationship dynamics can lead to disconnect—and more importantly, how intentional conversations, discernment,...

In this episode, Karen and Catherine discuss the financial impact of starting divorce from the courtroom versus the kitchen table — and why preparation is everything, especially in high-conflict and high net worth cases. They break down costly mistakes, emotional traps, and the importance of data-driven decisions over emotional reactions. Mentioned in the Episode: AMG National Trust article on fin...

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen and Catherine sit down with Shannon McGorry, a PCC-level ICF-accredited coach and founder of Love Strength and Grace. Shannon shares her personal divorce journey and how it led her to empower women through coaching. She helps women redefine their future—personally and professionally—by activating their Female Genius. Key Takeaways: 🔹 The Power of the Pivo...

In this episode of Divorce Explored, Karen and Catherine dive into a timely AARP article, "Financial Checklist for Remarrying After 50." Together, they unpack the essential financial considerations and emotional conversations you should have before saying "I do" again—whether you're 50 or not. Drawing from their personal experiences and professional expertise, they explore topics like: ✅ Exchangi...

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with Nicole Farhat, a Certified Divorce Coach and former My Divorce Solution (MDS) client. Nicole shares her personal journey through divorce and how MDS empowered her with financial clarity, saving her thousands in legal fees while securing a successful financial outcome. From skepticism about her spouse’s par...

Tax season comes around fast, and for those navigating divorce, tax decisions can feel overwhelming. In this episode, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan break down the key considerations you need to keep in mind when filing your taxes before, during, or after divorce. Key Takeaways: ✔️ Filing Status Matters – Understanding the differences between filing jointly, married filing separately, head o...

Divorce is a life-changing legal and financial process, but understanding your rights and financial landscape can make all the difference. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we sit down with top divorce attorney and award-winning author, Bree Sullivan Howell, Esq., to discuss financial clarity, courtroom strategies, and common pitfalls in divorce settlements. Bree shares insights from her 20+ yea...

Divorce is already an emotionally charged and financially challenging process—but what happens when the industry itself makes things even harder? In this episode, Karen and Catherine pull back the curtain on the divorce process, shedding light on inefficiencies, costly mistakes, and systemic issues that can leave individuals feeling powerless. They discuss why so many divorcing individuals struggl...

Navigating co-parenting after divorce is challenging, especially when it comes to balancing custody, finances, and communication. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we sit down with attorney Nicole Kobis to discuss how to create a strong parenting plan that prioritizes the well-being of children while maintaining financial stability. Nicole brings her legal expertise in family law, mediation, and...

Divorce isn’t just about ending a relationship—it’s about reclaiming your financial future. In this episode, we explore how to navigate the emotional and financial challenges of divorce while setting yourself up for long-term independence. What We Cover: The importance of assessing your financial position before making any major decisions How to understand and differentiate between assets & liabil...

In this insightful episode, Karen and Catherine are joined by dating and relationship expert Bela Gandhi to explore the world of second chances in love and finances after divorce. Bela shares her expertise on how to approach dating with confidence, avoid common pitfalls, and prioritize emotional and financial well-being. Together, they discuss how to rebuild after divorce, recognize red flags in r...

Show Title: Understanding Property Division: What’s Yours, Mine, and Ours? Property division is one of the most complex and emotionally charged aspects of divorce. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen and Catherine break down the process of dividing assets to help listeners gain clarity and confidence. They explore the differences between community property and equitable distribution states,...

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with mortgage advisor Zach Taylor to tackle a significant topic for divorcing couples—navigating mortgage decisions during and after a divorce. From buying out a spouse to managing a marital home or rental property, Zach shares essential mortgage strategies to help you make informed financial decisions during this ch...

In this episode of Divorce Explored, Karen and Catherine discuss why having "The Money Talk" before separating is essential. They explain how premature financial decisions can harm future negotiations and why understanding your full financial picture is critical. This conversation aims to empower listeners to make informed decisions during divorce by fostering financial transparency and clarity. K...

Welcome to We Chat Divorce! In this episode, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan are joined by special guests Jamie Berger and Sarah Jacobs, co-founders of Jacobs Berger, LLC, a boutique divorce and family law firm in Morristown, New Jersey. Together, they discuss the four key things you should know before hiring a divorce attorney and how the legal process can better support divorcing families....

In this special episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan dive into one of the most common New Year’s resolutions: the decision to get a divorce. January, often referred to as “divorce month,” is a time when many begin to confront the realities of their relationships and plan for a fresh start. If you’re thinking about divorce, already in the process, or supporting someone o...

🎄 Happy Holidays from We Chat Divorce! In this special Christmas Day episode, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew reflect on the challenges and opportunities the holidays bring, especially when navigating divorce. They share heartfelt stories, practical advice, and thoughtful ideas to help you find peace and joy during the season. Whether you're co-parenting, newly divorced, or years into your j...

Karen and Catherine are joined by the esteemed Susan Guthrie to discuss an often-overlooked yet critical aspect of divorce: the power of pausing. Susan shares her decades of experience as a top family law attorney and mediator, emphasizing how taking a pause can create space for rational decisions, foster cooperation, and significantly reduce conflict during divorce. Key Takeaways: The Importance...

To close out 2024, we’re reflecting on some of our top podcasts, continuing with this impactful episode. Originally published on August 2, 2023, this episode is part of our Best of We Chat Divorce series. Original Episode Title: 5 Ways to Identify Financial Exploitation When Divorcing a Narcissist Hosts: Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan Key Discussion Points: How narcissists use public generos...

The Best of We Chat Divorce: Top Tips and Advice To close out 2024, we’re reflecting on some of our top podcasts, beginning with this impactful episode. Originally published on July 26, 2023, this episode is part of our Best of We Chat Divorce series. Original Episode Title: Overcoming Shame and Fear in Divorce Hosts: Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan Guest: Caroline Strawson, Award-Winning Tra...