we are NOT the SAME

Send us Fan Mail After a heavy episode about ketamine therapy, Heather and Lacey lighten the mood with a nostalgic game of "Never Have I Ever" that quickly spirals into a hilarious confessional of their wild pasts. What begins as innocent reminiscing transforms into a revealing glimpse of their journey from chaotic youth to calm adulthood. The hosts trade shocking stories that will have...

Send us Fan Mail Stepping into the world of ketamine therapy isn't just about finding another treatment—it's about discovering possibility when hope seems lost. In this illuminating conversation with Tina from the Ketamine Clinic of Spokane, we peel back the layers of misconception surrounding this powerful therapeutic tool that's transforming mental health care. Ketamine has suffer...

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes the most meaningful realizations happen when you're not trying to have them. This episode begins with celebrating a small victory—finally setting up our video camera after years of saying we would—before diving into the fascinating results of our dating app experiment. The numbers don't lie: over 1,750 likes for one host while the other had a dramatically diffe...

Send us Fan Mail From awkward teenage proposals to social media engagement stunts we never agreed to, our worst proposal stories reveal the messy reality behind those picture-perfect moments everyone expects. Nothing says romance like being proposed to at "the dystopian version of Chuck E. Cheese" on April Fool's Day, or waking up at 3 AM to a boyfriend suddenly deciding marriage wi...

Send us Fan Mail In this hilarious and eye-opening episode of We Are NOT the SAME, hosts Lacey and Heather dive into the wild world of dating apps! Buckle up as they share their latest updates on the apps they've downloaded—it's a journey filled with unexpected surprises and more than a few good laughs! Heather reveals some of the outrageous messages she’s received, and trust us, you won...

Send us Fan Mail In this hilarious episode of We Are NOT the SAME, hosts Lacey and Heather tackle the wild world of therapy—whether you wanted it or not! 🤪 Ever wondered who had therapy forced upon them? Spoiler alert: one of our hosts was committed!  Join us as Lacey and Heather share their most memorable therapy moments, the highs and lows of their mental health journeys, and the laugh-out-loud...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of We Are NOT the SAME, hosts Lacey and Heather are thrilled to welcome a very special guest—Lacey’s sister, Jennifer! Get ready for a brand-new segment called "I Have Notes," where Jennifer dives into the juicy details that we've overlooked—perhaps on purpose!—in our previous stories. It seems Lacey has a talent for telling slightly different versio...

Send us Fan Mail In this humorous episode of We Are Not the Same, hosts Lacey and Heather tackle the ultimate showdown: high maintenance versus low maintenance! Are you the type who spends hours curating the perfect wardrobe, flaunting stylish shoes, and savoring gourmet meals, or do you prefer rocking that no-makeup look while living off takeout and comfy sweats? Join us as we dissect the colorfu...

Send us Fan Mail In this riveting episode of We Are Not the Same, we delve into the high-stakes courtroom drama surrounding Johnny Bravo. Charged with eight counts of stealing and trafficking Heather's stolen property, Johnny has perplexingly entered a plea of not guilty, after admitting to the detectives he in fact committed the crime, all the while squeezed into a too-tight borrowed suit. K...

Send us Fan Mail How do you honor a life lost in a split-second heroic act? Together with my best friend Laci, we unravel the deeply personal story of becoming a widow—a side of my life I've seldom shared. We journey back to the fateful day of June 26th, 2020, when an unforeseen river tragedy forever altered the course of my life. Through candid and unscripted dialogue, we confront the raw em...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of We Are Not The Same, join hosts Lacey and Heather as they dive into the wild saga of Johnny Bravo's fall from grace! 😲 Hear Heather's firsthand account of being ensnared in his con and how the Spokane PD delivered some serious justice! 🚓✨ But hold on—there's more! Stick around for part two where we unveil fresh updates that’ll keep your head sp...

Send us Fan Mail Get ready for some jaw-dropping revelations in this episode of We Are Not the Same! Join Heather and Lacey as Lacey spills the tea on her rollercoaster ride involving secret love children that could rival any soap opera plot!  From an engagement shattered by the unexpected news of hidden kids to navigating the hilarious—and sometimes awkward—moments that arise when life throws you...

Send us Fan Mail In this eye-opening episode, hosts Heather and Lacey dive deep into the world of "Pick-Me Girls." What drives some women to seek validation at the expense of others? Are they truly just trying to fit in, or is there more beneath the surface?   Get ready for candid discussions, personal stories, and thought-provoking insights as we explore the dynamics of women supporting...

Send us Fan Mail In this hilariously unsettling episode of We Are Not The Same, your favorite hosts Lacey and Heather dive into their wildest (and most awkward) stalking stories! From weird messages that make you cringe to surprising encounters with former crushes, they've got tales that’ll make you laugh, gasp, and maybe even check your closet.  Join the duo as they explore the bizarre behav...

Send us Fan Mail Dive into the vibrant world of auras with hosts Lacey and Heather as they chat with the insightful Mandy, an aura reader extraordinaire! In this episode, we uncover the colors that define Lacey and Heather's energies and explore what they really mean for our personalities and experiences. And just for a laugh, we even got a glimpse of Johnny Bravo's aura — or was it just...

Send us Fan Mail In this feathered-filled episode of "We Are Not the Same," hosts Heather and Lacey dive into the captivating world of peacocking! Join them as they explore the psychology behind ostentatious behavior and flashy fashion designed to capture attention. Lacey spills the tea on why Heather seems to fall for these bold displays every time, leading to hilarious stories and rela...

Send us Fan Mail Get in, witches! We are going hexing! Join Heather and Lacey as they welcome special guest Jenessa, a powerful witch who specializes in protection and hexing.  In this magical episode, we’ll dive into the art of hexing—what it means, how it’s done, and the positive impact it can have on your life. Jenessa shares her extraordinary journey, revealing how her craft has provided not o...

Send us Fan Mail In this playful episode of "We Are NOT the Same," Lacey and Heather invite you to dive deep into their personalities as they tackle an array of quirky questions! Who is the messiest? Who’s the best dancer? Get ready to discover the unique traits that make these two hosts truly one-of-a-kind! Tune in for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of fun as they reveal just how qui...

Send us Fan Mail In this jaw-dropping episode of "Ultimate Con," Lacey and Heather take you on a wild journey through one of the craziest true crime stories out there!  Meet the ultimate con artist—blessed with the looks of Johnny Bravo and the conning charm of the Tinder Swindler.  Heather shares her shocking personal experience of being lured into a web of deceit, only to discover the...

Send us Fan Mail Get ready for some laughs as host Heather, affectionately known as "Cinderella," takes center stage in this episode! Join her and co-host Lacey as they dive into Heather's hilarious sleep saga—where bars turn into her personal cozy couches and random houses become her unexpected bedtime retreats!  Listen as Lacey roasts Heather for her epic inability to keep her eye...

Send us Fan Mail Join Lacey and Heather as they dive into the unforgettable chaos of a weekend in Seattle! Get ready for a rollercoaster of laughter as they share wild tales of lost phones, rompers worn backwards, and a night filled with too much fun and surprising adventures.  But wait, there’s more! Discover the mystery behind the attempt to “shank” a dude with a beer bottle! Tune in for an epis...

Send us Fan Mail Ever feel like you’re just an iceberg, floating through life serenely while beneath the surface lies a world filled with hidden struggles?  Join us this week as we dive deep into the complexities of our lives—where trauma, unhealthy coping mechanisms, and a splash of dark humor lurk beneath the calm exterior.  Check out our latest episode: Life as an Iceberg - because sometimes, i...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to We are NOT the SAME, where we tackle life’s quirks with humor! In this hilarious episode, we’re unpacking the wild world of beauty standards and the great debate: fillers vs. filters. Join us as we explore the absurdity of relying on digital filters to look good in photos, only to show up in real life looking like a completely different person! We’ll share uproario...

Send us Fan Mail Join Heather and Lacey for their FIRST EPISODE of We are NOT the SAME, RED FLAGS! We ALL have a type, this may definitely be Lacey's, Heather's, or both!  Support the show