Violet Lange's Pleasure Path

Have you ever had a prayer for partnership, but felt forlorn? Do you believe there's a spiritual dimension to finding love? In this episode, my special guest Zev Aaron talks about matchmaking as a path to meet your partner—but not traditional matchmaking. He and I also discuss embodiment, being human, accountability (especially for men), and the courage for women to open and blossom so they mi...

What if love isn’t something you find — but something you practice? In this episode, I’m sharing a deeper, embodied conversation about love: not the fantasy version we’re sold, not the pressure-filled performance we see on social media, but the kind of love that lives in the body… and is actually sustainable. Toward the end of the episode, I introduce  Love, Integrated  — my new 12-week initiation...

In this episode, I sit down with my husband Jason Lange and our dear friend Luke Adler to introduce The Heart of Shadow for Women, a program we've been dreaming about for years and are finally bringing to life. We dive deep into what shadow work actually is, why it's so transformative when done in community, and how this embodied, somatic approach differs from other modalities. Jason and L...

Did you know menopause can be a way to improve your love life? That intimacy, connection, and commitment can actually improve -- whether you're single or partnered? Listen now to the hidden opportunities in this season of renewed vitality and confidence, with my special guest Jo Ann Panneton. Learn more about, and join, her program helping women to THRIVE through menopause at  Your Invitation...

In this episode my husband Jason and I break down why your relationship can’t always be sunny and perfect—and why that’s actually a good thing. We walk through the four seasons of relationships and the reality of how different parts of your partnership can be in completely different seasons at the same time. Your sex life might be in spring while your emotional connection is in winter, and not kno...

Ever get freaked out in your relationship? Do your worries take away from the love you want to build? It’s normal to feel fear in relationship but don’t let it sabotage you both. Listen now to hear our Five Scariest Moments as a Couple and the key ways we worked through them to strengthen our love. Join our FREE connection night for couples at https://evolutionarycouples.us/evolutionofus Join our...

Discover the secrets to a sizzling sex life that keeps getting better and better year after year! In this episode, Jason and I reveal our sexual journey, sharing candid tips on maintaining erotic energy and emotional connection. Learn why safety, vulnerability, and shared responsibility are the keys to unlocking unparalleled pleasure and deepening your bond. Whether you're struggling with sexu...

In this episode, my husband Jason and I dive deep into the raw, real, and often messy side of relationships by sharing our three biggest fights and lessons from them. From trust issues and emotional disregulation to financial stress and fertility struggles, we explore how rupture and repair are essential for growth in any partnership. We also introduce our new programs, Evolutionary Couples &...

If you only had about 2 hours a week to spend on your relationship, how could you use that time most wisely? The truth is relationships can be incredibly challenging, especially in today’s fast-paced world where it can be hard to prioritize the relationship. Even when partners deeply love each other, they may face difficulties in maintaining passion, resolving conflicts, and growing together over...

How do you awaken an innocent connection to your body and the Earth? How do you reclaim all of the parts of you, and be witnessed in your fullness? How can you access greater truth, power, freedom and love? Tune in to hear more about Wild Sensuality including details on my upcoming retreat in November: https://violetlange.com/wild-sensuality-retreat/ Click the icon below to listen.     &...

Fire + fire will burn out...balancing the elements in our relationships, and in ourselves, is key. Learn how to tap into your elemental sensuality and alchemize stuck areas, so you can plant the seeds of your vision of love. For more practice and support in this area, check out my Wild Sensuality retreat at https://violetlange.com/wild-sensuality-retreat/ or my Sacred Sensuality program https://vi...

Going through a lull, or a total freeze, in your sex life? Not feeling very sexy or radiant? Tune in for a unique perspective on turn-on. To sign up for Sacred Sexuality visit https://violetlange.com/sacred-sensuality/ Click the icon below to listen.          

Ever wonder if your "picker" is broken? Have you unknowingly fallen for the same type of person again and again? Listen to learn how to change your patterns of attraction and stop falling for your dating "catnip." Click the icon below to listen.          

Creating healthy love isn't just about affirmations or a checklist. Bring your list to life with this episode and get tips for speeding up the process. Click the icon below to listen.          

My guest Melanie Curtin, host of the Dear Men Podcast, joins to share three things you might not know about men, dating, and sex. Find out more about her at www.melaniecurtin.com Click the icon below to listen.          

If you feel stuck in negative beliefs or have great self-care but something seems missing, listen for how to dial up your self-love to level fierce. The book mentioned: No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz. Click the icon below to listen.          

Emotional and physical intimacy can sweep us away, but practical intimacy is what sustains a relationship. It's also the missing piece to make dating more efficient and effective. Click the icon below to listen.          

Ever let resentments pile up like the dishes, then just avoid them? If you want a smoother, easier relationship or dating experience, listen now. Click the icon below to listen.          

You might be surprised to discover that good men are everywhere if you know how to look. Tune in to this episode to find out how to make it easy to find a great man. Click the icon below to listen.          

If you feel like love is just out of reach, this episode is for you. Learn how using archetypes can bring love even closer to you. Click the icon below to listen.          

Want that sizzle, that dazzle, that magical mystique? Of course you do. Everyone does. And if you're in a long-term relationship, it can feel harder to maintain that over time. We're witnessing an epidemic of sexless relationships — some studies put it at 15% of all marriages. When it comes to sex, sensuality, and a woman's erotic essence, it can be easy to lose. One way this can show...

In this episode of my Dating with Pleasure series, I share about the joy of aligning with the right time to date. Should you date after a divorce? When is your heart ready? what if you're sick of the apps and want to take a break? I answer all these questions and more so listen now. Click the icon below to listen.          

This series of episodes is all about dating with pleasure -- bringing the joy, fun, and romance back to our opening to love. One of the biggest complaints I hear is about dating apps, yet, over 50 million people use them. Tune in to hear how to make this process fruitful and fulfilling! Click the icon below to listen.          

Reclaiming and embodying our sexual wholeness is a gift to ourselves, our partners, and the world. Listen as Rahi Chun, host of the Organic Sexuality podcast, shares his wisdom as a practitioner and healer. Click the icon below to listen.          

What is life without beauty and ritual? Listen in as my special guest Caren Chroma and I talk about adornment as soul empowerment, and how body-painting helps us to celebrate our ever-changing identities. IG: @carenchroma https://www.carenchroma.com/ Click the icon below to listen.