Unfiltered with Sahar

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I am back with another solo after taking a month off to be in the moment and tend to my own mental health. I give you guys an update on Blondie, now that you've all HALF seen him, and fill you in on where I am mentally. emotionally and hormonally. Questions of the week are back and we cover topics from types of protection, sexual liberation, moving in with a p...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I give you guys a life update about a recent "hubby material" date I went on that turned into a fifty shades of grey experience and consequent wake up call to ask myself the question of "What do I even want?". It also forced me to rethink many emotions and take a few steps back and come back to reality. Hot Sahar Summer is a mindset, a lifestyle...

Send us Fan Mail In this episodes life update I talk about the problems I've been having recently with the shit storm of emotions that are being thrown my way and how I'm trying to navigate through them to the best of my ability within an open, ethically non monogamous partnership. I talk about a newly created term "JAGH AND JAVAB" and I answer your questions ranging from what...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I give you guys a tumultuous life update after a brief 2 week hiatus.  It includes: Sex on molly, emotional connections,  deep stares into the others eyes, flowers at 1am, post period orgasms and the question that has had my mind at odds for weeks... "What does I love you even mean?" As usual I also answer some questions on the week sent in by you sexy hu...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I start off with a long held in rant about haters and how they can suck my D. A life update about a date night with blondie and what the rollercoaster of my feelings is at now. I then go on to share some of YOUR crazy date/sex stories and comment on them in true Sahar style. Using a cucumber? Sleeping with a Pablo Escobar type gangster? Yeaaaah you guys are WILD! A...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I give you guys another life update after taking two weeks off for Norooz... and let me tell you, it will NOT disappoint. --- What started as a friends night out at a drag show turned into a sexual experience I still can't get over. In conclusion, everyone should have sex positive friends who want to play together. --- Update on last episodes Blondie situation...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I bring on my friend Armin to have a chat together about all things related to gender, sex and what it means to be non-binary. We talk about their journey to their identity, polyamory, GHEYRATI men and they teach me about "cruising" and sex parties. I also give you guys a life update. What is the line between a FWB and a relationship? What is deemed coupl...

Send us Fan Mail This episode makes up for the dryness of last week. This week I talk about a recent Blondie success story. (No more fails this time) and what it feels like to be in a more dominant headspace in bed as a woman. (Ps: Have you ever gotten fucked while making breakfast?) I share two funny sex stories from my early 20s that literally made me cringe thinking about them again and how I m...

Send us Fan Mail This weeks life update is pretty dry and pretty awkward... kinda like the first time you had sex. I did however realize that I am capable of feeling butterflies and shedding the boss bitch guards I have up if I genuinely like the guy. Ugh... call the exterminator, this bitch felt a feeling. As usual I also cover topics you've sent in like: - Squirting - How to ask your partne...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I talk about what the equivalent to lingerie would be for men, why being a girl is SO FUCKING EXPENSIVE and how 69-ing is the worst position in the world. I answer questions of the week about how to communicate better in bed, how women should  ALWAYS orgasm BEFORE the guy and I finally give you my tips on how to successfully SDT it up with some basic techniques. Go...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I talk about a recent disastrous fail I had with a toy which leads to a rant on social stigma around mens sexuality and exploration. I then talk get into questions of the week and talk about the daunting "what are we" question that comes in early on in dating, whether or not you should fuck with a married man and what I miss about couple life. Last week I...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode the GIRLS ARE IN TOWN! Yasi, Sahar and Melieka came to Toronto to visit me and we all went to Atoussa's house one night to drink, bond and record this podcast for you. We cover lots of deep topics and open up to each other about our upbringings, our culture, our grievances and our best memories of 2021 ALL WHILE getting progressively more drunk minute by minut...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I give you guys yet another single sahar life update where I teach you the meaning of what it means to be YOBS and then rant about YOBS kissers who ultimately give you YOBS orgasms. I literally did research for this episode so ya'll better appreciate me taking one for the team. I then go on to talk about sexting, the different styles you can use with a partner...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I finally spill two stories from my LA trip this summer and then dive into talking about kinks, your sexual bucket list and what your sexual partner body count should be! Song used: Double Dosing by Nicole Glazunov

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I bring back Atoussa as we sit down and go over the SHIT STORM of a week I had in my current dating life. We RAGE, RANT AND VENT over the misogyny that still exists to this day, the sexualization, mixed signals and "DICKY BRAIN" of Persian men and their obliviousness to it all. I have a couple of epiphanies and we both agree that I lost my mind for a seco...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I answer questions sent in from the listeners. TURN OFFS DURING SEX? Should you move to another city/country for someone you love? How to not feel shy to ask a guy to LICK THE KITTY. My thoughts on having anal sex AAAAAND finally some dating app profile horror stories.

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I was inspired by my girl Atoussa saying that I'm a "professional dater" and so I thought I'd come and give you guys my strategies and tricks that I've picked up in the past month since being back in Toronto. I also answer your questions about masturbation stigma, sending nudes and the age old question of "when is a good time to finall...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I answer some questions sent in from the listeners: Do I want kids? What turns me on? What advice would I give my 18 year old self? What is DICK AND DEKLAMEH? I also give yet another #SingleSahar life update about how I got ghosted and how you should deal with being ghosted by someone. 

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I talk about body positivity and being a confident bad bitch no matter what size you are. I also bring on my friend Dan who gives his take as a male and why he proudly says he is attracted to plus sized girls. I then give you bitches an update on my single life so far (I almost became a dominatrix) and talk about why I am polyamorous and believe that monogamy is a...

Send us Fan Mail I'm back from LA with tons of vlog style podcasts from my birthday weekend and an update on my newly SINGLE STATUS BABYYYYYYY! SEASON 2 BEGINS NOW!

Send us Fan Mail On this episode I sit down with my sister in LA to talk about our childhood and give you guys an official introduction into what people call "the mini me version of Sahar but worse" (in a good way)

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Send us Fan Mail In this episode I sit down and talk about running into an ex-friends-with-benefits and being an assertive Bad Bitch and going after what you want. Getting a glimpse into the dating world and re-learning who I would be in this world has opened up my eyes to how I work and I thought I'd share to gain some insight and see if you guys feel the same way too. ooh and Erfan makes a...

Send us Fan Mail Aftahill is back! We sat in his studio, pressed record and had a organic unfiltered chat about anything and everything. We get high (literally) and low, covering topics like my first porn experience, weddings and if humans are truly monogamous.  Follow @aftahill on Instagram  AND don't forget to rate the podcast and leave a review!

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I sit down with Fared after connecting on clubhouse. I get to know more about him, a Texas born Iranian who both sings and plays sonati music. We talk about Iranians on clubhouse, 9/11 theories, living in Iran, the styles of sonati music and growing up with two cultures.  Follow him on IG @faredshafinury ... and don't forget to rate the podcast and leave a rev...