UncommonTEEN for Christian Teen Girls

Is modesty just about hemlines and necklines? Or is it something way deeper than that? In Part 2 of our modesty conversation, Jamie sits down with Rosie, Kayleigh, and Sadie to dig into what modesty actually looks like from the inside out. They talk about the difference between expressing yourself and seeking attention, why confidence in Christ changes everything about the way you carry yourself,...

Let's talk about modesty.   No guilt trips. No dress codes. No lectures. Just Coach Jamie and some of our favorite teen voices sitting down to have a conversation that most people are too scared to start.    Here's the truth: modesty was never meant to be about what we wear. It was about what's happening in our hearts. And in a world that's constantly telling us what to wear, what to show, and wha...

You have a list. Things you want to be different when you walk back into school this fall — less anxiety, more peace, bolder faith, actually liking who you see in the mirror. But here's the truth nobody's going to sugarcoat for you: just because you want something doesn't mean you're going to get it. In order to see a change, you need to change. This summer is not a pause from becoming — it's the...

Have you been hiding your light? Not because the light went out — but because fear, insecurity, or the pressure to fit in talked you into staying small? In this episode, Coach Jamie gets real about what it actually means to shine different — and why blending in is costing you more than you think. We're diving into Acts 4:13 and talking about what God says about ordinary girls doing extraordinary t...

Are you actually living like a Christian — or just blending in? Jesus didn't suggest it. He said you are the salt of the earth and the light of the world. But what happens when salt loses its flavor? What happens when you hide your light because of fear or peer pressure? In this episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast, Coach Jamie breaks down Matthew 5:13-16 and gets really honest about what it looks...

God Called Him a Warrior While He Was Hiding | The Story of Gideon Have you ever looked at your past mistakes, your failures, your insecurities — and wondered how God could ever use someone like you? Girl, you are not alone. And you're not the first. In this episode, Coach Jamie walks through the story of Gideon — a scared, insecure nobody that God called a mighty warrior — and what that means for...

Have you ever wanted a mentor but had NO idea how to actually find one? 👇 Reese asked the question so many of you have thought but never said out loud — and today we're answering it. In this episode, Coach Jamie breaks down: What a mentor actually IS (and isn't) Why God never intended you to do life alone What to look for in a godly mentor The exact steps to finding one — even if you don't know w...

Let’s be real. The culture is obsessed with making us want to blend in. It’s like there’s this unspoken rule that says you have to follow the trends to be okay. But here’s the truth: God didn’t design you to blend in. He called you to stand out. Welcome back to Part 2 of our "Us vs. The Culture" series on the UncommonTEEN Podcast! In this episode, Coach Jamie is joined by co-hosts Kayleigh, Rosie,...

Why Being "Different" is Your Greatest Superpower 👑 | Us Vs. The Culture You weren’t made to blend in. In a world that constantly pressures you to conform, follow the crowd, and chase instant gratification, standing out for God can feel lonely—but it’s where your true power lies. In this episode, Coach Jamie Kirschner and her cohosts: Kayleigh, Rosie, and Sadie dive deep into the story of Daniel...

Do you ever feel like you’re replaying your mistakes on a loop? Maybe you’ve asked God to forgive you, but you still feel like you’re wearing a "scarlet letter." You feel heavy, stuck, and honestly, a little bit broken. If you’re wondering why you still feel so much guilt even after you’ve prayed, this episode was made just for you. Today, we’re peeling back the layers on what’s actually happening...

Do you ever feel like you're living a double life? You look like the "perfect Christian girl" on the outside, but on the inside, you're carrying a weight you don't think anyone would understand. In today’s episode, Coach Jamie is dropping the excuses and picking up the roadmap to freedom. Whether it’s an addiction, a relationship that doesn't honor God, or a secret struggle with people-pleasing, y...

"I wasn't invited." "I'm not good enough." "Just one more chapter/scroll..." Ever feel like your mind is a battlefield you’re losing? In Part 1 of this new series, Coach Jamie reveals the playbook the enemy uses to turn a simple thought into a life-altering temptation. It’s not just about what you’re thinking; it’s about how the enemy uses your emotions to set a trap. If you’ve ever felt like a ho...

Is it "just a phase?" Do you find that are you drifting? Did you know that 71% of Christian teens who leave the church don't leave because something big happened—they leave because they simply stopped caring. If you feel like your faith is stuck in "room temperature" or you're more worried about your Instagram feed than your Bible, this video is for you. We’re diving into the "Apathy Trap" and how...

Does God really care about me? Do I really matter? Does God actually have a plan for my life, or am I just...here? If you've ever sat in your room wondering if God really cares about you or if you really matter, this episode is for you. Today, we're breaking down 5 big questions every teen girls asks. We're talking about your worth, if what you really do matters, and why the Created of the univers...

Being a teen girl today feels like a constant battle of "not enough." Not pretty enough, not successful enough, not holyenough. In Part 2 of our special AMA series, we are sitting down with Coach Jamie and her teen co-hosts to answer your heart-heavy questions about insecurity and self-worth. Join us for an honest conversation based on the questions you submitted. We’re tackling the "Enemy’s tacti...

Ever looked in the mirror and asked, “Why did you make me like this?” or felt like you’re constantly falling short of the girls on your feed? You aren't alone. In this episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast, Jamie Kirschner is joined by Rosie, Sadie, and Kayleigh to tear down the lies of "not being enough." We’re diving deep into the comparison trap, the toxic side of social media, and—most important...

Tired of Wearing a Mask? 💖 Do you ever feel like you’re hiding behind a wall of "I’m fine," while struggling with fear or rejection on the inside? You aren't alone. In this episode, Coach Jamie gets vulnerable about her journey from living in a mental prison to finding true freedom in Christ. We’re talking about "strongholds"—those pesky lies that tell you you aren't good enough—and how to use th...

Is your internal soundtrack lying to you? 🎧💔  Have you ever felt like a "disappointment," "not enough," or just totally invisible?  Most of us have a loop of thoughts playing in our heads that we didn't even choose.  In this video, we’re looking at a woman in Mark 5 who was stuck in a 12-year loop of pain and rejection—until she changed what she was saying to herself. Stop the negative loop and...

🎧 Episode Show Notes: The Idol Audit Host: Coach Jamie Guests: Sadie, Kaleigh, and Rosie In this episode, the girls get real about the things that compete for God's place in our hearts. From the "Spotify struggle" to the conviction of James 4:17, learn how to identify if your "good" things have become "God" things. 📍 Timestamps 00:00 – The App Challenge: Could you delete your favorite app if God...

Is your "best friend" actually draining your spirit? Today, we’re uncovering 3 types of toxic friendships and how to protect your peace without losing your heart.   "Blowing out someone else’s candle will never make yours shine brighter." But what happens when the person trying to blow out your candle is the one you trust the most?   In this episode of the Uncommon Teen Podcast, Coach Jamie breaks...

Ever felt like this? You planned something special and everyone bailed—leaving you wondering if something's wrong with you? That crushing feeling of rejection can spiral fast. In this episode, we're diving into a total mental revolution—learning how to renew our minds to Christ and break free from the lies the enemy has been feeding us. Coach Jamie shares a raw, personal story about a Bible study...

Is teen dating a harmless playground or a high-stakes path to your future? In this episode, Coach Jamie and her teen co-hosts pull back the curtain on the "casual dating" lie. We’re diving deep into why your relationship status shouldn't define you, the hidden risks of "missionary dating," and how to spot a "non-negotiable" before you lose your heart (and your identity). Whether you’re currently c...

Feeling like the only one without a boyfriend? 😅 In this episode, we’re peeling back the layers on teen dating culture and why the "pressure to pair up" is actually a trap. We talk about guarding your heart, why your identity isn't found in a relationship status, and the power of waiting for the person God has for you. If you’ve ever felt "behind" because you’re single, this conversation is for y...

Are you feeling the pressure to have a perfect 5-year plan before you even graduate high school? 😫 Whether it's choosing a college, a career, or just figuring out what you’re supposed to do "big" for God, the "Purpose Panic" is real. In this episode of UncommonTEEN, we’re breaking down why finding God’s will isn't nearly as complicated as we make it. You aren't a "glitch" in the system. God prepa...

Are you tired of people asking, “So, what’s your plan?” or feeling like you’re the only one who hasn't found their purpose yet? 🙃   If you feel the pressure to have everything figured out or the anxiety of the unknown, this episode is for you.   In today’s episode, Coach Jamie and the girls get real about the "Purpose Panic." We’re breaking down the lie that your worth is tied to your grades, you...