Tyler and Gabriel

Today, we’re joined by Logan and Matty—two opposites who became inseparable after a DM and a 50-hour first date. We talk about falling hard, moving in fast, and how living together early actually helped their relationship grow. They open up about communication styles, therapy, Animal Crossing nights, and building a life full of love, laughter, and a little weed. Also: gym routines, manifestation,...

This week, we’re joined by dancer and performer Ezra Sosa—our officially adopted child. Ezra opens up about growing up queer in conservative Utah, coming into his identity, and the long road from So You Think You Can Dance to Dancing with the Stars . We talk tour life, inner homophobia, queer joy, and why soccer just isn’t doing it for him. Also: Drag Race moments, heat floors, hate comments, and...

This week, we’re joined by Roberto Portales—a Cuban-American platoon leader, former football player, and proud Chatty Cathy (after two drinks). Roberto opens up about growing up in a loud, loving Tampa household, serving in Afghanistan, and coming out later in life—after years of living in hyper-masculine spaces. We talk about West Point hazing, war zone drinking rules, and why masculinity doesn’t...

Today, we chat with the radiant June Jambalaya—drag queen, performer, and Jacksonville native (just like Tyler). June shares her journey from church stages to RuPaul’s Drag Race , how attending an arts high school changed everything, and why drag became her way to reclaim power and tell her story. We talk dance rejection, chosen family, coming out during a hurricane, and the joy of creating space...

This week, we’re joined by the handsome and gravity-defying Reno Gold—OnlyFans creator, pole dancer, fire spinner, and pancake chef. He tells us about growing up all over the U.S., starting gymnastics at age 3, and how stripping led to a career built on fantasy, creativity, and connection. We talk about supportive parents, hotel room living, and the dream of becoming an OF star. Also in this episo...

Brazil is in the house today! Born and raised in Bahia, Brazil and now thriving in Los Angeles, Bruno joins us to share his journey from wild to (mostly) domesticated. He opens up about growing up Catholic, immigrating to the U.S. without speaking English, and finding freedom through drag, love, and a lot of affection—sometimes too much (yes, security was called). We talk culture shock, queer joy,...

This week, we’re joined by Michael and Bruno—two Disney-loving soulmates who, like us, are an American-Brazilian couple building a life across cultures. We talk about the magic of their relationship, from surprising each other early on to proudly owning the title Disney gays . They share stories of pin collecting (with boundaries!), dating rituals, and finding joy in the little things. Bruno opens...

Today, we’re joined by Jordan—a longtime friend of Tyler and a total beam of light. Born in Spiro, Oklahoma, Jordan opens up about growing up Black and biracial in a small town where he never quite fit in—not Black enough for the Black kids, not white enough for the white ones. The youngest of six, he shares how he used humor and heart to survive. We talk about his journey from Oklahoma to Madrid—...

It’s a double date! In this episode, Patty and Leo join us to talk love, pop culture, Catholic school trauma, and the very serious theory that drinking milk turns kids gay. Leo grew up in Mexico, dated a girl for three years, and came out after moving to L.A. to pursue acting. Patty, from Chicago, found his voice on TikTok during the pandemic—spilling celeb gossip like they’re close personal frien...

This week, we sit down with Michael Pezzullo—a licensed therapist and mental health advocate specializing in LGBTQ+ affirming care. Born and raised in NYC, now living in West Hollywood, Michael opens up about growing up in Hell’s Kitchen, why he still feels like a New Yorker, and the long road (literally—he failed his driving test six times) to becoming a therapist. We talk masculinity, internaliz...

You might know her as Naysha Lopez, but to us, Fabian is a star in and out of drag. In this episode, he opens up about his journey from dreaming of the crown to winning Miss Continental—and later competing in Mister Continental, the male counterpart to the iconic pageant. We talk about the difference between pageants and Drag Race, finding confidence outside of drag, and inspiring others to embrac...

Pasquale Guiducci joins us this week—a yoga teacher and all-around ray of sunshine. We talk about growing up in an Italian family, living in D.C., and what led him to move to L.A. He shares how yoga became a joyful part of his life, how it keeps him grounded, and what he's looking for in love and community. It’s a sweet, open conversation about breath, balance, queerness, and being present.

This time, we sit down with Payam about healing, identity, and finding peace in our bodies. He shares his experience immigrating from Iran, coming out, and living through the AIDS crisis. We also explore how somatic therapy can help us move through trauma, regulate our nervous system, and reconnect with ourselves. We talk activism, queer joy, and what decades as a therapist have taught him about r...

This week, we chat with Antony Ware—a charismatic performer currently lighting up the stage in Las Vegas. He opens up about his coming out story, how he landed the role, his passion for fitness, and what it’s like dating and making friends as an adult. We also talk Janet Jackson (of course), queer identity, and Drag Race favorites. It’s heartfelt, fun, and full of energy—don’t miss it!

In this episode, we chat with queer matchmaker Daniel Cooley about coming out, growing up in Victorville, being homeschooled, and ending up on  Millionaire Matchmaker . We also dive into the dating struggles of the app era—and how he helps people find real connection.

In this heartfelt debut, we turn the mic toward co-host Gabriel Drumond to explore his personal story—growing up gay in a small town in Brazil, moving to the U.S. alone in his twenties, and navigating identity, love, and belonging along the way. We also open up about why we created this podcast: to connect with our LGBTQ+ community, make new friends, and hold space for honest, healing, and inspiri...

Dr. Tyler & Gabriel unwind and discuss their recent road trip to the West Coast.

Dr. Tyler and Gabriel (attempt to) catch you up, and oh - they're moving!

Dr. Tyler and Gabriel explore the importance of setting and maintaining boundaries in relationships with friends and family, both during upbringing and later in life, highlighting how these boundaries can lead to greater personal relief and healthier connections, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss the significance of proactive planning for the future, especially within the LGBTQ+ community, while maintaining hope and optimism for the best outcomes. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

Dr. Tyler and Gabriel explore the stereotypes and expectations of traditional gender roles in marriage, and how these notions apply to and differ in gay relationships, challenging the straight narrative of being the 'husband' or 'wife.'

Dr. Tyler & Gabriel discuss the impact of missing 'puppy love' during gay adolescence and how this affects building relationships in adulthood. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss their personal experiences with intimacy and explore how these attachments can vary from person to person. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss the forced label of being a "rebel" when embracing queerness, and the challenges and pitfalls that come with this perception. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod

Dr. Tyler and Gabriel discuss their experiences growing up gay and the impact of music on finding strength, hope, and inspiration. Follow us on Instagram: @ tylerjh @ gabrieldrummnd @ relationspod