TwoGether

This is our final episode of season two and we ended it with a bang! We interviewed Jason and Megan Ross - some of you know Jason as he is our campus pastor for our East Paris campus. Today we got to hear their story of how they met and then made a commitment to one another after some ups and downs. We explored a lot of different topics ranging from finances, dedication, and they shared a beautifu...

This is a three part series, where Kelly and Samuel look at the importance of a healthy relationship with God and how it can positively impact your marriage. A relationship with God must start with deep commitment - he must be the most important thing in your life. If we get this right, all of our other relationships can be healthy and balanced, especially our marriages. However, sometimes we can...

This is a three part series, where Kelly and Samuel look at the importance of a healthy relationship with God and how it can positively impact your marriage. A relationship with God must start with deep commitment - he must be the most important thing in your life. If we get this right, all of our other relationships can be healthy and balanced, especially our marriages. However, sometimes we can...

This is a three part series, where Kelly and Samuel look at the importance of a healthy relationship with God and how it can positively impact your marriage. A relationship with God must start with deep commitment - he must be the most important thing in your life. If we get this right, all of our other relationships can be healthy and balanced, especially our marriages. However, sometimes we can...

When it comes to marriage issues, the top three areas are conflict resolution, finances and sex. We had an engaging conversation with counselor Sarah Eastway on topics surrounding all things sex and marriage. We discussed what are the healthy elements of a sexual relationship. We also took a look at how couples can have conversations about their sexual relationship, especially if they are struggli...

Forgiveness is one of the hardest communication tools in marriage. It requires two parties with two different points of views to admit that someone may have been the recipient of pain or hurt. Have you been there? Samuel and Kelly share a biblical context on how forgiveness can be uncovered to help your marriage thrive in good and bad. WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE? If you would like to talk to a pastor...

Reverends Joe and Jessie Jones serve as Senior Pastor and First Lady of Brown Hutcherson Ministries (BHM), a non-denominational church located in the urban core of GR. They were installed into these new roles in June 2021, after serving in ministry at BHM for over 20 years. Joe and Jessie have been married for over 24 years and are the parents to Eric, Erica, Miles and Micaela. They are also grand...

On this episode we had the privilege of talking with counselor Lisa Tamblyn-Bergman. Lisa has a background in addictions counseling and we talked about different types of mental health issues that can cause complications within a marriage. Lisa talked about her background and experience in working with clients from a variety of experiences. We ended the show by talking about how trauma can also im...

On this episode we got to meet Luke and Carmen who have been dating for over a year and considering taking next steps. We talked about how their relationship has developed and some different learning lessons along the way. An important way to develop a serious relationship is to form that out of friendship first and this is what happened for Luke and Carmen. We spent time discussing how this happe...

Today we had a great interview with Hannah who serves here at Ada Bible Church. Hannah shared with us her family background and how it has influenced her views of marriage. She offered some key things she has learned over the years in her dating relationships and shared some tips for those who are single. We also talked about aspects she is looking for in a partner and to round out the episode, we...

Want to know what we'll be talking about in our second season of Twogether? Look forward to Samuel and Kelly, along with guests, taking an in-depth focus on topics such as: Single but wanting to be married. Dating Keys to success in marriage and so much more Another key focus in this season will be faith. Our relationship with God is vital to our overall health, and also essential to our marriages...

Have you ever heard the old adage: "things may not be as they appear"? We deal with this in the context of marriage as Kelly and Samuel talk about how to address issues such as individuality in marriage, proper use of evaluation, and placing God's authority on the matter. RESOURCES Gottman Method- www.gottman.com WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE? If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff abo...

Today we had a great interview with Kevin and Becky Vreugdenhil. Kevin oversees our benevolence ministry here at Ada Bible Church and we discussed this for a little bit. Likewise, Kevin and Becky many years ago adopted two children and we spent some time talking about the blessing that has been in their lives and with their family. We ended the show by talking about some key principles Kevin and B...

Today we interviewed the counselor Wesley Morgan, MA, LPC who has a private practice in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Wesley works with individuals and couples, and enjoys “helping people have renewed perspectives” in their lives. Our focus of the talk was that we discussed working with couples in terms of communication, looked at counseling in the African-American community, and he had some wise words...

Today we interviewed the counselor Diane Schroeder, MA, LPC who has a private practice in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Diane works with individuals and couples, and has a specialty in neurofeedback. Our focus of the talk was that we talked about working with couples where there has been an affair. Some key aspects we discussed were: Statistics regarding infidelity Key ways to work with couples Advice f...

This Twogether Podcast features Ada Bible attenders Mario and Becky Franciscotty. They discuss how learning each other’s personality is essential to growing their marriage. Utilizing the DiSC can help married individuals work through understanding strengths and weaknesses that they may otherwise not recognize. Resources Mentioned in the Podcast DiSC Classic Profile (Paper version): https://www.dis...

In the context of marriage, individuals can often be thinking, feeling, and behaving in ways that their spouse may have trouble understanding. In this podcast we will be exploring four chief emotions: Anger, Lust, Anxiety, and Depression. These emotions have critical impacts on an individual's behavior and it becomes important to know how to notice and understand these emotions. ***As you are list...

The Twogether Podcast is also for those who are single. Figuring out who you are in diferent ways will help you make a better informed decision in who you should date and maybe one day marry. One key way to get a better understanding of who you are is by taking the DiSC Profile. God created us into unique individuals and by knowing your personality style, it can help you pursue the right relations...

How well do you know your spouse? Have you ever considered how your two personalities mesh or create friction? In this episode, Dr. Kelly Bonewell and Samuel Jones discuss the DiSC personality assessment and what it could mean for your marriage. This episode goes over specifics in how you and your spouse can compliment your different and unique personalities. DiSC Classic Profile (Paper version):...

Families are composed in various different ways. In this episode we focus on stepfamilies, also known as blended families. Understanding that dating, coparenting, and blending one’s family is a journey, allows for the proper time to be taken to grow personally and familially. Good Reads - The Smart Stepfamily (Ron Deal), The Smart Stepdad (Ron Deal), The Smart Stepmom ( Ron Deal & Laura Petherbrid...

Couples are the lifeblood of Ada Bible Church. Their involvement, service, generosity, and support have helped this church thrive for its 30+ years of existence. As apart of marriages at Ada, we believe hearing from seasoned marriages can give experience, wisdom, and insight that may be needed in challenging times. In this episode we interview Jim and Jane Ryerson. They are attenders at the Cascad...

We all know communication is hard work. In this episode, Samuel and Dr. Kelly share how to enact active listening as well as practice skills that help couples survive high conflict situations. Mentioned in this podcast is the resource "Crucial Conversations" a book by Grenny, McMillan, and Switzler. Here is a note about this book: When stakes are high, opinions vary, and emotions run strong, you h...

Today Samuel and Kelly did a quick look at the essentials of a mentoring meeting. Those elements would include 1) Listening, 2) Information and biblical wisdom, 3) homework and accountability and 4) Prayer. During the podcast, we talked about an important book entitled The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce by Judith Wallerstein. This excerpt is from the publisher: In this compelling, thought-provoking...

This episode is a deep dive in discussing what the marriage mentorship ministry looks like at Ada Bible Church. Dr. Kelly shares one of his favorite marriage mentor experiences and their lasting impact. Additionally discussed are concepts like the Love Bank and the Five Love Languages. For more Information on what we share, follow these links: Marriage Builders Website: https://www.marriagebuilder...

In this very first episode, our hosts, Dr. Kelly Bonewell and Samuel Jones provide a glimpse into the world of their lives, marriages, and what to expect from the TwoGether podcast.