Two Stand-Up Gals

This one’s for all the ho ho ho’s. LEV FER (The Lev Fer Show) and JOURDAIN FISHER (The Tonight Show) return to the pod to give Erica and Molly some hard truths on dating from the male perspective. They chat about whether women should be able to make the first move, what those vague responses really mean, how women should approach asking for better or rougher sex from their male partner, and much m...

Erica and Molly dive back into one of the books that inspired the podcast, "Getting To I Do" by Dr. Patricia Allen and Sandra Harmon. The girls discuss Chapter 16: How to Keep a Sexual Relationship from Turning into an Obsessive Addiction. They talk about the compulsive behaviors that can kick in when it feels like you're losing control of your relationship, the moments that they've become obsessi...

LINDSEY METSELAAR (We Met At Acme Podcast) has made her list and checked it twice -- her list of rules for men that is. Lindsey hops on the mic with Erica and Molly to talk about her dating rules, how to get a second date, not catching feelings for a friends with benefits, when she’s broken her own rules, and more. She also shares her own story of how she shot her shot to get her now boyfriend’s a...

Erica and Molly crack back open the fan favorite book "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov. The girls talk about why it's important to remain an independent thinker when in a relationship, not giving your time and attention to people who don't give you their respect, how not to be a "yes" woman, and to never believe in a man more than you believe in yourself. And just when you thought you'd...

HANNA DICKINSON (Don’t Tell Mom podcast) joins Erica and Molly and shares her herpes story. They discuss what it’s like getting diagnosed with herpes in the Covid-era, fears about getting back into the dating world with a lifelong STD, common misconceptions and myths about the virus, when and when not to disclose to new or potential partners, and more. Support the podcast & get extra exclusive...

Molly and Erica dive into the book "The Girl's Guide to Depravity: How to Get Laid Without Getting Screwed." To no one's surprise, they disagree with the author on most points and share some girl guides of their own. They question why women are pigeonholed into either being explicit, sexual demons or virginal queens holding out for the ring. They also wonder: is cheating more normalized than herpe...

GIULIO GALLAROTTI (Oops! The Podcast) joins Molly and Erica to talk that dirty talk. They survey Giulio on dirty talk phrases to get a "Man's Opinion" of what's hot and what's not.  They also discuss; their dirty talk failures, why dirty talk is more likely to improve your sex life, how to initiate talking dirty with your partner, and more! Join our Patreon Team here for extra episodes &...

DANIELLE PEREZ joins us to talk about dating while being a wheelchair user. First we answer a fan email about someone hiding their wheelchair on their dating profile. We discuss; the dating myths and stereotypes about wheelchair users, questions you should never ask a disabled person, what it's like to be newly disabled in the dating pool, Acrotomophilia, and how being disabled affects your sex li...

Molly and Erica take the Myers Briggs personality test. They discuss the five aspects that define your Myers Briggs personality type: Mind, Energy, Nature, Tactics, and Identity, and how this affects your relationships. The acronym breaks down to: Extraverted vs. Introverted, Observant vs. Intuitive, Thinking vs. Feeling, and Judging vs. Prospecting. Erica also gets confronted by a former "Ghost"...

DR. MEERA SHAH CMO of Planned Parenthood Hudson Peconic joins Molly and Erica to talk all about abortion.  They discuss; the myths about abortion and Planned Parenthood, what it's like to be a doctor that performs abortions, the dangers of fake health care centers, the different types of abortion, advice for someone considering abortion, and how Roe v. Wade being overturned can affect abortio...

VINAY CHADHA from Netflix "Indian Matchmaking" joins Molly and Erica to talk all about Ghosting. Vinay tells his side of the story, after the world assumed he publicly ghosted Nadia on the hit show. They discuss; why Vinay went on the show, the process of using a matchmaker, what exactly constitutes as ghosting, and what it's like to date after being shown as a villain. They end the round with pla...

Molly and Erica review the Pickup Bros article "The Bumble Algorithm"  They discuss; how Bumble gives your profile a "popularity" score, why you shouldn't always swipe right, if "inactive" profiles show up, why sometimes it's better to delete and remake your entire profile, and more. The girls also share their experiences with the app and what opening messages seem to work.  Join our Pat...

ILANA DUNN & JONAH FEINGOLD from Hinge's "Dating Sucks" podcast join Molly and Erica to talk about some online dating tips. They discuss; how to open the conversation, lying about age, height, & weight, photos with your ex on your profile, poor ghosting excuses, dating app dealbreakers, and what if Hinge added and STD filter? Join our Patreon Team here for extra episodes & to support t...

Molly and Erica review the New York Times article " The 36 Questions That Lead to Love"  They breakdown the questions into; 5 Questions for a first date, 5 Questions for when you're more committed, and 5 that they don't like and would change. We also survey the fans for bad first date questions.  Join our Patreon Team here for extra episodes & to support the Podcast: patreon.com/Shoo...

PHIL DUCKETT joins Molly and Erica to talk about what men want to hear after sex, and what we shouldn't say. They breakdown Chapter 26 from "Never Chase Men Again" by Bruce Bryans, "Do not verbalize your insecurities in such a way that it sabotages a man’s perception of you." They talk about how to navigate your insecurities in a relationship, why assuming someone is cheating may lead them to chea...

Molly and Erica review a chapter from the book "Never Sleep Alone" .  They breakdown the different ways to "BDSM" such as; stop saying "like", ask more questions than you answer, smile and make eye contact, STFU, be comfortable in silence, why you should "LIE" and much more.  Join our Patreon Team here for extra episodes & to support the Podcast: patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot **LEAV...

Molly and Erica review a chapter from the book "How to Find Love". They breakdown the three instincts of love; completion, endorsement, and familiarity.   Join our Patreon Team here for extra episodes & to support the Podcast: patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot   **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS**  Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottas...

Molly and Erica discuss Patti Stanger's (Millionaire Matchmaker) First Date Rules such as; No sex before monogamy, 2 Drink Maximum, Don't mention exes, Don't bring up marriage or kids, Don't be late, and many more. Join our Patreon Team here for extra episodes & to support the Podcast: patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot  **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Email us your qu...

MIKE CANNON (Irish Goodbye Podcast) joins Erica & Molly to talk about the book "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel. We discuss; the ups and downs of intimacy in long term relationships, how having kids changes your sex life, why planning sex isn't a bad idea, how to break out of your sexual routine, and if physical connection is sometimes more important than the emotional. We wrap up this ep...

Molly and Erica breakdown two chapters from "Never Chase Men Again" by Bruce Bryans. Chapter 14: "Never sacrifice your deepest passions in life just to keep a man interested in you" and Chapter 15 "Do not tolerate men who feel the need to conceal you from the world" They talk about how soon you should meet someone's friends and family, why you should never try to change for a man, how he should sh...

DEVA MAHAL (Netflix's Dating Around) joins Erica & Molly to talk about what it's like to be fluid in the world today. We discuss; what exactly being fluid means, what it's like to date on camera, how to disclose your sexuality, the fettishizing of black women, threesome pressures, and the importance of boundaries. We end this episode with Deva sharing a story of how she once "shot her sho...

Erica & Molly breakdown the article "How to Attract Women" from Mantelligence by Robin Sutherns. They discuss; the most attractive qualities in a man, how pets are used as bait, the fine line between confidence and arrogance, why listening is underrated, and if having a passion means they're less likely to commit. Join our Patreon Team here for extra episodes & to support the Podcast: http...

PAUL SCHISSLER (Steve Harvey Show) joins Erica & Molly to talk about waiting until marriage to have sex. We discuss; what exactly "no sex" means, virginity shaming, the challenges and benefits of waiting, what he expected from his first time, and the rejections Paul faced along the way. We wrap up this episode with Paul sharing his story of shooting his shot with Olympic athlete Lolo Jones.&nb...

Erica & Molly research a chapter from the book "Why Men Love Bitches" by Susan Argov . They discuss; why you should be more of a bitch, being "on the bench", how spontaneity is an excuse for bad behavior, the importance of keeping a life outside of your relationship, and 3 Conditions you should hold every man to.  Join our Patreon Team here for extra episodes & to support the Podcast:...

Erica & Molly talk about Chapters 9 & 10 from Bruce Bryans book "Never Chase Men Again" about vulnerability in relationships. They discuss; how most men want emotional intimacy, why being vulnerable is the key to commitment, how women have to be vulnerable first, and why we should stop masking our insecurities with insincere behaviors.  Join our Patreon Team here for extra episodes &a...