Two Stand-Up Gals

Molly and Erica breakdown "Stuff your 'Rules' by Taffy Brodesser-Akner, a critique of the book "The Rules". “The Rules” taught us how to present ourselves to nab a husband. But what would we do once we had him? They discuss; how "The Rules" gives women a short term marketing plan, how to be blunt with your partner, the struggle to balance your career and love life, and how every relationship has "...

Tawanda Gona (former Hinge employee) joins Molly and Erica to share his online dating tips! We discuss: the male perspective on what it really means to be exclusive, how to move from exclusive to girlfriend, when to DTR, how to be honest in the easiest way possible and much more.  **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW FOR A CHANCE TO WIN $100** We'll be giving away 3 Amazon Gift cards once we hit 30...

Happy New Year! Mara Marek from the “Happy Never After” podcast joins Erica and Molly to talk about: how being divorced has changed her dating life, how and when to share your marriage baggage, what made 7 different men want to propose to her, why she has a 3 date rule and much more.   **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW FOR A CHANCE TO WIN $100** We'll be giving away 3 Amazon Gift cards once...

Merry Christmas! Happy Boxing Day! Happy Kwanzaa! Erica & Molly talk about "Experience Gifts", how to go outside your comfort zone to meet men, and how to try and balance friends & family during the holiday season. They breakdown The Rule "Show up even when you don't feel like it" and accept the challenge to go out alone.  **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW FOR A CHANCE TO WIN $100** We'l...

Lev Fer from the “Yung Daddy” podcast joins Erica and Molly to give a man’s perspective on: what gifts to buy your guy, how to communicate what you want in bed, what will really make a guy notice you, and much more. Quiz to take with your partner: https://www.weshouldtryit.com/ **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW FOR A CHANCE TO WIN $100** We'll be giving away 3 Amazon Gift cards once we hit 300 review...

*FIRST GUEST ALERT* HANNAH BERNER from Bravo TVs "Summer House" Hannah Berner joins Molly and Erica to talk about a Blow Job class they took, how they first got the courage to go down, and some hot tips and hot misses they’ve had along the way. Erica and her herpes finally get laid, and Molly explains being over “the old college try”. The WOMEN discuss the following questions: how long would you w...

This podcast is all about shooting your shot, and this week Molly and Erica share some hard misses they've had throughout the years. Molly gets the classic "You're great, but..." after attempting to DTR. Erica makes a big romantic gesture to her science fair partner. We discuss Oprah's tips on how to deal with rejection, getting friend zoned, asking out your friends with benefits, etc. On this wee...

HAPPY THANKSGIVING! Erica gives a herpes disclosure update. The girls discuss the 'Don't name the puppy theory", and how to not jinx your future relationship. They also breakdown the 3 C's "Chemistry, Compatibility & Communication" along with the "Relationship Stages" from the book "Getting to I Do" by Dr. Patricia Allen. When should you define the relationship? What comes after the honeymoon...

Erica and Molly recap some missed shots from the weekend. They discuss the difference between being the masculine vs. feminine energy of a relationship from the book "Getting to I Do" by Dr. Patricia Allen. They end with a new segment & special guest: Questions with Marv. **HELP THE PODCAST & LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW** We'll be giving away 3 Amazon Gift cards (worth $100 each) once we...

Erica and Molly have both unintentionally been "the other woman" and talk about how they handled the situation.  Molly messages the girlfriend of a cheating man to let her know what he's really been up to. Erica receives an apology from the man that gave her herpes. The girls cover "The Rules" #23 Don't Date a Married Man, and reasons to "pull a Molly". They answer the following questions; Ca...

Erica and Molly get into CNN's latest article "STDs are Sexist and Women are the Losers" . They tell some chlamydia tales, talk about the "3 Condom Rule", the effect of STDs on your mental health, and introduce the new DM Corner segment. **HELP THE PODCAST & LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW** Email us your questions, comments, and concerns for our well being: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com I...

Erica reads the letter she sent her parents about having herpes a few weeks before the podcast officially came out and how they handled the news. She also forgot to tell her sister before her secret was public. Whoops. To hear the full episode (plus bonus episodes) join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Follow us on Instagram: @shootersgottashootpod Erica Spera: @sperica...

Happy Halloween Shooters! Molly and Erica dive into the Costumes vs Clothing chapter of the book "Never Sleep Alone" by Dr. Alex Schiller. They breakdown the "4 types of people everyone wants to sleep with" for both men and women, and some tricks and tips for what to wear on a date. Join them in this week's challenge to wear a "costume" everyday, for one week, whenever you leave the house.  *...

This week the girls talk about PDA, how much is too much? If a guy doesn't make a move by the third date, does that mean he's not into you? Erica gets rejected twice within the same date, while Molly would rather die than be physical in public. They breakdown Chapters 14 & 15 of "The Rules" which state no more than kissing on the first date. They discuss waiting to have sex, dumb hotties, why...

We're giving you a FREE Patreon episode this week to show you what we're doing over there. If you'd like to receive extra episodes every month join our Patreon Team here: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot IT'S MOLLY'S BIRTHDAY! The past knocks on Molly's door TWICE on her birthday. Her sister calls & she receives an unexpected DM slide from a past heartbreak. They discuss boundaries,...

Erica and Molly discuss eating on dates,  what foods to avoid, Erica's system, and the importance of sharing food. Erica finds a man who has never had an eggs benedict and Molly has a sushi date turn into a Chuck Norris movie.  Enjoying the pod? **Leave us a Rating and Review** Email us your questions, comments, and concerns for our well being: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com Follow us on Instagra...

Molly and Erica dive into their baggage. Molly opens up about her sister excommunicating with the family and Erica shares her herpes secret. It's a heavy one but they find some places to laugh along the way.  Email us your questions, comments, and concerns for our well being: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram: @shootersgottashootpod Erica Spera: @spericaa Molly DeMellier: @the...

On the very first episode of Shooters Gotta Shoot, Molly somehow manages to get recruited for therapy and Erica gets unsolicited dating advice from a southern Uber driver. At 17:25 it's The Rules according to Erica & Molly. They breakdown The Rule: "Don't Talk to a Man First and Don't Ask Him to Dance" and Erica explains her go to move in college.   They answer the following questions: Wh...