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John-Paul Boyd is is an accredited family law arbitrator, family law mediator and parenting coordinator. His focus in family law disputes is on the big picture. He prioritizes the interests of children, the future functioning of families living apart, and the ability of parents to work together and cooperatively make decisions after their legal dispute has been resolved. You can read more about Jo...

Kerry Cohen is a doctor of clinical psychology and works as a licensed therapist in Portland, Oregon. She is the author of the memoirs Loose Girl, Lush, Seeing Ezra, and Girl Trouble. Freshly launched this September is her new book, "Crazy For You: Breaking the Spell of Sex and Love Addiction. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Kerry about codependency, process addiction, and self-actualization with rega...

Kendra Cunov has been studying, facilitating, and (most importantly) practicing Authentic Relating, Embodiment Practices & Deep Intimacy Work for over fifteen years. Her online course BEYOND BOUNDARIES is available to listeners of Turn Me On with special promo code TURNMEON. Find it on her homepage at KendraCunov.com . You can also watch more content on the subject of Boundaries in her free on...

Rachel Kramer Bussel is a writer, editor, teacher, and consultant. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Rache; about writing erotic stories, reading vs. watching, and whose voices are missing from popular erotica. You can read about Rachel on her website at RachelKramerBussel.com , and find her latest anthology "Coming soon: Women's Orgasm Erotica". Bryde reads the profane four-letter-words and Jeremie put...

After a month-long break, B+J are back in action! The two catch up with what has been going on in their lives over the summer including the mending of a broken heart, love, a 10 year wedding anniversary, the one year anniversary of the death of everyone's favourite hippo dog, and some fresh Just The Tips. They also dive into the whole "OnlyFans" debacle and offer up some alternatives for supportin...

Season 2 Finale! Bryde gives a little review of what she's gleaning from "Sex Points" by Dr. Bat Sheva. Then the hosts talk with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack about the Fertility Awareness Method and her heavily researched book, "The Fifth Vital Sign". This conversation is for anyone who wants to learn to use FAM as a 99.6% effective birth control method, and as a pathway to understanding fertility health...

Jeremie and Bryde talk about what it is to be a romantic and contemplate whether the longing for love could be a craving for a balm for life's discomfort. The hosts chat with guest Ricardo Scipio about intimate photography, the dance between the artist's expression and the subject's expression, and the journey of being the receiver of intimate moments. Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the...

This week's foreplay has some serious puppy chaos! What's the difference between erotic massage and massage therapy? Enough to want to know the difference! The hosts chat with Lee Jagger, an erotic massage coach who went from being too self conscious to pleasure a penis outside of intercourse to having 69 massage techniques named after food! You can learn to rock her techniques in a 5-day event co...

This week the hosts gush about the "Ask Dr. Ruth" documentary. An unlikely pioneer of open communication about sex, this tiny, old human is an inspiration. Jeremie and Bryde talk with another sexual entrepreneur, Lilly Sparks! The founder of xoafterglow.com wants to you have great sex, with or without a partner, and has curated a resource of adult films and sexual wellness to cover all your bases....

This week's episode comes a day late and with some heartache. Jeremie and Bryde talk about letting go, survival, and community support. Silliness content follows. The AI-generated pick-up lines can be found on Vice (vice.com/en/article/z3vjey/artificial-intelligence-ai-pickup-lines). Ovipositors can be found at primalhardwere.com . The podcasts Bryde talks about are "For the Wild" (references spec...

This week there’s talk of sex doll foul play, face mating, and aliens! Just the tips include Netflix’ “Human: The World Within”, andTostitos with a hint of lime and some mango or pineapple salsa. Then Jeremie and Bryde talk to somatic sex coach Kat Nantz about how somatic healing approaches the big feelings, and how she creates a container of safety for the people in her care. SUPPORT US ON PATREO...

Big Exciting Announcement and then some uplifting foreplay featuring plummeting male fertility rates and medical misogyny. This week's guest is Yaz the Human. Jeremie, Bryde, and Yaz dive into shame, movement, and platonic intimacy. Check out their playful offerings on instagram , and tune in to their podcast, "Intellectual Erection". SUPPORT THE SHOW AS WE PREP FOR SEASON 3!! www.patreon.com/turn...

The hosts chat about "Legendary" the show about strutting it. Also, ASMR with itsblitzzz youtube host, featuring Jeremie's crush. Jeremie and Bryde connect with award-winning director, writer, and sometimes actor - Bree Mills. Bree is making movies that you want to watch. Think steamy erotic novel but on-screen - sex and characters and storylines that you can invest in. Check out adulttime.com to...

This week, just the tips from both hosts is "Inside", the new comedy special from Bo Burnham. Jeremie reads a letter from a new patron about cousins who marry, and Bryde contemplates a potential new living arrangement based on a kijiji ad. Guest Frenchie Davis is the founder of the Institute for Emotional Literacy and has years of experience in the sexual health advocacy realm. Check out her work...

This episode begins with a brief history lesson on the inspiration behind National Masturbation Day - Surgeon General of the United States from 1993-1994 - Minnie Jocelyn Elders. Elders was the first woman and first African American person to hold this position and who was eventually forced to resign due to her controversial stance that masturbation should be taught in the public school sex-ed cur...

Foreplay, foreground, forehead. The hosts discuss words that start with "fore" and make up some things about how it originated. They run through Esther's Perel's questions for taking a personal sex life inventory. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Dr. J about her life's journey in #thesexualityspace from her first job at 19 to her retired but still sexually inspired life. $5+ PATRONS: check out the vide...

The hosts chat about languishing and flourishing, and maintaining important relationships during the lockdown. Bryde shows off her new vibrator (check it out visually at patreon.com/turnmeon) , and reads a sweet obituary for a blind, bisexual, polyamorous goose named Thomas. Bryde and Jeremie chat with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus about sexuality, vibrators, and her new book, "Sex Points". Dr. Bat Sheva M...

The hosts chat about the findings of Kinsey and Cosmo's research on the future of sex and relationships. Check out the conversation with Justin Lehmiller on this subject over at Sex and Psychology Podcast. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Mistress Eva about vulnerability and playfulness, monetizing intimate relationships, and her creative response to censorship. $5+ PATRONS: check out the video version...

This week the hosts contemplate lying and mortality salience. A "Men's Health" article offers four best practices for vulva penetrative sex, and Jeremie and Bryde discuss "Sex, Death, and Rebirth in Ancient Egypt", as delivered by Morbid Anatomy. Also, don't be a stinky. The hosts answer a brain boner from a frustrated mom. $5+ PATRONS: check out the video version of today's whole episode! This ep...

This week's foreplay features period blood and a cough button. Guest Sarrah Rose is a certified Sex, Love, and Relationship coach through the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality, and hosts her own podcast, "Sex and Sarrah Rose". $5+ PATRONS: check out the video version of today's whole episode! This episode and more have been transcribed thanks to Thisten: https://thisten.co/event/wmu9l Host...

We take a break this week for health reasons - Enjoy one of our best recordings from pre-covid days: The hosts connect through the distance to address a listeners question that hits close to home. What about mismatched libidos and stress? They talk about the different expressions of intimate love and the effect of stress-specific conjured by sexual matters. Jeremie and Bryde chat with sexologist E...

Bryde and Jeremie talk about Emily Noagoski's "Come as You Are" episode on the podcast "Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics", and specifically her thoughts around spontaneous desire vs Responsive Desire. Just the tips include making eye contact with people to see how it makes you feel, and "It Takes Two" - a video game that doubles as couples' therapy. The hosts chat with Dani and Riley fr...

This week's conversation with educator Kerri Isham is key listening for parents, teachers, and anyone who wants to help prevent instances of childhood sexual trauma for our young people. Jeremie and Bryde learn about appropriate conversations for young people from age 2 and up, and contemplate a world where we're all healing our personal trauma, and are confident speaking about and living in our b...

This week the hosts talk about the Diagnostic and Statistic Manual of Mental Disorders and how it defines sexual dysfunction. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Laura Zam, author, speaker, and sexuality educator , about her new book "The Pleasure Plan: One Woman's Search for Sexual Healing". You can follow along with Laura on her website at laurazam.com, and on instagram @laurazam_author. JOIN US FOR OUR...

What's a spinster? Jeremie and Bryde unpack the terminology used in the stigmatization of being a single person. Guest Megan Stubbs is a sexologist with a new book coming out May 11, "Playing Without a Partner", all about living your best life as a single person. JOIN US FOR OUR LIVE EVENT : Human Connection Through Touch $5+ PATRONS: check out the video version of today's whole episode! This epis...