Transparency

Sharing all the things. Moving, marriage, the boutique, friends, travel. Materialistic stuff, and being humble. Just be you! Share your story. Don’t overthink your content. Don’t be like everyone else! There is only 1 you! And your story will stand out!

I’m saying this now and will keep saying this. Why are some people so private? What are they hiding? Good people meet good people. Treat others how YOU want to be treated. Don’t overthink it. Be vulnerable! Fear does not prevent death it prevents life!!!

….and the saga continues. Giving you all the government insights from a Dual Citizen’s perspective. This is all just my humble opinion. But you really can’t make this stuff up, it’s too real and crazy! And of course sharing some tips and tricks on how to get over your fear of going live on social media. After you listen to this, you will crush your social media game and skyrocket your way to succe...

Why you experience fear. The reason we experience fear, is because we are self centered. You only feel fear, when you are thinking about yourself. Does my hair look okay? Am I gonna say the right things? Does my lighting look okay? Is the audio clear? Do I feel confident? Are they gonna like me? Is this gonna go viral? Is anyone watching? Is anyone gonna comment? There is no fear when the mission...

You don’t need a biz plan You don’t need a fancy website You don’t need biz cards You do need to un boss yourself! Get uncomfortable every day Embrace failure Step out of your comfort zone daily Show up consistently! Do not strive for perfection! Progress over perfection Ask for forgiveness not permission

Don’t try to be all over the place. Go hard on one platform Do you suffer from imposter syndrome? Do you give a lot of free advice? Stop judging, and appreciate the beauty within you. Treat others how you want to be treated. Care less about who you are to others. Know your worth. Don’t rush intimate relationships. Let go of those who aren’t really there for you. Forgive yourself and others. Focus...

Whatever you decide to do in life, you will get there through story telling. Confidence is about taking chances and not doubting the outcome. There will be tests and trials. Not everybody has to like you. If everybody likes you, you are playing it safe. And it’s normal to get nervous before you press start, it shows that you care. Embrace your fear and show off your vulnerability. Being vulnerable...

Today was another sh.t show! Tried to get stuff done, but nothing worked. Everything I did was not good enough. When you push forward on days like that, that’s when the magic happens! That’s relatable! When you are vulnerable, people will match that same vulnerability.

I’m still in shock, but I want to stay consistent and show up for you. I’m a bit scared and nervous, if this is because I’m so transparent. But you can’t live in fear. I will not let bad people control me or influence me, in any shape or form. You can’t argue with bad people and you can’t go down to their level. It is what it is, I just have to deal with this and move forward. Hope you had a bette...

Everyone wants big and fast It’s so not real! It’s fake It doesn’t last If you see it build that way, they are dying inside. They have zero friends They think their world is Instagram and their email list. They are literally killing themselves. Don’t underestimate the power of small communities Remember what’s sacred to you. There are so many brands/ businesses that don’t have a human being as a f...

The game is just showing up Detach from the outcome No idea is original Google it and just talk about what you find and elaborate. We all have imposter syndrome Let go of perfection Do it messy Less perfect is relatable Keep it simple. Start small and let your ideas evolve. Just start, For example, you’ve always wanted to start a podcast. You don’t need fancy equipment and a fancy studio, lap top...

Put your head down and just add value. Value = money. If you want something, don’t wait for that to fall on your lap. Get out and go grab it. Success happens to BOLD people. It’s okay to be misunderstood When people try to dim your light, that doesn’t make them shine brighter. Ask questions, before you judge and point fingers. Assumptions mean; you are making an ass of yourself Don’t let others de...

I don’t know about you but in order for me to get over a heartbreak or loss I need a rebound real quick. For example if your boyfriend breaks up with you, but an ever hotter, and nicer guy is hitting on you, the pain of the heartbreak is so much less right?! That’s what we did with losing the one house that we loved, we immediately started looking at other homes and fell in love with an even bette...

Naivety is a strength. Don’t overthink! You know what it takes to getting what you want? Being Bold! Not brainpower, connections or money

In my country we have a saying; that even if the lie is fast and very thought out, the truth will always win! Start the foundation, any foundation, with the truth. Be humble, be and stay transparent. Communicate and always trust your gut.

Nobody but you is in control. You only you can make yourself happy. Where there is a will, there is a way! Let’s chat!

You want love? Give lots of love. You want money? Give lots of value. It really is that simple. We all over complicate things for no reason. We are scared of the unknown. But most of the time the reality isn’t as scary as our imagination.

Yes I threw a little tantrum yesterday, and telling you all about it. Grown ups have melt downs and tantrums, same like our kiddos. And I gotta tell you that once you open up to people, the sky is the limit. All of a sudden people reciprocate and will totally open up to you as well. This is where true relationships are being build. No BS, no sugarcoating, just a super strong foundation build on tr...

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You can’t be both. If you offer a service or sell a product, you gotta get out there. YOU are YOUR BRAND. If you want something other than what you have now, you gotta do something different than what you were doing before.

Omg sharing all the things with you! Remember: You always have something to offer. You presence alone is already valuable. Your perspective matters. Life experiences. A piece of advice. Share your challenges. Share your failures. There is always room to grow.

Come from love. Love yourself first. Then love others hard. Give to others. Listen to others. Become a professional friend maker. Become a great listener. Things will flow from there.

If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be one. If you want money, provide value.

Just sharing what I’ve learned the hard way. Hope this inspires, entertains or educates you in some way shape or form. Please subscribe, leave a 5 star review and tag and share on social media. I’ll give you a gift from Dutch boho boutique and I’ll reciprocate shouting you out as well. Win, win, win! Oh and if you don’t like it, don’t say anything at all.🥰

Inaction You can’t change anything or make progress, by just sitting back and thinking about it. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you are getting. The best time is to start now.