Transforming The Toddler Years- Parents and Educators Raising Calm, Connected, Capable Kids

Looking for homeschool and alternative education options? Kimberly Gawne joins me in the special summer re-release to discuss homeschool and alternative schooling options, because every child's needs are different. We discuss the importance of parents being the primary educator of their children and that parents should be empowered to make the best and most appropriate educational decisions fo...

Do you find yourself worried about the milestones your child is hitting? In this episode, I share why I choose making memoires over milestones and the importance of intentional moments . I also discuss that there is a season for everything in parenting, and these seasons change often. Please take a minute to rate and review the show, suggest a topic, and leave a comment so we can get the word out...

Feeling overwhelmed with where to start your preschool search? In this special re-release episode, Amber Jayne joins me to discuss finding a high quality preschool . We talk about identifying how your child learns is a great starting point in finding the right childcare center. Amber also shares her 4 Senses Rule to have specific things to consider when choosing a preschool. Amber Jayne is an auth...

Dealing with Toddler Behaviors? In this episode I share three questions to ask yourself before you leap into crisis management mode , before you think your child is choosing to be bad. I reminds parents that kids inherently want to do good and to succeed. Looking for a parenting transformation? I invite you to look at my⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Transforming the Toddler Years course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . ⁠ ⁠Let's turn the d...

Worried if your toddler is ready for preschool? I welcome Zeba McGibbons, teacher, curriculum creator, and children’s book author. In this episode, we discuss kindergarten readiness , and it's not actually about academic readiness like parents think, but rather social-emotional skills, such as independence, self-regulation, and problem-solving. Through her curriculum creation company, Kinderga...

Apologizing for your child's social interaction? Here's how to avoid that and what to do instead. In this episode, I emphasize how you talk to your kids matters. I explain how describing character builds our kids identities and creates a belief system about themselves.  I also share language you can use that will help your child feel seen, heard, understood, and permission to feel without...

Feeling overwhelmed with the current racial tension around us? In this special re-release guest episode, I welcome Temi Adamolekun to discuss anti-racist parenting . Originally from Nigeria, Temi grew up in England, and now lives in San Francisco with her husband and son, running her own communications agency. She has written essays on topics such as anti-racist parenting and the importance of Bla...

Want to praise your kids with a purpose? In this episode, I discuss praising our kids intentionally so that we do not eat away at our children's identities or define their effort based on what we want to see . I also share my actionable 3 step plan and language scripts you can use! Looking for a parenting transformation? I invite you to look at my⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ Transforming the Toddler Years course...

Want to yell less and be more a mindful parent? Hunter Clarke-Fields joins me to talk about how to be less reactive aka stop yelling . We discuss the 3 Rs: Recognize your feelings, Remove yourself (if possible), Use Your Resources to calm the nervous system. We also discuss reducing your overall stress may be the #1 best thing you can do to yell less. Hunter Clarke-Fields is the #1 bestselling aut...

Does your older toddler suddenly have stranger danger? In this episode, I share a personal example of a toddler who experienced stranger danger a little late. I discuss the ripple effect unexpected change can have in their life and also how to scaffold transitions to help our littles adjust. Subscribe to the Core4 Connector weekly newsletter to get more tips, tricks and strategies to help you win...

Struggling through the toddler years? Dr. Alissa Jerud joins me to talk about how Emotion-Savvy Parenting can help us relate more skillfully to challenging emotions, connect more deeply with our kids, and even enjoy parenting more . Plus we discuss practical tools that can help us better accept, regulate, and tolerate unwanted emotions (ours and those of our kids). Dr. Alissa Jerud, PhD is a licen...

Does your toddler struggle when  something unexpected happens? In this episode I get into how kids process when something goes wrong. I talk about how long it takes when you give kids news or information that they're not going to like that will cause a real emotion, a real intensity, a real reaction and how long it takes for them to fully process what you've said . I emphasize the need to...

Have you experienced the unimaginable? Michelle Valiukenas joins me to share her personal story of infertility, navigating the NICU and parenting after the loss of a infant. She emphasizes that loss never leaves you and there are so many ways to keep memories alive, it may just take having the courage to let the path lead you where you need/want to be. Content Warning: this episode speaks about in...

Does your toddler struggle with time management? They all do. In this episode, I share simple and effective tools and language tips to help teach your toddler time management skills . With practice, kids feel safe and confident because they know what's coming throughout the day. Teachers and ECE Professionals - what type of professional development would you benefit most from? I do ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ early c...

Curious how you can build a strong, loving relationship with your child? Unconditional positive regard may be your answer. In this episode, Nicole Greene joins me to discuss her guiding beliefs that all people are worthy, all people deserve respect and all people deserve to be cared for. Nicole Greene is a National Board Certified Special Education Teacher. She is a member of the Council for Excep...

Want an easy way to help expand your toddler's language skills? In this episode I talk about using mirror neurons to help expand your little one's language  using intentional language and creating conversational dialogue. Check out my Baby Sign course to turn crying into communicating and expand language skills even more! Have questions about mirror neurons or your parenting journey in gen...

Curious about a holistic approach to autism? Dr. Vladimir Barayev joins me to talk about cherishing the gifts of autism . At the heart of Dr. Vladimir Barayev's practice is a deep commitment to the six pillars of health: sleep, nutrition, physical activity, family and community relationships, coping skills, and managing environmental exposures. He emphasizes nobody has all the answers but keep...

What do you say to your toddler when they try hard things? In this episode, I share a story about a toddler trying something new and difficult and how I supported him . I share what I said (and didn't say) and how I handled the situation to build his confidence. Looking for a parenting transformation? I invite you to look at my ⁠⁠⁠ Transforming the Toddler Years course ⁠⁠ . ⁠Let's turn the...

Ever judge your child for their "bad" behavior? Kyira Wackett joins me to talk about allowing your toddler to have hard experiences in the world and leaning into how it supports their identity and emotional development . She shares a personal story about her daughter navigating tough situations and succeeding. Kyira Wackett is a licensed mental health therapist, facilitator and creator a...

Ever felt that holiday disappointment? Like it didn't really like up to what you imagined in your mind? In this episode, I share recent story where I had memorialized a holiday event before it even happened . I share that we as adults often create expectations for a moment and that can lead to disappointment. Lastly, I remind caregivers that we are never really in full control with a toddler....

Feel like you're losing your mind and yourself, mama? Dena Farash joins me to share her story about how motherhood uprooted her unhealed trauma and forced her to deal with it, in the midst of parenting young kids. We discuss motherhood as the beautiful relationship you get to create with your kids and caregiving as the day in day out stressors that make parenting hard! Dena also shares tips and tr...

Feel like you're always worried about your child? You're not alone. In this episode I discuss the common fear we all share in parenting. I emphasize that as difficult as it is, at times we need to step back as parents, let our kids practice resilient action and give them opportunities to practice resilient thinking. Need some support letting go of some of the fear? DM me on Instagram and we'll cha...

How powerful is positive self talk for kids? Lauren Chaitoff joins me to talk about Yogi Bean’s playful approach. She highlights that yoga is more than just a physical practice—it promotes positive self-talk with “I Am” statements that result in stress reduction, mental and emotional regulation. Lauren Chaitoff, founder and chief visionary officer of Yogi Beans , author, and pioneer in children’s...

How do you feel when you hear the words " peer pressure "? In this episode, I talk about the negatives and positives of peer pressure . I discuss that the environment you choose and the people you choose to be around affects you and your children. Looking for a parenting transformation? I invite you to look at my ⁠ Transforming the Toddler Years course ⁠ . Let's turn the daily tantru...

Do you think about what's happening inside your child's belly and with their gut health? Madeline Lauf joins me today to talk about children's gut health, improving children’s microbiomes and so much more! Madeline Lauf is the founder and CEO of Begin Health , a company focused on children’s digestive health through prebiotic supplements. Check out all of her products and use CORE4PARE...