Transformational Leadership: From the Insight Out

Can you think of a moment that you wish you could go back to and respond differently? Learning how to respond thoughtfully instead of reacting emotionally is key to developing your emotional intelligence. This episode gives you practical tools to better manage your emotions moving forward.    Transformation Tip : “Feelings are like kids. You don't want them driving the car, but you don't...

Old mindsets can keep us stagnant and stressed. In this episode, Steve and Pete discuss four ways to evolve old mindsets to bring maturity, growth, and success to your current endeavors. Transformation Tip: “The measure of intelligence is the ability to change” - Albert Einstein  Staying stuck in old mindsets will stunt your growth  We tend to be unwilling to change because we know we have to put...

We all have weaknesses and limitations. Learning to embrace them helps us to focus on our strengths and improve our emotional intelligence and growth trajectory. This episode reminds you that you don’t have to be good at everything, but simply be the best version of yourself. Transformation Tip : To share your weakness is to make yourself vulnerable; and to make yourself vulnerable is to show your...

Each of us is designed with a unique purpose and talents. When we are not working within our design we can get frustrated and burnt out. Oftentimes, this is caused by simply being unaware of our strengths and weaknesses. In this episode, gain practical tools to help you identify the areas where you thrive as well as potential blind spots that may be holding you back. It’s time to align with your d...

Self-awareness should not be viewed as selfish or self-centeredness. Self-awareness helps you bring out the best version of yourself. Taking the time to reflect and grow in our areas of weakness allows us to improve our relationships, our confidence, and our lives!  Transformation Tip: Know Thyself.  Self-awareness is NOT: Self-centeredness Selfish About focusing on your flaws, but the greatness t...

Many people find themselves stuck in difficult situations because of their need to please everyone around them. People-pleasing can be exhausting and overwhelming. This episode will help you identify the causes and effects of this habit and teach you how to establish healthy boundaries for yourself.  Transformation Tip:   “I can’t tell you the key to success but the key to failure is trying to ple...

A big key to becoming more self-aware is identifying blindspots. Blindspots are aspects of ourselves that we have not been aware of or not fully known. In this episode learn practical ways to discover both your positive and negative blindspots to help you develop your EQ and put the best version of yourself forward.  Transformation Tip : How do you know when you’ve been deceived? You don’t.  How t...

Once you've identified patterns of rejection in your life, it's important to know what to do next! In this episode, Steve and Pete give practical tips on how to overcome rejection and move into a place of acceptance and freedom. Transformation Tip: "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it." -- Charles R. Swindoll Breaking out of the rejection cycle is crucia...

Transformation Tip: "In life, I have met two types of people: the rejected and the super rejected." -- Derek Prince Rejection is painful. Rejection is when you feel devalued and begin to doubt your worth. You are the one who gets to choose whether you agree with the rejection or reject it.  Three types of rejection:  self-rejection self-protection rejecting others Fear of rejection leads...

Do you find yourself constantly looking for external validation and approval? This episode is for you. Learning to approve of yourself (flaws and all!) is key to being able to live in a place of freedom and bring the best out of those around you. Transformation Tip: A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval - Mark Twain  If you keep finding yourself in the approval trap, it is an indica...

Transformation Tip: "Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." - Kurt Cobain A healthy identity is essential to fulfilling purpose, finding peace, and developing healthy relationships. If you don't know your value, you will spend your life trying to find it. Knowing who you are and loving who you are is essential for peace and security in your identity. Are you l...

HollyKem Sunseri joins the show to talk about how to identify your inner voices to find your true self. Transformation Talk:  “Don't believe everything you hear - even in your own mind.” — Daniel Amen We all have three inner voices:  wounded self protective self true self  When you are feeling anxious or if you impulsively negatively react to something, ask yourself: which voice was that? Dig...

In part 2 of our series on addictive behaviors, Steve and Pete provide a practical process for getting to the root of addictive behaviors and how to overcome them.  Transformation Tip: “Asking for help is never a sign of weakness. It’s one of the bravest things you can do. And it can save your life.” Addictive Behaviors are most commonly triggered when you are:  lonely wounded overwhelmed Transfor...

Most people associate the word addiction with an extreme such as substance abuse,  but the reality is, most of us have addictive behaviors that we operate in often. In this episode,  Steve and Pete start a new series on resolving inner conflicts to unpack the root cause of addiction and how to begin the process of stopping it. Transformation Tip: "Breaking addiction unlocks the power to creat...

Transformation Tip: “Being a mentor means inspiring others to discover their own wisdom, not just imparting yours.” We make an assumption that talent is enough. People need development.  Key qualities of the type of person you should invest in or develop:  Hungry Humble Transparent/vulnerable Teachable  Do they want to learn  Willing to change/flexible You can't want someone to change more th...

Transformation Tip : “Behind every successful person, there is a mentor who believed in them before they believed in themselves.”  What does a good mentor look like? Good listener Not judgmental   Brings clarity You feel connected to them  Helps you find a pathway to success  A mentor is not responsible for your growth. You are responsible for applying the wisdom that your mentor provides.  Respec...

Transformation Tip : “Efficiency is doing things right, effectiveness is doing the right things.” - Peter Drucker Efficient  - achieving maximum productivity with minimum waste of effort and expense Management focused Effective - being successful in producing a desired result  Leadership focused  With efficiency and effectiveness, one is not better than the other, it is knowing when to use each on...

John F Kennedy once said 'Leadership and learning are indispensable to one another.' In this episode, Steve continues his conversation with Chuck Proudfit on key developmental areas within every leader.  Transformation Tip: Leadership and learning are indispensable to one another - John F Kennedy Lions Lead Competencies Continued  Leadership essentials  Leadership presence  Purpose direc...

Leaders are made not born. Some of us may be better leaders than others, but all of us have the capacity to lead. Even if we are only leading our own lives or family members, our ability to learn and grow in our leadership gifting is extremely impactful to the people we are responsible for. References: https://skillsource.com/ https://www.lionslead.com/ Connect On Social: Podcast Facebook Page Ste...

When you live for significance rather than success you will begin to make a greater impact on the environments around you.  The shift comes from focusing on who you are rather than what you do. Transformation Tip : “Great leaders don't just focus on getting results, they focus on getting great people who get results. When you invest in people they will invest in your vision.” - Simon Sinek Bu...

Transformation Tip : “Leadership is not about titles, positions, or flow charts. It is about one life influencing another.” - John Maxwell Leadership is needed in every aspect of life Leadership is a progression and requires the right foundation  The foundational building blocks of leadership: Block 1: Position  Having the right to lead  Authority comes from position  Focus: maintain control and e...

Motivation is not the same as inspiration. It's important to learn what motivates us so that when inspiration leaves we can keep moving forward. In this episode, Steve and Pete share 5 different types of motivators to help you ignite self-motivation in your life.  Transformation Tip: “If you can dream it, you can do it.” - Walt Disney Motivation is not the same as inspiration.  What will sust...

Before you can manage others, you must learn how to manage yourself. This episode provides practical tips for living with daily intentionality, getting organized, and finding balance so you can direct your life rather than letting life direct you. Transformation Tip: “There is no such thing as time management, only self-management.” - Rory Vaden  Practicing Self-Management Be intentional and direc...

Many people are overly focused on external leadership, but fail to realize the importance of self-leadership as a means to becoming a better leader to others. In this episode, Steve and Pete give practical tips for creating healthy self-awareness and developing the leader within each us.  Transformation Tip : “Everything rises and falls on leadership” - John C. Maxwell As soon as you notice someth...

Your story is powerful! When you allow yourself to be vulnerable and share the challenges and victories you have experienced, it can give inspiration and hope to others going through similar situations. In this episode, learn how to use your story to impact others for good. Transformation Tip: “Your heartache is someone else's hope. If you make it through, somebody else is going to make it th...