Toxic Cooking Show

Send us Fan Mail What if the digital age has reshaped motherhood in ways we never imagined? Join us on the Toxic Cooking Show as Lindsay McClain and Christopher Patchet, LCSW, navigate the intricacies of the "mama sphere"—an online universe where mothers share the joys and challenges of parenting. Trace the evolution from the humble beginnings of mommy blogs in the early 2000s to today&a...

Send us Fan Mail What if your latest online match is someone else's worst nightmare? The Toxic Cooking Show takes a deep dive into the uncharted waters of digital romance, starting with the controversial Facebook group "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" We tackle the delicate balance of sharing personal experiences against the backdrop of privacy concerns and explore the ethical tightrop...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the secrets to identifying and navigating love bombing, a manipulative tactic prevalent in modern relationships, with Lindsay McClain and licensed clinical social worker Christopher Patchet, LCSW. Gain insights into how excessive attention and affection can mask an attempt to control, and learn to spot the red flags like premature declarations of love and empty promises of...

Send us Fan Mail What if being 'just friends' could lead to hilariously awkward situations and surprising insights about modern dating? Join me, Lindsay McClain, along with the insightful Christopher Patchet, LCSW, as we unravel the tangled web of the 'Friend Zone.' We share our own laugh-out-loud tales and explore how men and women often misunderstand the dynamics of platonic...

Send us Fan Mail What if the labels "boy mom" and "girl dad" are doing more harm than good? On the latest episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, Lindsay McClain and co-host Christopher Patchet, LCSW, peel back the layers of these seemingly innocent titles to reveal unsettling truths. We question the impact of parental favoritism and societal expectations, exposing how these roles c...

Send us Fan Mail What if the grand spectacle of gender reveal parties is more than just a harmless celebration? Join us on the Toxic Cooking Show as we dissect this modern phenomenon, born in the late 2000s and fueled by the social media frenzy. From quaint cake and balloon reveals to hazardous explosions and wrestling matches, we scrutinize the bizarre lengths people go to for that viral moment....

Send us Fan Mail Is your online life taking over your real-world connections? Join Lindsay McClane and me, Christopher Patchet LCSW, as we tackle the complex dynamics of digital interactions, spotlighting platforms like OnlyFans and the nuanced responsibilities they entail. We share personal reflections on our own screen time habits and offer strategies to manage your online consumption to ensure...

Send us Fan Mail Can you imagine a world where a single platform can redefine personal finance and online presence while navigating the tumultuous waters of digital relationships? Our latest episode promises to unravel the complex tapestry of OnlyFans, tracing its rapid ascent during the pandemic and the financial reality for its creators.  Through the poignant lens of real-life stories, such as t...

Send us Fan Mail Discover the insidious tactics of negging and how they can quietly poison social interactions, as Lindsay McClain and Christopher Patchet, LCSW, unpacks this sneaky form of manipulation. We promise you'll walk away with a sharper understanding of how backhanded compliments are used to undermine confidence, masquerading as playful banter. Together, we dissect the origins of ne...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered why the "nice guy" often finishes last in relationships? On this episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, we unravel the complex balance between safety and excitement that women seek from men. Through personal stories and professional insights, we take a closer look at the misunderstood concept of safety and how it can sometimes lead to the friend zone. We'l...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the secrets to discerning fact from fiction in the chaotic realm of online information! Join us as we sit down with Very Special Guest Leslie McClane, LPC, alongside our host Lindsay McClane and co-host Christopher Patchet, LCSW, for a compelling discussion on navigating the ethics of social media content. Leslie, with her vast experience as both a therapist and a college p...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how two music events could offer such contrasting experiences? This episode takes you deep into the chaos and communal spirit of music festivals. We start by recounting the horrifying events of Woodstock 99, where chaos reigned and safety measures fell disastrously short. Then, we shift gears to the heartwarming community found on a music cruise Christopher frequentl...

Send us Fan Mail How did a celebration of peace and love turn into a chaotic disaster? Join us on the Toxic Cooking Show as we uncover the turbulent history of Woodstock festivals, from the iconic Woodstock '69 that defined a generation with artists like Jimi Hendrix and Janis Joplin, to the unruly and rebellious Woodstock '94 featuring acts like Green Day and Nine Inch Nails. We'll...

Send us Fan Mail What would you do if you witnessed someone in distress in public? This episode of the Toxic Cooking Show challenges you to rethink everything you know about the bystander effect and personal responsibility. This week Lindsay McClane with my co-host, Christopher Patchet, LCSW, we unravel the misconceptions surrounding the infamous Kitty Genovese case and discuss a hauntingly recent...

Send us Fan Mail Why do people often stand by and do nothing during emergencies? Discover the unsettling truth behind the bystander effect, starting with the tragic and infamous Kitty Genovese case. We'll recount the chilling details of her 1964 murder and the media portrayal that claimed 38 witnesses did nothing to help. While later investigations revealed attempts at intervention, the case...

Send us Fan Mail Why do women double their chances of divorce after winning the lottery, while men are 30% more likely to tie the knot?" Join us as we dig into the surprising and often overlooked effects of financial windfalls on relationships. We explore the statistics and discuss the emotional disconnect that can arise when men focus on material fulfillment at the expense of their relations...

Send us Fan Mail Why do female-dominated fields often require advanced degrees yet offer starting salaries comparable to jobs needing less formal education? In this episode, we promise to uncover the deep-rooted gender disparities in career salaries by examining the educational requirements and initial pay scales of male-dominated and female-dominated professions. From construction workers and plu...

Send us Fan Mail Can traditional gender roles be the hidden root of toxic relationships?" On this thought-provoking episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, Lindsay McLean and Christopher Patchett, LCSW, wrap up their deep dive into toxic archetypes by shedding light on the often-overlooked concept of "bang maids." These women juggle domestic chores and sexual services without receiving a...

Send us Fan Mail Can the allure of a perfectly baked sourdough starter lead you into the clutches of far-right ideologies? On this episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, we navigate the seemingly wholesome world of the "trad wife" movement, a growing online trend that romanticizes a return to 1950s domesticity and traditional gender roles. Lindsay McClane along with her trusty side kick, Chr...

Send us Fan Mail This week we take a look at giving the spotlight to the "influencers" of social media that, despite having a message of toxic outlooks, continue to have a platform that only grows. We dive deep into Gypsy Rose, (no longer a doctor) Jordan Peterson, and Andrew (tater tot) Tate. We look at the messages they prove and talk about how their toxic messages are not just layered...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever caught yourself vying for attention in a way that makes you cringe in hindsight? Well, we've all been there, and this episode, Lindsay McLean, along with Christopher Patchet, are pulling back the curtain on the social labyrinth of the "pick me girl", right from its roots in the playground dynamics of early girlhood. We share our personal blunders and m...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever witnessed the struggle many men face when it comes to sharing their deepest emotions, even with those they hold dear? This week we have  a revelatory discussion that peels back the layers of why men often bottle up their feelings of sadness or depression. We take a look at factors that set up the stage to repressing men's emotions, from childhood conditioning th...

Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself chuckling at the wisdom buried within Urban Dictionary? That's where we kick things off, unraveling the fabric of 'alpha widows' and 'hypergamy' with humor yet a keen eye on their serious repercussions on modern dating and self-worth. Our latest episode peels back the layers of these potent social dynamics, as we navigate a world where...

Send us Fan Mail Last week we talked about pretty privilege. This week we look at the total other end of the spectrum, the forgotten fuglies. Why are we, your lovely hosts, coining the term "the forgotten fuglies"? Well, apparently, unlike the pretty people that have all the research on their mental health, social ranks, and acceptabilities in the world, ugly people, well, they are kinda...

Send us Fan Mail Pretty privilege brings nothing but advantages to someone who has conventional attractiveness, right? There are the advantages of free drinks, easier to find a partner. But, with pretty privilege comes the unprivileges of unwanted attention, and over-looked mental health problems. This week we dive into the good, the bad, and the ugly (no pun intended) of what all is included in p...