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Do you like older guys, or is it daddy issues? That’s the question we’re chasing down the rabbit hole today. In this episode of Too Much , Emma is finally digging into her long history of dating up — from 4 year age gaps to 21 year age gaps — and why she thought she needed an older man to feel safe, stable, or seen. Spoiler: it wasn’t about money, and no, it wasn’t daddy issues either. We’re talki...

This week on Too Much , Emma is pulling you out of your delulu spiral and dragging you into the light — because we need to talk about the exhausting obsession with being liked. Emma is breaking down why it’s biologically wired into us (hi, cavemen), how social media hijacked it, and what finally freed her from the trap of performing for approval. From being the girl who never got picked as a bride...

This week’s guest is a creator, producer, entrepreneur, soon-to-be author, and, of course, the Queen of Confidence — Serena f*cking Kerrigan. But, this is not a monarchy and we saved you a seat on the throne. Serena (aka SFK) joins Emma in going deep down the rabbit hole on all things from rejection wounds and confidence as survival, to how SFK was born (and what it’s been like slowly taking the m...

If you’ve ever wondered why you chase emotionally unavailable people, why you jump ship the second someone gets too close, or why “I’m fine” is your go-to lie — this one’s for you. In this week’s raw (and unexpectedly tearful) episode, Emma goes down the rabbit hole about the real root of her abandonment issues. And spoiler: it wasn’t her parents. From revolving-door relationships and friendships...

We are BACK with another episode of Ask Emma where she answers the unfiltered questions you guys send in — completely off the cuff. This week, Emma’s going down the rabbit hole on everything from the friendship breakups lacking closure to porn addictions ruining a relationship. She’s giving her two cents on where to actually meet people IRL when the apps are flopping, the difference between lookin...

What do Navy SEALs, Halloween, and an accidental acid trip have in common? Emma, apparently. In this episode of Too Much , we go all the way down the rabbit hole and into the power of the mind — what it is, why it works, and how to actually use it instead of spiraling into chaos. Emma breaks down the the psychology behind thought loops, all the ways she masters her mind and tools you can use to tr...

You know what’s harder than walking away from a toxic relationship? Walking away from one that looks perfect on paper — but leaves you questioning your worth every damn day. In this episode, we're going down the rabbit hole of why we stay too long, how to finally walk away, and what happens when you actually do. From relationships to friendships to business partners who drain your joy like a full-...

She kept quiet when the internet thought it had all the answers. Now, two years later, Gigi Paris is telling her story — on her terms. Today, Gigi breaks her silence for the first time since the very public unraveling of her four-year relationship with a certain A-list celebrity ex. This isn’t just a breakup story — this is a masterclass in self-worth, restraint, resilience and taking back the nar...

Consider this episode your detonation. We’re going DEEP down the rabbit hole (like “$5K ring on a first date” deep) into the psychological mindf*ck that is love bombing — what it is, how it shows up, and why even the savviest among us can fall for it when it’s wrapped in compliments, constant texts, and Paris plane tickets. Emma is breaking down the sneaky ways it appears, her wildest love bombing...

Let’s clear something up: not everyone you hate is a narcissist. And not everyone you love isn’t. This week, Emma is going down the rabbit hole of actual narcissism — in platonic and romantic relationships. What it is, what it isn’t, and how to spot the difference between someone who’s just selfish… and someone who’s clinically manipulative. And this is just PART ONE. From love bombing and future...

This week, we're going down the rabbit hole about the rabbit hole. The one we go down when we see everyone’s getting engaged, having babies, buying homes... and you’re over here just trying to find your phone. Emmas' diving into the psychological chaos of comparison, the pressure of timelines, and the positive pregnancy test that changed her perspective forever. From biological clocks and made up...

You hope he’ll text you. You hope he’ll change. You hope the mixed signals mean something good. Let’s be real: you’re not hopeful — you’re in denial. This week, we're joined by dating coach, podcaster, and professional bullshit-caller, Sabrina Zohar, to unpack the psychology behind clinging to potential in dating. We talk dopamine addiction, Disney delusions, and the brutal difference between heal...

It’s time for some tough love. In this episode, we’re talking about accountability —why it’s the foundation of any healthy relationship, and how learning to take responsibility (and demand it from others) changed the way I show up in friendships, work, and love. It’s a little bit of a TED Talk, a little bit of a therapy session, and a whole lot of truth. If you’ve ever struggled with someone's ref...

This week, we’re going down the rabbit hole into another Ask Emma — tackling your juiciest, rawest questions about maintaining independence in relationships, navigating hyper-independence without being labeled “toxic,” friendship breakups, ignoring the haters, and why celebrating your wins (even the tiny ones) is non-negotiable. As always: no scripts, no filters, just me, you, and a wild ride down...

This week’s episode was recorded on April 17th — 48 hours after sharing the truth behind the end of Unhinged. After a whirlwind 48 hours, Emma is taking a moment to share gratitude, to reintroduce herself, to reframe what it means to be “too much,” and remind you why this podcast exists in the first place. Emma’s been deemed “too much” everywhere from classrooms to boardrooms — and instead of shri...

This is the truth about what happened with my podcast, Unhinged — and the detailed, receipt-bearing, factual account of what has unfolded behind closed doors. For over two months, I stayed silent as the podcast I built was taken out from under me. I was locked out, erased, and a new show has been operating on my platforms — without my consent. Today, I’m finally sharing the truth. This isn’t about...

This week, Emma welcomes her very first guest — dating guru and host of Seeing Other People , Ilana Dunn — and things go off the rails immediately (in the best way). From decoding green flags, emotional unavailability, and the struggle between "chemistry vs. compatibility," the two dive way down the rabbit hole of modern dating. Plus, Emma throws a new game into the mix: "Too Much or Not Enough?"...

Rejection is just redirection, right? But sometimes it can feel easier said than done. Whether it's a breakup, a job loss or just a plan you made up in your mind that goes to sh*t, this week, Emma goes down the rabbit hole about the art of pivoting. She's breaking down the psychology behind why change is so hard, how to rewire your brain, and how she turned her biggest ‘WTF’ moments into the bigge...

All breakups suck, but this one? It takes the cake. Emma dives into a tell-all of her worst, most painful, insane breakup EVER. It's a crazy ride, but how she handled it, is even crazier. Follow Too Much: ⁠IG⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ Follow Emma: ⁠IG⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ Want to submit a story or ask Emma for advice? Fill out the form below. https://forms.gle/ZQS261jcUxDFYVoD9 For collaborations and opportunities, email: p...

Ever just ask yourself, wtf am I doing with my life? Emma's been there, but eventually she figured it out (sort of) and this week, she's teaching you how you can too. From lemonade stands to running her own company, she's taking you on a decade long journey of becoming an entrepreneur, spilling all her tips & tricks to starting your own business and giving you the motivation you need to do the...

Romantic breakups? Expected. But no one warns you about the soul-crushing pain of a friendship breakup. One day you're inseparable, the next—ghosted. No closure, no roadmap, just question marks. This week, Emma's going down the rabbit hole of why friendship breakups sting more than romantic ones, the red flags we all ignore, and how to move on without losing yourself in the process. The biggest ta...

Welcome to Ask Emma , the first of many Q&A episodes where you’ll send in your burning questions, and Emma will give her best big sister advice you never want to hear, but know you need. This week, we’re going down the rabbit hole of everything from dealing with competitive friends and being the single one to moving cross-country with a boyfriend and bringing guys home to your parents' house....

By popular demand, this week Emma is going down the rabbit hole about what it takes to be confident as hell. Emma likes to think of herself as a pretty confident person, but has she always been this way? From her highs and lows to how she’s mastered the art of being confident, tune in for Emma’s unfiltered, tell-all guide on how to exude confidence and be your best self.  Follow Too Much: ⁠IG⁠ ⁠Ti...

From dating do’s and dont’s to an unfiltered lesson that will change how you feel about being single, this week Emma’s going down the dating rabbit hole. So, dust off your little black book and re-download the apps because you’re about to be pulled out of your delulu and pushed back into the dating game… and you’re gonna like it. Shop the merch⁠!! Follow Too Much: ⁠IG⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ Follow Emma: ⁠IG⁠ ⁠...

As I sit here writing this description, questions race through my mind. Is it too soon to share this? Will I be judged? Should I even be sharing this at all? But I started this podcast from a place of authenticity, and to even begin to understand me is to know all of me. So here I am, this is my story. And at the very least I hope it can help one person. A brief advisory: This episode contains dis...