Todd Talk

This week’s episode begins with a simple sentence that stopped me in my tracks. A friend recently told me, “I love the way you see the world.” It wasn’t just a compliment — it was an invitation to look more closely at how our perspective shapes our experience. In this episode, we explore the quiet power of noticing the little things: a bird’s nest tucked in the grass, a fallen tree you pass on the...

Ever notice how a simple question can sometimes turn into a full-blown argument? One minute someone’s sharing an idea, and the next, they’re shutting down because the conversation shifted from curious to critical. In this episode, Todd dives into why that happens — especially in our closest relationships — and how we can learn to ask questions that invite connection instead of conflict. Through pe...

When the clutch fan on Todd’s dump truck broke, it left him facing a repair job he’d never done before — tearing down and rebuilding a diesel motor from the inside out. What started as a mechanical problem turned into a powerful life lesson about perseverance, patience, and staying cool under pressure. In this episode, Todd shares how tackling one bolt at a time — literally — became a reminder tha...

Love isn’t just something we say — it’s something we do. In this episode of Todd Talk, we dive deep into what it really means to treat love as a verb. It’s the quiet moments — making someone coffee just the way they like it, noticing when their favorite sweatshirt has worn thin, or showing up when life gets messy — that reveal the truth about love in action. Todd explores how love shows up not onl...

This week, Todd reflects on a simple autumn morning that turned into a powerful life lesson. Standing in his front yard, he realized that as the leaves fall away, the view becomes clearer — a reminder that letting go isn’t loss, it’s revelation. In this heartfelt episode, Todd explores the seasons of our lives: the times we release what no longer serves us, the moments of clarity that follow, and...

There’s more than one way to make 100. You can do fifty plus fifty, seventy plus thirty, or even twenty fives all the way up. The total is the same — but the math looks different. In this episode, we'll explore how that simple truth applies to life, goals, and personal growth. Your path doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s, and your progress doesn’t have to follow a straight line. Whether you m...

Sometimes, helping others feels like the right thing — and most of the time, it is. But there’s a fine line between helping someone and holding them back. When we step in too often, we may accidentally create a cycle of dependency, resentment, or even entitlement. Real help doesn’t mean doing everything for someone else — it means empowering them to stand on their own. In this episode, we’ll talk...

When something goes wrong, it’s tempting to point the finger—at yourself or at someone else. But blame is rarely that simple. In this episode, I talk about why blame is almost never one-sided, how carrying all of it can create self-doubt, and what to do when it feels like it’s all your fault. Whether it’s in a friendship, relationship, or at work, learning to step back, see the bigger picture, and...

When life doesn’t go the way you planned, it’s easy to get stuck in frustration or panic. But here’s the truth: you always have choices. In this episode, I share a personal story from the farm where things went wrong—and how remembering my choices helped me move forward instead of staying stuck. We’ll talk about why setbacks make us forget we even have options, how to shift back into decision-maki...

What does it mean to pursue what moves you? In this episode, I explore the power of pursuit—both figuratively and literally. Pursuing what moves you can mean chasing after the passions, callings, and meaningful work that fill your life with purpose. It can also mean physically moving—whether it’s changing careers, shifting environments, or taking bold steps into new chapters. Join me as I unpack h...

Someone recently asked me why and how I was so happy—and that question sparked today’s episode. Happiness isn’t about ignoring the hard stuff in life, and it doesn’t mean every day is perfect. But I believe happiness is possible when we shift our mindset, practice gratitude, and choose to focus on the right things. In this episode, I talk about the power of finding just one thing to look forward t...

In a world where AI videos can look so real, it’s hard to tell what’s fake. So how do we stay grounded in what’s true? In today’s episode, I'll share a conversation I recently had with my kids about the challenge of spotting what’s genuine in a noisy, digital world—and how it turned into a bigger lesson on authenticity. When life is full of distractions, comparisons, and “fake noise,” the best thi...

Sometimes the hardest problems we face don’t start big — they start small. A tiny habit, a small compromise, or something we decide to ignore “just this once.” Over time, it takes root. The longer we let it grow, the deeper it goes, and the harder it becomes to pull out without leaving a hole behind. In this episode, I share the story of a hayfield that was left unattended, how a single sapling be...

Have you ever stepped away from something, only to realize later how much you truly loved it—or how much you’ve outgrown it? In this episode, I explore the surprising truth that sometimes the way forward is found by looking back. Progress and growth are essential, but stepping away from a job, a passion, or even a community can give us the clarity we need. When we return, we often return different...

"Choose your pace, and your peace." -Me- In this episode, I open up about something I’ve been noticing in my own life: how easy it is to rush through the very moments we’ll someday wish we could go back to. Between family, work, and the endless list of responsibilities, I’ve caught myself hurrying through the things that matter most. I share a few personal stories that reminded me to slow down, be...

In this episode, I’m talking about a season that many of us face—but few of us feel comfortable in: the in-between. It’s that place where you’ve closed one chapter but haven’t quite figured out what the next one looks like. Maybe you’re changing careers, reevaluating your priorities, or simply feeling stuck. Whatever the reason, it can feel unsettling when you don’t know what’s next. I’ll share so...

In this episode, I’m reflecting on the natural rhythm of life—how each of us moves through different seasons: spring, summer, fall, and winter, and how those seasons aren't JUST about the weather. Each one brings its own challenges, growth, rest, and renewal. I believe that when we start to recognize and honor the season we’re in, we can find more peace, purpose, and clarity. I’ll share some perso...

What do overgrown toenails have to do with burnout, emotional health, and personal growth? A lot more than you think. In this episode, I'll share a funny and oddly profound lesson from my childhood — how a little bit of procrastination (and a pair of tight shoes) led to unnecessary pain… and how that same principle shows up in our adult lives. From putting off hard conversations to skipping rest w...

Ever made a decision that didn’t go the way you planned—and then beat yourself up for it? What if your “mistake” wasn’t a mistake at all—just part of the process? In this episode, we’re untangling the messy space between decisions and mistakes. Because too many of us carry guilt for things that didn’t work out, when really—we just made a call, and life happened. You’ll learn how to fail forward, h...

Do you answer your cell phone no matter what? Do you feel the urge to answer that text RIGHT NOW? Do you ever answer work emails even though you're having dinner with your family? I think we all have at some point. This episode will talk about how all of those things can be altered and changed to live a happier life. If you need the graphic I mentioned in the episode, click here ! Grab your drink...

Do you ever overthink things and try to see the whole plan all in the same instance? Do you worry that you don't have the whole month figured out, even though it's only the 2nd day? In this episode, we dive into how important it is to remember that you don't have to run the whole race in one stride - you can take it step by step. We'll look at how to take the next steps, and some strategies to mak...

We all feel it sometimes - the struggle to get going, to clean the house, write the paragraph, study the chapter, send the email, mow the lawn, be happy, be creative, and thousands of other things. That doesn't mean we're broken; it means we're human. And part of being human is taking time to reset, and then taking time to explore the things we can do to bring ourselves back to feeling happy, whol...

It's June, the 6-month mark! Have you gotten to all the things you wanted to? Are you feeling stuck or ready to keep growing? Join me as we find ways to check in and set strategies for the next 6 months to be fantastic! Grab your coffee or your drink of choice. It's time for Todd Talk!

Do you have a long list of things that have changed, and that have made you feel like your life is out of control, and won't ever be as good as it once was? Every person struggles with some changes along the way. Some are major, and some are minor, but they all lead us to one question: how do I enjoy life when something I love ends or changes. Garb your drink of choice and let's find out! It's tim...

We all have things that we feel create our identity. Some are bigger parts than others, and some more readily come to mind. But what happens when the things we feel identify us, are taken away? What happens when the title you have been given is no longer yours? Listen in as I reveal the GREAT news about losing part of your identity, and how powerful it can be in helping you realize your greater pu...