Thunder Thighs & Bedroom Eyes: A Fat Podcast

Join Krista and Suzy as they have a conversation with the delightfully irreverent Kelsey Conser, owner of Portland, Oregon's plus-size-only secondhand store, I Want Seconds.  In this relatable and amusing hour, Kelsey talks about finding and cultivating a personal style, the importance of building fat community, and the whimsically macabre decor of her living room.  Listen in to get everyone's tak...

Join Dr. Krista and Suzy as they talk to JayDanger, a Renaissance man of hip hop, visual art, and BDSM.  Jay shares with us where his music and art are taking him, and how his former profession as a drug dealer brought him into sex and dating in a larger body in an unexpected way.  Listen in for Jay's refreshing honesty, and a perspective that we haven't yet explored on Fat and Fucked - a fat cis...

On this episode, join Dr. Krista and Suzy for a fun and risque chat with model, muse, and professional domme Vivienne Rose.  We talk about the transformative power of travel, the difference between face sitting, squashing, and smothering, and the importance of writing thank you notes.  Vivienne shares with us her journey to a place of glorifying confidence, and urges all of us to seek the same.  A...

In the latest episode, Suzy and Krista talk about their late diagnoses of ADHD, the links between ADHD and fat bodies, and the struggles of eating intuitively with a neurodivergent brain.  Both personal and informative, listen in to find out how ADHD can be a superpower, learn the 10 principles of intuitive eating, and hear about which chores are the absolute f*****g worst for our two neurospicy h...

Hello again, sweet listeners! After a lil hiatus, Suzy and Krista are back with the inimitable Pucks A'Plenty!  Join us as we dish about how fat burlesque and fat kink created a roadmap to fat joy for Pucks, who, in turn, works so hard to share fat joy with others.  After eight years on the burlseque scene, Pucks founded Fatlesque Fest NW and worked with a team to produce the first FatCon in Seatt...

In an intimate and amusing half-hour, Dr. Krista and Suzy discuss Suzy's experience with socialized medicine in a fat body, Krista's journey into the intersection of ADHD and intuitive eating, and the importance of self-care in an exhausting, oppressive culture.  Our hosts are taking a much-needed break for a couple of months, but they'll be back soon with hot fresh fat lib content.  Who loves ya,...

On this week's episode of Fat and Fucked, Sophia Apostol of Fat Joy pod joins Suzy and Krista to discuss her journey as a podcaster, her experience writing fat sex, the importance of choosing joy, and the "glory of a fat body" that she found in herself with a boudoir photo session.  Tune in for this fun, thoughtful, and informative conversation if you need a dose of fat joy in your life!  And I me...

Episode 17 is juicy, sexy, and fun! In this week’s release, we dig into the transformative power of fat folks being seen and represented as beautiful and sexy. Your hosts talk with artist Craig Hayward (@craigsarthole) and his partner, confidante, and muse Jo Hayward about Craig’s sexy art, how they navigate their relationship and parenting when sexy content abounds, and how Craig’s creativity mov...

In this episode, Krista and Suzy dive deep into the topic of pleasure, dissecting its various forms, societal perceptions, and personal experiences. They explore pleasure in a fatphobic society, the joys of feeling good sexually and non-sexually, and the cultural and gendered layers that influence our relationship with pleasure. The rich conversation evolves to cover a number of important pieces o...

Hey there, Fat and Fucked listeners! Get ready to grab your favorite snack and snuggle into your comfiest spot because Krista and Suzy are back with an episode with the fabulous hosts of Big Sexy Chat. On "Fat and Fucked in a Big Sexy Way with Chrystal and Merf," they're chopping it up with two fat liberationist sex positive podcast hosts and let me tell you, this convo gets good!   In this episod...

Join us for another episode of "Fat and Fucked," where we explore fat liberation, sex positivity, and embracing authenticity! In this episode, hosts Suzy and Krista are thrilled to have an intimate conversation with Nia Williams - a vibrant personality known for her confidence and creative content.   Discover the secrets behind Nia's authentic social media presence. Her commitment to self-love, st...

In Episode 13 of "Fat and Fucked," Krista and Suzy chat with Kiely aka IntuitiveFatty about their "Move and Mend" program and how they're working to help clients living in fat bodies to heal their complex relationships to movement. This conversation highlights the need for safe movement spaces that prioritize inclusivity and compassion for those who are accustomed to experiencing judgment and sham...

In a raw and deeply personal conversation between the hosts, Suzy Hooker opens up about her transformative mid-life crisis inspired by the principles of fat liberation. Alongside co-host Krista Nabar, this episode delves into challenging conversations about personal evolution, the struggle for acceptance, and the power of authentic living, all within the framework of fat liberation.   The hosts di...

In this episode of Fat and Fucked, your hosts Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker are joined by the marvelous Kayla Stansberry (she/her). Kayla's not just a fatty with the same love for cheese and cookies as us, she's a licensed clinical professional counselor who champions anti-oppression and fat positivity, in the most delightful way! Kayla is the owner of Intuitive Growth Counseling, and works as a th...

Hey there, fellow liberationists! Welcome to another episode of "Fat and Fucked" with your hosts, Suzy Hooker and Krista Nabar. In this episode our resident sexpert, Dr. Sexyfat, answers a bunch of listener questions about porn, sexual authenticity, nakedness, and sexual functioning among other things.   Before we dive into the Q&A, let's catch you up on what's been happening. Suzy, who has a...

Welcome to a new episode of Fat and Fucked, hosted by Dr. Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker. We are so glad you made it since this is THE EPISODE you need to hear! We have two incredible guests joining us for an extremely valuable conversation. Dr. Asher Larmie (he/they) and Jeanette Thompson-Wessen (she/her) settle the score on why fat liberation PROMOTES health rather than detracts from it.   Jeanett...

Fat and Fucked made it to episode 8, where most podcasts go to die. And what a journey it has been! This episode offers a vulnerable discussion of the challenges and successes that Suzy and Krista have had building Fat and Fucked from the ground up. Shocker, it’s been a lot of work, but also a highly rewarding experience! The hosts then share some of the feedback they have gotten from loved ones w...

Episode 7 is a must-listen for anyone who has struggled with sexual desire and libido, either their own or their partner’s. Hosts Suzy and Krista are joined by Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy (she/her), a licensed psychologist and an AASECT certified sex therapist. She owns her own private practice in Minnesota, and is the co-author of the book Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in...

Fat and Fucked, Ep. 6 - The Intersection of Blackness, Fatness, and Sex: A Conversation with Sex Therapist and Educator Ceara Corry   “I don’t see color. I see everyone as part of the HUMAN race. I treat everyone equally.” This is how many white folx were taught to think about race specifically and individual differences more broadly. This perspective, however, does not account for our own unconsc...

If you have listened to other episodes of Fat and Fucked and thought “What the hell are they talking about?” or “Why are they using THAT word?” then this episode is for you! Suzy and Krista will talk about the words they use on their fat liberation and social justice journey, and will breakdown the misconceptions and confusion so that we all have a common language on our Fat and Fucked expedition....

Episode #4: The Goonies and One-Eyed Willy’s Treasure: A Metaphor for our Search for Healthy Sexuality   We are going on an adventure in search of healthy sexuality, and conquering the societal booby traps that keep us away from embodiment, autonomy, and pleasure! Join hosts Suzy and Krista as they discuss the impediments we all face in our sexual development while centering the conversation aroun...

Anti-fatness is insidious, and we are intentionally misled about fatness and fat people which leads most of us on an all-consuming venture to shrink our bodies or make sure we don’t get fat in the first place. Join Suzy and Krista as they locate the reason for this misinformation in the context of systemic gaslighting that is pushing us toward weight loss while making many corporations and industr...

The Big Fat Lie, or the belief that fat is bad and thin is good, is pervasive and spawns countless other lies, beliefs, misunderstandings and misinterpretations across all facets of our society. Of course this has a huge impact on everyone, but especially fat folks living in a world structured around anti-fat bias. In this episode, Suzy and Krista illuminate some of the things we get wrong in a ja...

What the f**k is “Fat and Fucked”? In the first episode, hosts Suzy Hooker and Dr. Krista Nabar lay the groundwork for moving toward a world in which fat liberation reigns supreme. They share their personal journeys away from dieting and shame and toward acceptance of their fat bodies. A brief history and evolution of the Fat Acceptance movement puts Fat Liberation in context. The hosts explore th...