This Is Thirty Podcast

“God is good” “I could not get down with Kevin Samuels” “The new response to things we don’t like should be silence” “Men lie, women lie… numbers don’t” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses Mother’s Day, Kevin Samuel’s untimely death (13:00), minority on minority discrimination (21:00), boycotting a new restaurant (24:00), and This is Us being an exceptional show (39:00).   Three...

“Redundant trauma” “When is spring gonna start springing?” “That’s how blind we be for these men” “Nobody looked at this and said chill out On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses the 3 year anniversary celebration that is scheduled to take place on July 1, 2022. She also discusses Viola Davis’ portrayal as Michelle Obama,, coping with heavy emotions, spring break, and the issues she...

“It takes money to date” “It’s giving vacuum” “Reciprocation is normal” “We fumbled each other” “I don’t want to see you happy for at least 3 years”   On this short and sweet episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Geraldine. The two discuss reciprocity during the dating phase, fumbling the love of your life, career changes and much more.  The pod begins as the two discuss (6:00) "pick me...

"I’m tired of going through it with the wrong person"  "saving the pain for tomorrow"  "generational trauma is real"  "You broke me, n*gga…" On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. They discuss growing pains, sadness, crazy men, and more. The pod begins as they discuss areas in which they have established consistent growth (8:00). Areas that we just can’t seem to get right...

"Stimulate my mind" "The only thing better than  p*ssy is new p*ssy"  On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Dolph. They discusss Kevin Samuels' narratives, gender roles, the streets and much more.  The podcast begins as they discuss Dolph's role as Kevin Samuel's Jr. (6:00). The pod continues as they discuss the benefits of women equality and black girl magic (24:00). Women need...

“She just left him for the tenth time” “I was kept in the parking lot” “Ya'll are getting scammed on the daily” “I had just been introduced to a f-boy” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. They reflect on life, relationships, dealbreakers and much more. The podcast starts with a first quarter life-check in (6:00). Next, the two discuss some factors that keep the ’30 an...

“I’m not scouting for n*ggas outside” “Choose me every single day” "I ain't tryna see the same people every week” “Women always have time for love.. [men not so much]” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Keisha. The two discuss Women’s History Month, life as educators, social media transparency and much more. The podcast begins with a conversation about the importance of Women...

“Prayers for Ukraine” “Exuding black excellence on a daily basis” “Men like to have a plethora of good women on reserve” “To keep bothering me when you know you don’t want me is wild”   On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses men who fumble good women, books, staying inside & its benefits and much more.   The podcast starts with a birthday recap (7:00). “One person is celebrating, on...

“I had my fun” “White people are weird with hair” “Are you trying to make me your concubine?”  “The bloom of a field”  After a month, This is Thirty returns. Gernique is joined by Quatley and the two discuss Valentine's Day, black history, black hair and much more. The podcast begins as Gernique discusses the technical difficulties she's experienced with not recording. Then, the girls talk about t...

“I don’t want to be blinded by my own blindspots” “You n*iggas lie…” “I have helped plenty a n*gga” “This is quality content, people” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Nicaela. The two discuss single life, toxicity, cheating, break babies and much more. The podcast begins as the ladies discuss the single life.. ups and downs.. (9:00).  The beauty of being single (23:00) Why...

"I let love down" “He got the coin” “What is your purpose in love?” “Thoughts and reality are two different things” On this episode wrap up of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Jean, Pearls and Mich. The group talk about 2021, relationships, cheating, pop culture and much more.  The podcast begins as the group discuss the biggest L they took this year (8:00). The biggest W taken in 2021 (23:00...

“Changing the name of the pod to “This is Mommy.. This is Wife” “Do broke men get to have an opinion?” “I really don’t trust America” “Christmas as a single” On this episode of This is Thirty… Gernique talks about racism, disrespecting your partner in public, Jay-Z verzuz and much more. The podcast begins with a recap of Christmas (5:00). Dirty Laundry: Gernique talks about her white neighbor’s th...

"I know yall probably noticed the change in the show” “It’s like God’s promise to me” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique celebrates making it to 100 episodes. She talks about changes in the pod. S/O to James Bony! She also cries, lol.   Thanks for your support and for listening, #100episodes

“I do buss it wide open” “I have little girl syndrome” “If you’re not pleasing me, I’m cheating” “Lets talk about sex, baby” On this episode of This Is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two have an interesting conversation about sex, preferences, bedroom boundaries, turn offs and much more. Introduction to sex (13:00). Could you be celibate before marriage ? (22:00). Favorite positions (34...

“A nonchalant guy is dangerous” “I had covid” “My self worth is attached to my productivity” “I’m not a fan of things getting stuck in me” On this episode of This is Thirty Gernique is joined by Quatz. They discuss Gernique’s recent covid experience, dating taste, toxicity and much more. “I tested positive” (5:00). Vaccine Talk (19:00) Taste in men and friendships changing as you mature (31:00) Do...

A special episode solely dedicated to the black man. On this episode, Gernique talks about ALL the reasons why black men are worthy and worthy to be celebrated…everyday. Dear Black Men: This system was designed to destroy you. This world does not love you as much as it should. You are expected to LOVE the loudest while receiving the least emotional support. You are complex and multi-faceted. One s...

"I don't want to be on these streets when I’m 42" “You know within 6months to a year” “Rent is expensive” “Ima black girl” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. They discuss dating, productivity, self-care, soulmates and much more.  (8:00) Being Productive vs. Being Busy (15:00) Perfection Syndrome (24:00) Can being clear on your intentions scare someone away? (32:00) “I...

“I hope they clearing my student loans” “Passion is not fact” “Cuff me to the bed” “You don't have to spend a dime, if a girl really likes you” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Geraldine. The two discuss Haiti & immigration practices, tricking, cuffing season, dating and much more. The podcast begins with a convo about (8:00) Haiti and the recent mistreatment witnessed at t...

“Impregnate me” “I will not spend money on food this week” ‘When I don’t have money, I am not happy” “Pierreline don’t shoot me”   On this episode Gernique talks about baby fever, the importance of marrying a black man, making sure your passions don't take more than they give and much more.  The podcast starts with a convo about  (5:00) dreams vs 9-5. Baby fever is extremely real (12:00) The beaut...

“Authenticity is attractive” “I am not attracted to entrepreneurs” “Stay @ home daddies” “You can set trends by being yourself” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Quatley. The two discuss lifestyle changes, career & retirement funds, dating a good man with potential, being yourself and much more. The podcast begins as the two discuss experiencing career changes in your thirti...

“I do not like light liquor” “You gon make a hoe out of me” “Sometimes, there’s beauty in the unknown” “The streets have me scurred” On this episode, Gernique recaps her recent Mexico trip (2:00). Don’t take life for granted (9:00) When did concerts get so expensive? (13:00). Every black man needs to read “Concrete Rose” (19:00).  Breaking a woman’s heart is not funny (26:00) Relationship Status &...

"no cappin" "jump his bones"  "shame on me for changing, shame on you for staying the same"  On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Pearls. The two discuss cancel culture, vaccination incentives, internet influencers, sexual maturity and much more.  The podcast starts with a balanced conversation about the covid vaccination (11:00). The girls have a convo about "selective cancel...

Anybody else need a break from outside?! On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique discusses why racial harassment and discrimination should be a crime (6:00). In 2021, is sex the only way female musicians can sell music? Cardi B & Normani’s new song + video (15:00). Health over Pleasure: Eating Right, Listening To Your Body, & Adult Acne (24:00) Why are  rich men not ashamed of being dead beat...

“Das my homegirl” “The box may be too deep” “You and your dusty friends” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Mich aka LifeisGreat of the #ifyoudontsayitwewill podcast. The two discuss solo trips, the Iive podcast, practicing abstinence before marriage, social media rules and more. They also address several questions that weren’t able to be answered at the live show. (6:00) The...

“Nah Dawg” “I am not one for the situationship” “Its something about an up north n*gga that I like” “What has your single season taught you?” On this episode of This is Thirty, Gernique is joined by Nicaela. The two talk about taking back gifts after a breakup, approaching 30 (8:00), unhealthy social constructs (15:00)  tension in the workplace (22:00) leaving New Jersey (30:00),  single season, s...