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Quick thoughts on the Oscars 2022

How many times have you encouraged others and forgot yourself? At one point or another we have all done this. It has been a horrible habit of mine to do this and totally negate myself. This habit along with others may not stop but I will definitely work to identify and redirect when it comes to the surface. Because self care isn’t just for my loved ones, it’s for me too.

There is nothing like feeling hindered in a relationship directly or indirectly. I wouldn’t recommend at all! So be careful out there picking parters yal, be mindful of their values and make sure they align with yours completely.

“Put yourself out there get to it! Nothing is in your way but you I promise!” Oh, yal hear me talking to myself?

I love like it’s written in the Bible I love like vintage finds and dried rose petals Upu just a gotta let ya guard down to feel it you just gotta work to keep it

The data of taking just anything are over. Ion know about for you but for me fa sure. It’s no pressure if you’re not there yet either. Learn from your place in your path and keep pushing forward.

I’d be naive to say not a damn thing! Because we all know that’s not happening and not tru majority of the time. But I’d be perfectly acceptable to say “not too much”.

Listen 1 thing I’ve learned to take pride in is asserting boundaries! Because, fuk them people!

Do you save who you are for for yourself? Or do you share? The version you share, is that who you really are?

We all have them we all make them, the objective is to be happy with them in end.

Setting boundaries can be extremely difficult and painful even. There is no easy way around it. You have to go through it, all the luck and yuck is totally worth it. You’ll be full of wisdom and bliss on the other side of healthy boundaries.

That’s you ain’t it? I know! Easier said than done but before you ask, or require something from a person… make sure you can give those to yourself and make sure you can reciprocate!

The nerve of us walking around attached to our past. Tuh! Leave it where it’s at.

There’s always room to improve, it’s not simple or easy, it requires a lot of active thinking and doing, one of those things to do is be intentional.

Reading and reflection will have you reevaluate errrythang in your life. Get down to the nitty gritty and find out what it is you need so you flourish and thrive. There are parts to us all and you can only be as strong as your weakest area.

Sometimes your weapon of choice is a feather. Consider and accept the idea that not all conflict was to result in a blood bath or you winning. The idea for you to become and grow through finding the resolutions to your problems, no matter who they arise with.

It’s quite a journey to get there, but once you are you’ll never look back. Understanding yourself, helps you understand others, and your purpose in this life and every life you touch.

You must choose growth & acting as your higher self, over appeasing your desire to win or be right.

Get to know yourself, by yourself, through your own eyes. Learn each side of you and make a decision which one shows up and which one you want to win in every decision you make.

It not as easy as taking all your bad experiences, and lessons and just dumping them in the trash. You have to reflect, learn, and forgive to move on.

I mean we speak about it a lot but it always seems so tantalizing, or is that just to me. Anyway, you know you’re in alignment when you refuse anything besides the things that are gonna take you higher and closer to version of yourself and life you ultimately desire.

I mean iykyk. When things align with who you really are, and you become unapologetic about pursing your best self and everything you deserve, tell me how it feels.

Our bodies are ours. That is all. Just make sure what you do physically is a tru reflection of what you desire mentally, emotionally, spiritually.

It becomes easier to live, love, laugh, if you’re totally honest with yourself first. Then you can live alongside others, love your family, friends, community, partner, & laugh fully! It can’t always be everybody else, it’s gotta be my fault sometimes too, is the reality.