The Zachary Stockill Podcast

In today’s video, I’m going to share a crucial question that I think every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves. Read or watch below to learn more about putting together your vision for the future. Zachary Stockill: When you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, it’s all too easy to get completely consumed by the past. This is […] The post Your Vision For The Future: Ask Yourself...

In today’s video, I’m going to tell you why it’s a great time for men in the West to be dating. Read or watch below to hear my response to a common question: “Is dating for Western men getting worse?” Zachary Stockill: Over 10 years of coaching, I’ve worked with a lot of men of various […] The post “Is Dating For Western Men Getting WORSE??” Q & A [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive J...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a technique that’s going to help you power through difficult moments with retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about how to deal with difficult moments with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you clicked to watch this video today, chances are good you’re struggling with retroactive […] The post Difficult Moments with Retroactive Jealo...

In today’s video, I’m going to share a little retroactive jealousy tip that you’ve almost certainly never considered before. Read or watch below to discover a new retroactive jealousy tip. Zachary Stockill: At this point, after 10 years of working on the topic of retroactive jealousy, every time I think that I’ve covered it all […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Tip: Consider THIS… [VIDEO] appeared...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about living true to your dating standards without anger and bitterness. Read or watch below to learn more about living true to your standards and having a good time along the way. Zachary Stockill: Over ten years of dating and relationship coaching have taught me something interesting… My […] The post Living True To Your Standards Without Anger or Bitterness [V...

In today’s video, I talk about how to prevent a retroactive jealousy relapse at any point in the future. Read or watch below to learn more about how to prevent a retroactive jealousy relapse. Zachary Stockill: On this channel and elsewhere, I’m often asked about retroactive jealousy relapses. As I have been working on this issue […] The post How to PREVENT A Retroactive Jealousy Relapse: Try This...

In today’s video, I offer my thoughts on the notion of “alpha widows” as it relates to “The Red Pill,” and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to hear my thoughts on so-called “alpha widows.” Zachary Stockill: If you have any familiarity with the “red pill” section of the internet, otherwise known as the “manosphere,” you’ve […] The post “Alpha Widows” and Retroactive Jealousy: My Thoughts [...

In today’s video, I respond to a viewer who wonders what to do about an imbalance of experience in his relationship. Read or watch below to hear my response to the question of “I’m not her first… and she’s mine.” Zachary Stockill: What do you do if you’re struggling with painful, unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your […] The post “I’m NOT Her First Love… And She’s Mine. What To Do?” Q & A [VIDEO...

In today’s video, I offer my opinion on exposing yourself to retroactive jealousy triggers. Read or watch below to hear my answer to the question, “Should I be exposing myself to retroactive jealousy triggers?” Zachary Stockill: When you are struggling with retroactive jealousy, is it a good idea to be exposing yourself to retroactive jealousy triggers? […] The post “EXPOSING Myself to Retroactive...

In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how mindfulness for 5 minutes a day will help you start beating retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn about mindfulness for retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how just five minutes a day can start helping you beat retroactive jealousy.  […] The post Mindfulness for Retroactive Jealousy: Try THIS [VIDE...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about why it’s so important to “not make your woman your world.” Don’t make your woman your world… here’s what I mean: Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been watching my channel for a while, if you’ve read one of my books or anything like that, chances are you may have […] The post DON’T Make Your Woman Your World: What I Mean [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retr...

Today, I will talk about what beating retroactive jealousy feels like and what keeps me motivated after 10 years of being a retroactive jealousy coach. Read or watch below to learn more about what beating retroactive jealousy feels like. Zachary Stockill: This year marks 10 years into my career as a full-time coach devoted to the […] The post What Beating Retroactive Jealousy Feels Like (Listen to...

In today’s video, I share my thoughts on what I look for in a therapist or a coach. Read or watch below to learn more about what I look for in a therapist. Zachary Stockill: I have been a full-time coach working on the issue of relationships and jealousy for about 10 years now. It probably […] The post What I Look For In A Therapist Or Coach [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jealous...

In today’s video, I talk about the secret of meditation, and discuss the misconceptions many people have about this ancient mindfulness practice. Read or watch below to learn about the secret of meditation. Zachary Stockill: I often speak about the incredible benefits of meditation. Meditation, breathwork, or any kind of mindfulness are practices that help strengthen […] The post The SECRET of Med...

In today’s video, I share a technique for dealing with unwanted retroactive jealousy thoughts. Read or watch below to learn more about overcoming unwanted retroactive jealousy thoughts. Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with a problem like retroactive jealousy, chances are you’re struggling with unwanted intrusive thoughts. There are thoughts that sometimes pop up out of nowhere […] The post...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about one of those skills that will improve every area of your life: emotional control. Read or watch below to discover how to achieve emotional control. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m going to talk about one of the skills that will improve just about every area of your […] The post How to Achieve Emotional Control: Listen to This [VIDEO] appeared first...

In today’s video, I respond to someone who wants to know how to change deeply held beliefs around sex. Read or watch below to learn how to change beliefs about sex. Zachary Stockill: Everyone has a certain framework that they rely on to go through life and make sense of the world. And every once in […] The post “How To CHANGE Beliefs About Sex?” Q & A [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroacti...

In today’s video, I want to respond to a viewer’s question related to retroactive jealousy triggers: “Do I have to accept that certain things will always trigger me?” Read or watch below to hear my response to the question, “Will retroactive jealousy triggers go away?” Zachary Stockill: I get a lot of questions about triggers from […] The post “Will Retroactive Jealousy Triggers Go Away?” My Respo...

In today’s video, I’m going to answer the question: “Is the exposure technique applicable when it comes to retroactive jealousy?” Read or watch below to learn more about my thoughts about a common retroactive jealousy exposure technique. Zachary Stockill: If you are currently struggling with any kind of symptoms relating to anxiety, or retroactive jealousy, and […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Ex...

In today’s video, I share three more questions every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves. Read or watch below to discover more questions for retroactive jealousy sufferers. Zachary Stockill: Some of you may be surprised to know that I really believe that most retroactive jealousy sufferers have many of the answers to the questions they need […] The post 3 More Questions For Retroac...

In today’s video, I provide my thoughts on marriage. Read or watch below to learn more about my response to the Google search “Zachary Stockill wife”. Zachary Stockill: So I need to start today’s video with a bit of an embarrassing confession. The other day, I was Googling my own name, because curiosity got the best […] The post “Zachary Stockill Wife??” My Thoughts on Marriage [VIDEO] appeared fi...

In today’s video, I want to talk about one of the simplest and easiest ways to maintain the spark in a long-term relationship. Read or watch below to learn more about how to make sexual attraction last. Zachary Stockill: If you look around YouTube, if you look around Google, there are a million different answers to […] The post How To Make Sexual Attraction Last: Is THIS It? [VIDEO] appeared first...

In today’s video, I talk about what I’ve learned over the past 10 years of working on retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about my experience as a full-time coach working on retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: It’s hard to believe, but this month marks 10 years since I published my first book, […] The post Working on Retroactive Jealousy: My Lessons After 10 Years [VIDEO] a...

In today’s video, I want to explore the relationship between the concept of “projection” and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about retroactive jealousy and projecting. Zachary Stockill: If you have been in a relationship for any amount of time, odds are good that at least once or twice,you’ve been guilty of projecting […] The post Retroactive Jealousy and “Projecting” (Does...

Today, I’m going to talk about how to care less about what other people think, and become more selective about whose opinion you value. Read or watch below to discover how to care less about what other people think. Zachary Stockill: This year marks 10 years since I started working one on one with retroactive jealousy […] The post How To Care LESS About What Other People Think [VIDEO] appeared fir...