The Zachary Stockill Podcast

In today’s video, I offer a few thoughts on why she might be friends with her ex. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with feelings around why she’s still connected with her ex. Zachary Stockill: Navigating social media can be tricky, especially when someone in a relationship is struggling with retroactive jealousy. […] The post “Why Is She Friends With Her Ex?” A Few Thoughts [VID...

In today’s video, I discuss how men can “take her off the pedestal.” Read or watch below to learn strategies to take her off the pedestal. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been watching my channel for a while—or if you’re in one of my online courses—you’ve probably heard me talk about taking your partner off the […] The post “Take Her OFF the Pedestal:” A Message for Men [VIDEO] appeared first on Overc...

In today’s video, I discuss how to handle getting unstuck with retroactive jealousy Read or watch below to learn strategies for getting unstuck with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Getting unstuck with retroactive jealousy can feel impossible when you’re overwhelmed by it. If you’re dealing with unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past and feel like […] The post Getting Unstu...

In today’s video, I discuss how to handle projecting retroactive jealousy onto your partner. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with projecting retroactive jealousy onto your partner. Zachary Stockill: As most people dealing with retroactive jealousy know, when we’re stuck with unwanted thoughts about our partner’s past, it’s easy to start projecting […] The post PROJECTING Retroa...

In today’s video, I discuss regular jealousy versus retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with regular jealousy versus retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Many people dealing with retroactive jealousy also experience regular, present-day jealousy. In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who asked whether the same strategies used to overcome […] The post...

In today’s video, I discuss how to handle retroactive jealousy destroying relationship. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with retroactive jealousy destroying relationship. Zachary Stockill: Are you ruining a perfectly good relationship because of retroactive jealousy? Maybe you’re pushing your partner away—on purpose or without even realizing it—because you’re worried about thei...

In today’s video, I discuss the cost of The Red Pill in relationships. Read or watch below to learn strategies for understanding the true cost of The Red Pill. Zachary Stockill: Many men in the online red pill movement don’t really aim to build stronger men—they’re more focused on creating stronger customers. And that’s exactly […] The post COST Of The Red Pill: Guys, Consider This [VIDEO] appeare...

In today’s video, I discuss how to change your perspective on the past. Read or watch below to learn how to change your perspective on the past so you can find more peace and clarity in your relationship. Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past, there’s a good chance […] The post CHANGE Your Perspective on the Past: How to Do It [VIDEO] ap...

In today’s video, I discuss how to handle the question: Are you in the wrong relationship or is it retroactive jealousy? Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with doubts and figuring out if it’s the wrong relationship or retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: When you’re having unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past, […] The post Wrong Relationship or Retroactive Je...

In today’s video, I discuss what it means to avoid love to avoid retroactive jealousy—and whether that mindset truly helps you heal Read or watch below to learn strategies for navigating the mindset of trying to avoid love to avoid retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you’re a man dealing with retroactive jealousy, and you’ve faced […] The post Avoid Love to Avoid Retroactive Jealousy? My Th...

In today’s video, I discuss how to handle anxiety about a partner’s past behaviours. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with anxiety about partner’s past. Zachary Stockill: If you’re dealing with unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past, you’re probably feeling some anxiety around it. If that sounds like you, I’m sharing […] The post “Anxiety About Partner’s Past… Wh...

In today’s video, I address the question: “Why does she talk about her past?“ Read or watch below to learn “Why does she talk about her past?” and how to respond in a healthy way. Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with intrusive thoughts about your partner’s painful past, you’re not alone. Maybe you keep replaying […] The post “WHY Does She Talk About Her Past?” A Few Thoughts [VIDEO] appeare...

Zachary Stockill: If you’re someone who struggles with retroactive jealousy—meaning you’re dealing with unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past, and it’s affecting your current relationship—I think you’ll really want to watch today’s video. My name is Zachary Stockill, and since 2013, I’ve helped thousands of men and women around the world overcome retroactive jealousy […] The post...

In today’s video, I share how dating changed after I beat retroactive jealousy and set boundaries Read or watch below to learn how I navigated relationships after I beat retroactive jealousy and the strategies that helped me move forward. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m doing something I haven’t done much recently on this channel—I’ll […] The post After I Beat Retroactive Jealousy: What Ca...

In today’s video, I respond to a viewer who is concerned about “videos of my girlfriend and her ex.” Read or watch below to learn more about how to deal with a situation involving a “girlfriend and her ex,” and retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: As we all know, overcoming retroactive jealousy can be tough—and it […] The post “Videos Of My Girlfriend And Her Ex… How to Forget?” [VIDEO] appeare...

In today’s video, I’m going to go into the story of how Roberta overcame retroactive jealousy and turned her relationship around. Read or watch below to learn more about how a former student in “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast,” Roberta, overcame retroactive jealousy and found peace in her relationship. Zach: I really appreciate you […] The post How Roberta Overcame Retroactive Jealousy (Incredi...

In today’s video, I respond to a reader who writes “My girlfriend told me her ex was better.” Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with retroactive jealousy when your girlfriend tells you her ex was better. Zachary Stockill: A young man reached out to ask an important question about the fear of […] The post “Girlfriend Told Me Her Ex Was Better… What to Do?” [VIDEO] appeared first o...

In today’s video, I discuss coaching for overcoming retroactive jealousy, and share a remarkable story from a recent client. Read or watch below to learn strategies through coaching for overcoming retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Maybe you could start by sharing a bit about where you were at emotionally before you decided to invest in coaching. […] The post Coaching for Overcoming Retroacti...

In today’s video, I discuss whether overcoming retroactive jealousy means being “indifferent to my partner’s past.” Read or watch below to learn whether overcoming retroactive jealousy means being indifferent to my partner’s past and how to set healthy boundaries. Zachary Stockill: I recently received an interesting comment from a viewer of this channel, suggesting that […] The post “INDIFFERENT t...

In today’s video, I respond to a reader who writes “being apart makes retroactive jealousy worse,” and how to handle it in a long-distance relationship. Read or watch below for strategies to handle the challenges of retroactive jealousy in a long-distance relationship. Zachary Stockill: There are many people in long-distance relationships who struggle with retroactive […] The post “Being Apart Mak...

In today’s video, I share some thoughts on how men can increase attraction in relationships. Read or watch below to learn strategies on how men can increase attraction in relationships. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’ll be talking about one of my favorite topics—tips for men to increase attraction in long-term relationships. I’m Zachary Stockill, […] The post How Men Can Increase Attraction...

In today’s video, I discuss common retroactive jealousy mistakes to avoid. Read or watch below to learn about retroactive jealousy mistakes to avoid. Zachary Stockill: If you’re dealing with retroactive jealousy—unwanted intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past—there’s a good chance that if this has been going on for a while, you might be making one […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Mistakes t...

In today’s video, I respond to the question: “Should you accept retroactive jealousy triggers?“ Read or watch below to hear my response to: Should you accept retroactive jealousy triggers? Zachary Stockill: Many people with retroactive jealousy know that a common part of this disorder is encountering triggers—situations or events outside our control that can spark […] The post Should You Accept Re...

In today’s video, I discuss how to handle retroactive jealousy flaring up around the topic of long-term commitment. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with retroactive jealousy flaring up when you begin to think about the future. Zachary Stockill: For over 11 years of working on retroactive jealousy, I’ve received the same […] The post “Retroactive Jealousy Flaring Up When I Consi...

In today’s video, I respond to a viewer who writes “What if my wife is comparing me to her ex?” and what to do when these thoughts take over. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with the insecurity of “comparing me to her ex” and how to stop these thoughts from affecting […] The post “What If She Is Comparing Me to Her Ex? Help!” [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jea...