The XrossroadZ Podcast

One part was simply not enough. This week we welcome psychotherapist Stevon Lewis, LMFT back to The XrossroadZ. While Barzini reached back in the XrossroadZ vault to get Stevon’s opinions on some previous topics, Dre asked some questions from The XrossroadZ discussion group including submission in a relationship and asking for a prenup before marriage. You don’t want to miss the wrap up.  Follow S...

This episode was a lot of fun though tackling subject matter that is serious. Another 20 year friendship is on display as psychotherapist Stevon Lewis, LMFT joins us at The XrossroadZ. Although Stevon spends his days helping BIPOC professionals overcome Impostor Syndrome specifically, he spent some time also discussing navigating mental health within relationships, tearing down communication barri...

Join Barzini and Dre Renee where the conversation begins with whether or not a woman is truly committed to her marriage by choosing to hyphenate her name and morphs into ways that men and women struggle to balance work, love and family. Get ready to look at and consider love (& marriage) as a business; the sacrifice, understanding and work that it takes to make it grow...and last. Support the...

We made it to 20 EPISODES! Even though we've had a few 2-parters, we are celebrating this as a DUB! Safe spaces can be few and far between in relationships. Women complain that men don't share their feelings, but are men allowed to truly feel and express their genuine experience? Barzini says no, and breaks down the conundrum for Dre while she strives to understand why (generally) men do...

Each week, Dre and Barz tackle a discussion. Sometimes there's agreement, sometimes there's disagreement. At the end of the day, they HEAR one another because they speak one another's language...even when it's not their "native tongue". Based on the book, The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts, by Gary Chapman, your #favepodcastpair breaks down one of the...

When this episode was recorded, the only thing known at the time was that "relationship guru" #DerrickJaxn had cheated on his wife multiple times, while being a self love advocate that appealed to women and held the feet of men to the fire regarding their conduct in relationships. The day after, we could not have anticipated what would happen next. Listen in as your #favepodcastpair brea...

What happens when you find love, but miles and time zones stand in the way? According to Barzini, NOTHING. 😂 Your #favepodcastpair is at it again! Check out this week's episode where Dre Renee discusses her experience with long distance relationships, how being willing to try (again) led to a jackpot...but also why she doesn't recommend it for the average person. Support the show Want t...

Should you be focused on dating when there's only air in your wallet? Or purse? Chile, don't get Barzini started! But seriously, can you find "the one" while your ends are too far apart to meet? Does that answer change whether you're a man or woman? Tune in to find out what your #favepodcastpair has to say about it. Support the show Want to be a guest or share a topic? Ema...

Russell Wilson & Ciara were featured on GQ's Couple Quiz a few weeks ago (https://youtu.be/7dnI3btuvlM), and immediately social media was buzzing with commentary around Russ saying that his biggest fear was "losing Ciara". This is but a small piece of what the public has had to comment on regarding their relationship over the past 5-6 years. Get ready to laugh as #yourfavepodcas...

Relationships can be hard enough...without the input and opinions of family members, not to mention the strain it causes when they don't get along with a spouse or significant other.  Listeners were asked to share how much weight their families hold when it comes to their romantic relationships, while Barz & Dre shared their perspectives and questioned the possessiveness mothers feel rega...

Sometimes women hear what a man has to say and is left wondering what he meant. Other times she's just left to wonder what he means...with no words. This week Barz and Dre Renee talk about communication gaps and barriers between the sexes. You know, "what does he really mean when he says..." or what to gather when he switches things up and doesn't communicate. Listen in, Suppor...

Have you seen the movie #MalcolmandMarie on #Netflix? The internet has been ablaze with think pieces, couples (and singles) have been having intense conversations and your #favepodcastpair has taken to the mic to share their thoughts as well. Whether you thought it was toxic or beautiful, one thing's for sure...it's not just black and white. Support the show Want to be a guest or share a...

Why do we care so much about about social media? It plays such a huge part in so many people's lives these days, especially love lives. Either you're "Instagram official" or it didn't happen. Listen in as Barzini and Dre Renee talk about social media and the effects on dating, relationships and shooting your shot. Support the show Want to be a guest or share a topic? Email...

Getting back into the dating game isn't always easy, especially after experiencing a crazy journey with plenty of bumps in the road. This week Barzini and Dre Renee continue the chat with Patrice, a single mom of a teenager, who is ready to try her hand at love again after a purpose filled hiatus to develop herself, raise her son and heal from past shenanigans. And this episode is extra speci...

Getting back into the dating game isn't always easy, especially after experiencing a crazy journey with plenty of bumps in the road. This week Barzini and Dre Renee talk to Patrice, a single mom of a teenager, who is ready to try her hand at love again after a purpose filled hiatus to develop herself, raise her son and heal from past shenanigans. And this episode is extra special because, thi...

Everyone seems to have the name Lori Harvey across their lips (or in their posts) these days. From allegedly dating Trey Songz, Diddy (or Justin), Future, and now linked to Michael B. Jordan, this young lady is "living her best life". Or is she? Using this gossip headline as inspiration, your #favepodcastpair dives into dating perceptions, societal norms, celeb sex tapes and what it mean...

Guess who turned 40 this week? January 6th means...it's DRE DAY! This week, Barzini talks to Dre Renee about the journey to her milestone birthday and their road to becoming best friends. But it wouldn't be #TheXrossroadZ without a surprise...or several. Join #yourfavoritepodcastpair and a few special guests to celebrate the Tech Diva! Support the show Want to be a guest or share a topic...

Happy New Year from The #XrossroadZPodcast! We know that you loved the sweetness of Part 1, but here is where it gets SPICY.  Join your #favepodcastpair, Barzini & Dre Renee in a continued conversation with RILEY (also known as Amber Riley) and her fiancé, Desean Black. They have something to get off their chests and a word for the critics, doubters and skeptics. So raise a glass to this exten...

Merry Christmas from #yourfavepodcastpair! What screams Christmas gift more than the 1st celebrity guest on #TheXrossroadZ Podcast? RILEY (also known as Amber Riley) is an award winning singer, songwriter, actress and producer, but most of all, she is a woman in LOVE! This kickoff to the holiday episodes will feature an exclusive interview and celebration of engagement to her fiancé, Desean Black....

This week's topic started with Dre Renee sending Barz a blog story about Pastor John Gray and yet another cheating allegation. Soon enough the question was raised, "why do men cheat?" Hold onto your seats as your #favepodcastpair discusses and debates cheating between the sexes. Support the show Want to be a guest or share a topic? Email us at xrossroadzpodcast@gmail.com Follow us a...

There was just too much fun for just one episode! Check out Pt 2 of "He Who Swipes Right" featuring The Addisons. There was an overwhelming response to Marcus & Taylor's story in Pt 1., but that was just the beginning. This week is the continuation. Can TRUE LOVE be found on a dating app? Ask The Addisons. Support the show Want to be a guest or share a topic? Email us at xrossro...

Online dating these days can be full of adventure or a full out nightmare. From putting up the perfect profile picture to agonizing over an endless string of first dates. You've either heard the stories or you've been a story. Well meet The Addisons, Marcus & Taylor, who met on a very particular app and forged a very intentional relationship and journey. Can TRUE LOVE be found on a d...

When you find yourself in a toxic space or breathing toxic air, sometimes it can be unbeknownst to you. People outside can see it, but they can't get to you (or save you) because you're isolated, in a chamber. Even once you've left the situation, you may still have effects that render positive things foreign or even frightening to you. In this episode, the focus is on toxicity in re...

Sometimes there's waaaaay too much for just ONE conversation...especially when Barzini has had a Red Bull. LOL. This week's episode wraps up the chat with Poet/Author Dominic "Nerd" McDonald where he asks Barz and Dre Renee questions about plans, power couples, purpose and partnership. Support the show Want to be a guest or share a topic? Email us at xrossroadzpodcast@gmail.com...

Can we order the characteristics and behavior of our potential mates like pizza toppings? Is it a matter of just knowing what we want or is there a point of expecting too much, too soon?  This week, Barzini and Dre Renee welcome Poet & Author (and first guest),  Dominic "Nerd" McDonald who shares his experience as a early 30 something professional, dating in the DMV. Support the show...