The Worstship

I hope to share an interview I conducted. Thus far the audio cuts in and out and I can't be heard sometimes. I need more time to tweak it. I'll talk about my personal life next week if I can't salvage the audio, or I'll talk about pop culture. Stay safe and warm. I hope you're enjoying your holiday season thus far. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at ht...

Marcus warns "Don't be a lover boy," but I disagree. After getting betrayed by your partner of 4 years, it's understandable why he'd say that. Jeff didn't just steal, he had a whole other boyfriend and relationship that Marcus didn't know about. This breakup was brutal. In hindsight Marcus says there was one major red flag that shouldn't be overlooked. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/priva...

I'm sharing one of my own worstships, about a guy I dated named Clyde. This episode first ran late last year - it was two episodes, but I merged it into one for this throwback. I should have a new interview up next week! Enjoy. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

What happens the only time I tell y'all that I'm going on a first date? I have to embarrass myself by giving an unexpected update. It has been forever since someone didn't want to go on a second date with me. I can't even remember when that was. I had fun on my date and I teach others how to only have good first dates. Ok, let's get to it already. Enjoy. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/pri...

Madison makes great TV, but she's the girlfriend from hell. Next we have Annie, who gets drunk and picks fights. Her ex-boyfriend says Annie exhibited the same behavior when they were together, before or after her DUI arrest (I'm unsure but I mention it). And last but not least, KB is 27 years old (when Love Is Blind was filmed) and she says she wants Edmond to put a baby in her next year.... YIKE...

I outline why Kalybriah "KB" Haskin, the Black social worker on Love Is Blind season 9, is toxic. KB is beautiful, kind, and patient but she shouldn't want her man to get into a fist fight on her behalf. She also shouldn't talk about her promiscuous past while denying her nerdy fiance the cookie, and she shouldn't argue with her partner in public when she could have some respect and save the argum...

I read an excerpt from my Dating Hacks chapter from my book, So Drunk A Tooth's Gotta Go. I also explain why it's good to talk to someone you meet (online or offline) about sex before it happens. I've dodged bullets this way and you will too! I recorded this yesterday, before getting ready for a date - I'll give an update. I forgot to share more personal stories so I imagine I'll record a part 2 o...

Part 3 of our exclusive interview with Aleks Filmore, author of The Worst Boyfriends Ever, is easily one of my favorites! He speaks candidly on what it's like being a gay man in Romania vs. Belgium. Did you know some people had to run gay clubs in their house?! Gasp. We also discuss Aleks' next book, (it should drop early next year), what made him cry, and so much more! Aleks does not hesitate to...

Aleks Filmore, author of The Worst Boyfriends Ever, talks about dating someone with elaborate kinks. He also dated a man in his 30s, who needed his mom's approval for everything, then there was a pathological liar who lived in a fantasy world... I also drag Aleks for being for the streets! After we talk about some of Aleks' worstships, I ask him about the dating scene in Europe. This episode ends...

Aleks Filmore wrote the shocking and entertaining book, The Worst Boyfriends Ever. I enjoyed his book so much, I asked for an interview. The Gambler Swindler asked Aleks for his credit card and used him for his entire credit limit! In this episode, we also talk about a pathological liar Aleks dated. The Worst Boyfriends Ever is 25 chapters about 25 of Aleks' worstships. It's only $10! I can't wait...

Dropping some life updates on y'all and reminding you NOT to listen to terrible dating advice from people who love & care about you. Don't fall for that trap! I'm also moving in less than 2 months and I can't decide if I'm happy for Summer Walker. Her new man looks old AF and she's in her late 20s. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.c...

I have a new interview coming next week! We're getting back to the basics - one on one interviews with people discussing their worstships. In the interim, I've recapped the Love Is Blind UK season 2 reunion. I think the show is broken. People can find everlasting love on reality TV, but I feel like there's a cultural difference with UK men. They're far more concerned with the optics, Javen's clown...

Pop culture corner is back. Love Island USA season 7 reunion recap... Olandria cries about Huda's racist fans. Huda did nothing to stop them. Nic was also reportedly crying about Huda's racist fans - that footage was edited out, along with Jeremiah's rant about Huda's abuse. Are Love Island producers racist, or are they working overtime to try to protect Huda's image? I forgot to mention that Netf...

I recorded like a 20+ minute episode about Ollie Sutherland of Love is Blind UK season 1 and Perfect Match on Netflix. I came to his defense, but I sounded like an Ollie apologist so I didn't release that episode. People need to leave AD alone and focus on their own miserable or non-existent relationships. I wish AD & Ollie all the best. Ollie needs someone kind and patient and AD is both of t...

I did not agree with, or get along with, my guest Yousef Benhamida, which makes for an entertaining episode? I've rearranged the order of the audio clips so that we get into it right from the start. Then the interview officially starts around the 11 minute mark before we start arguing again (around the 30 minute mark). We spoke about what’s wrong with partying like a rockstar when you’re wealthy,...

I know comics and writers and business owners... A lot of people put pressure on themselves to get their follower count up when "Your followers aren't your supporters!" I explain why I say that. I also talk about giving my first acceptance speech for my book's first award. Then I won another award yesterday. Shout-out to all those who've already bought my book, So Drunk A Tooth's Gotta Go ! See Pr...

Cierra Ortega is the perfect example of what I wrote about in "The Truth About Breakups" chapter of my book, So Drunk A Tooth's Gotta Go. Love Island USA's Cierra and Nic had what I call a "drive-by relationship." That's why she's hurting right now. I defend Cierra's accidental mishap and I read an excerpt of my book in this episode! I'll have updates on what I'm doing soon (in next week's episode...

Huda Mustafa breaks the internet with her Call Her Daddy interview. I focus on what other podcasters didn't focus on - Huda as a parent, throwing Cierra Ortega under the bus (as if Cierra isn't going through enough), going to the hospital after Jeremiah was sent home, and more. Huda shocked everyone by talking about her childhood before slamming her baby daddy, her castmates, admitting to wanting...

I'll give Huda credit for doing some sh!t on TV we've never seen before, but that's about it. I think she's a monster and I want to dissect her apology tour, minus the apology, appearance she had on the Call Her Daddy podcast yesterday. There's too much for me to get into to rush through recording an episode right now. It's coming. Sorry for the delay this week! See Privacy Policy at https://art19...

Yikes & LOL at my title. I was a guest on a podcast and a listener said her boyfriend is unhoused and they have good sex. I got to give that listener my advice. A dream! I also explain why I don't publicly disclose what dating apps I like. The host was relentless in his quest to find out my favorite app, but he was no match for me! I'm not giving that information out. The listener question hap...

I'm putting Ubereats on notice. I also explain my obsession with sexy deep voices. My fetish is definitely out of control and I wouldn't want it any other way. Next, I share the audio of my Monday interview on The Rufus Williams Show on Chicago station WVON. Rufus' voice can't be heard in my recording, but I explain his questions and you can hear my answers clearly! I'm proud of myself. I didn't d...

I was a guest on So Bad It's Good, a pop culture podcast I've been a fan of for years. I was promoting my new book. Ryan Bailey made me feel so comfortable. He's a great host. My interview begins around the 24 minute mark!! Listen to my episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts , or watch the YouTube video to see what I look like. I know you're gonna love my book, So Drunk A Tooth's Gotta Go ! It's on...

What happens when you're too busy to record a new episode? You repost one of your favorite interviews. In part 2 of Alex's story, he shares that his friend didn't like Eve when he met her. Then he got scammed. Turns out Alex's friend was right about Eve. From receiving nude photos multiple days a week to losing his income, Alex explains how Eve set things up perfectly so she could get his hard ear...

I'm too busy to record a new episode today, so I'm running it back because Alex was one of my very favorite guests. He was bartending when Eve walked up to him and introduced herself. The scamming had officially begun. Alex's story has 3 parts. Part 1 ends on a cliffhanger... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-i...

Are you throwing a party this summer? I'm excited for my book release party. Shout out to all my real ones, all my day ones. I'm talking about my upcoming party, an upcoming guest, and an interview I recorded weeks ago that I may scrap! I'll get into my book and everything else next week. It's a big week - I'll explain soon. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy No...