The Wholehearted Enneagram Podcast

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes we don’t realize we’re at the end of one season until we’ve already stepped into the next. Looking back, I can see that this moment, right here, is more than just a name change or a new podcast graphic. It’s a marker of growth. Of clarity. Of a shift that’s been quietly unfolding in the background for a while. After more than eight years, over 400 episodes, and countless...

Send us Fan Mail The fall season represents an ongoing shift for our family, and I imagine you, too, are facing a season of letting go or establishing new routines. While facing these shifts, short breath prayers can guide you through the changes with peace, grace, and trust in God’s perfect plan.  Today, I’m sharing nine breath prayers and a brief passage of Scripture for each Enneagram type. Sup...

Send us Fan Mail The giggles continue! In Part Two of our Downton Abbey Enneagram throwback, my sister Annaliese and I dive deeper into the beloved characters, with fresh laughter, slightly misguided confidence, and a few surprising insights that still ring true today. Though this conversation was recorded years ago (before any of the Downton movies had premiered), it’s fascinating to see how each...

Send us Fan Mail Pour a cup of tea and join me for a wholehearted stroll back to 2019, when my sister Annaliese and I first sat down to type the Crawleys and the unforgettable Downton Abbey staff through the lens of the Enneagram. With plenty of giggles, some slightly outdated storylines (remember, this was before the first movie came out!), and a love for both the Enneagram and British drama, we...

Send us Fan Mail This quick, 3-minute episode is different from the usual! No intro, no music, just me popping in to ask a simple but important question: Are you ready to step into your encore career as a guide? If you’ve been listening for a while, you’ve heard me share the process of going from victim to a Wholehearted Guide and Coach. Now’s the time to decide if this is your next right step.  T...

Send us Fan Mail 🎧 For the One Who Keeps Striving But Still Feels Like It’s Not Enough She was the achiever. The one who checked all the boxes, hit every milestone, and made it all look effortless. But behind the accomplishments was a quiet exhaustion – and a longing to know if she was loved for who she was , not just what she did. If you’ve ever tied your worth to your performance…if you’ve stru...

Send us Fan Mail 🎧 For the One Who’s Always Chasing Joy But Still Feels Restless She was the life of the party. The planner, the adventurer, the one with the next great idea. Her calendar was full, and so was her mind – but when the noise stopped, the emptiness grew louder. If you’ve ever distracted yourself from discomfort by filling your schedule...If you’ve chased the next exciting thing while...

Send us Fan Mail 🎧 For the One Who Loves to Help But Struggles to Receive She was the helper. The one everyone counted on. She poured out her time, energy, and heart, hoping her kindness would be returned. But beneath her generosity was a quiet ache… wondering if anyone really loved  her. If you’ve ever found yourself caring for everyone else, while feeling invisible inside…If you’ve struggled to...

Send us Fan Mail 🎧 For the One Who’s Strong for Everyone But Longs to Feel Safe She was the protector. The strong one. The voice that stood up for others and never backed down. But under all that strength was a heart that wondered – who protects me? If you’ve ever been the one others lean on, while quietly carrying your own fears of betrayal or vulnerability… If you’ve felt like letting your guar...

Send us Fan Mail 🎧 For the One Quietly Fades Away in Hopes to Keep the Peace She didn’t want to rock the boat. She kept things easy, agreeable, and calm. But somewhere along the way, her own voice got quiet, and she wasn’t sure how to find it again. If you’ve ever avoided conflict just to keep the peace… If you’ve lost track of your preferences because you’re so tuned in to everyone else’s…this s...

Send us Fan Mail For the One Who Needs Space But Longs to Belong She was the quiet one, thoughtful, reserved, always observing. She kept her world small to protect her energy and stayed in her head to avoid being overwhelmed. But even with all the right answers, she still felt disconnected. If you’ve ever felt safest when you’re at a distance… If connection feels like a risk, you’re not sure you c...

Send us Fan Mail For the One Who Feels Too Much and Yet Still Not Enough She always felt different. A little too emotional. A little too intense. Like she was on the outside looking in, searching for beauty, belonging, and a version of herself that finally felt like enough. If you’ve ever felt like your emotions are too much… If you’ve longed to be seen without needing to stand out… This story mig...

Send us Fan Mail For the one who carries the weight of “right” She had the plan. The lists were made. But by early morning, everything had unraveled, and her inner critic had already declared the day a failure. If you've ever felt like the only way to be loved is to do things perfectly… If your mind replays what went wrong, before you can celebrate what went well… This story might sound a lit...

Send us Fan Mail Can you guess the Enneagram Type? Today, you're stepping into the shoes of someone who wakes up already scanning for possibilities, both the best and the worst. Through a day-in-the-life story, you'll feel the heartbeat of someone who longs for safety, trusts deeply, and faces the world with quiet courage. Before the big reveal, we'll explore how this Type communica...

Send us Fan Mail With summer upon us, I want to offer you some breath prayers as you face the storms of life or as life turns up the heat.  These short prayers will help you start your mornings, provide a midday break to cool you off, or help you end your busy day. Support the show RESOURCES FOR YOU: Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks...

Send us Fan Mail This final episode in the Wholehearted Identity series is a commissioning moment. Amy shares what it means to become a Guide — not because you’ve arrived, but because your healing naturally becomes an invitation for others.  Through vivid storytelling, cultural and biblical guide examples, and Enneagram wisdom, you’ll be reminded that you don’t need a platform to make a difference...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt stuck in pain that keeps repeating or wondered why healing still feels out of reach? In this third episode of the Wholehearted Identity series, Amy unpacks the difference between being a victim and living with a victim mentality.  She shares her personal story of heartbreak and introduces the sacred power of holy lament — the biblical invitation to bring your pa...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when unhealed pain turns into control, self-protection, or even harm toward others? In this raw and redemptive episode, Amy unpacks the “villain” role we all play at times — often without realizing it.  Through honest story, Scripture, and Enneagram wisdom, you'll learn how to recognize the voice of fear and pride… and how the Gospel invites you to repent, repair...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt stuck in pain that keeps repeating or wondered why healing still feels out of reach? In this first episode of the Wholehearted Identity series, Amy unpacks the difference between being a victim and living with a victim mentality.  She shares her personal story of heartbreak and introduces the sacred power of holy lament — the biblical invitation to bring your pa...

Send us Fan Mail Spring is a season of renewal, growth, and abundance—but sometimes, growth doesn’t look the way we expected.  What happens when the season we’re in feels slow, disappointing, or completely different than what we hoped for? Jennifer Dukes Lee, author of Growing Slow , is joining me to explore the beauty of embracing God’s timing, letting go of the pressure to force growth, and lear...

Send us Fan Mail A Simply Wholehearted phrase is that we are all broken, we are all blowing it, but the brave one does something about it. Understanding our past stories helps us step into healing, embrace our true identity, and live as wholehearted guides for others. Story work is vital to the healing process. In this conversation with Adam Young, we’ll explore how story shapes identity and how w...

Send us Fan Mail How can we partner with God to transform our broken places?  That’s what we’re talking about today with my friend, Meshali Mitchell. Her new book, Restored , shares about her renovation of a 140-year-old farmhouse as a metaphor for God’s work in our lives.  Beauty can be found in the process even when we come up against a lot of obstacles. Resources mentioned: Restored: Partnering...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve ever found yourself in a season where God feels distant, where prayers seem to echo back in silence, or where you’re wrestling with questions that don’t have easy answers—this conversation is for you. Today, I’m sitting down with my friend Aubrey Sampson for a conversation about her own ‘dark night of the soul.’ Her latest book, What We Find in the Dark , explores what i...

Send us Fan Mail **Grab your Wholehearted Abundance Summit VIP Pass** If you thought the past three recaps of the Wholehearted Abundance Summit were powerful, wait until you hear about the bonuses—where we take things even deeper and get super practical about integrating these truths into daily life.  In today’s exclusive snippets from the VIP Pass bonus content, you’ll learn to: – get (and stay)...

Send us Fan Mail **Grab your Wholehearted Abundance Summit VIP Pass** In this episode, I’m sharing highlights from Day 3 of the Wholehearted Abundance Summit, where we had real, honest conversations about money—how to manage it, how to shift our mindset around it, and how to pursue financial peace and generosity. Connect with our Speakers! Amy Wicks https://www.simplywholehearted.com/about Samanth...