The Vertical Relationship Show: Relationship Goals, Healing Trauma, Biblical Counseling, Dating Advice & Christian Marriage

ARC Method is a must for Christian counseling to be effective. Christian counseling allows people to get to the "ROOT" and avoid temporary Band-aids of secular ways... Leaning on the power of Christ as opposed to techniques. Studies shown that Christian Biblical Counselors help 92% of the people they counsel. Yet, there are 3 types of people you can't help. "Don't think you are better than you rea...

Did you know that we life among false prophets & teachers? Yikes! The Lord has been revealing this to me for years... This world is wrapping up with increased darkness and we NEED truth, not more deceit.  False prophets "whitewash" God's harsh truth. These pseudo leaders are more about comforting words for approval and a feel-good message, that does nothing for your soul.  Blessings xo- Christian...

The truth is always narrow! Following GOD's narrow path is not easy... this is why most people don’t follow it. As opposed to the wide route which leads to destruction and many follow... Why? It is tempting. Less pleasurable. It's for our will and not God's. It's brutal and not for the faint-hearted. "There is a path before each person that seems right, but it ends in death" (Proverbs 16:25). Whic...

Are you protecting yourself? Stop opening the door for the devil! Living in a spiritual realm is NOT talked about in church... We must equip ourselves from evil, my friends! For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places" (Ephesians 6:12)....

Are you single? Did you know women carry pain from their wounded soul in many different ways? In reality, we bury or numb these pains subconsciously. In order to find the possibility of rich joy, you will have to uncloak, and deal with your hurting heart. Our souls need to be cleansed with God in order to understand the kind of man God wants you to marry. Wounds need healing to have thriving relat...

Do you get overwhelmed when you open your BIBLE? Not sure where to start or how to begin reading God's Word? I get it... The Good Book can be quiet overwhelming, but no worries, my friends. Have you heard of the S.O.A.P Method? If you are looking for a simple way to study the BIBLE- check out this practical way to study Scripture and soak up the goodness of God for everyday Christian living. Bless...

Do assumptions cause friction in your relationships? Have you ever twisted someone’s words? Toxic thoughts invite toxic mindsets... Minor misunderstandings slowly start to shove people away- when in reality, it can all be avoided. “Fools think their own way is right, but the wise listen to others” (Proverbs 12:15). Avoid dangerous misconceptions & assumptions that sabotage our relationships with t...

Do you care about the approval of others? The Spirit of Rejection will taunt you as its chewable prey by causing you to feel worthless and unwanted... Rejection is a festering wound within your soul that needs to be dealt with. Are you dealing with one of the 7 signs of rejection or is it God's protection? God has more for you! Stop that inner voice from telling you are unworthy, unlovable and und...

Do you find it uncomfortable to PRAY? Do you feel you're not praying correctly? Or struggle with when and how to pray? These awkward feelings inhibit our prayer life. Guess what?! There is no magic formula to pray. Be prepared to start you day with simple strategies instead of perfectionism. Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting ->  https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books->  https://mel...

Do you have a strong gift of discernment? Or do you struggle to hear God's voice? In order to hear His voice, our spirit and soul needs to be awakened. You're a child of God- the Lord wants nothing more than to speak life into you! Stop listening to your fickle feeling and start following His narrow path to freedom & truth. Find out the missing link to discern the Voice of God. Blessings xo- Bless...

Struggling to hear the voice of God? I understand the frustration of not getting an answer you're praying about... You think God doesn't care about you or He's not with you. We start losing HOPE. That's silly talk, my friends. God says, "My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me." Discover 3 reasons why you may not be hearing from God.   Blessings xo-  Join Community- bit.ly/vrm...

What do your ROOTS look like? We will not bear good fruit if our roots are dirty and not soiled properly. Do things need to change in your life? Is you rooting system good or bad? Jesus says, “I am the vine, you are the branches” (John 15:5). The more we are rooted in Him, the more nutrients we receive from Him... Our roots matter for others and God's Kingdom. Let's get "Holy Rooted in Christ!" Bl...

Is it hard for you to FORGIVE? I know, it stings! Having unforgiveness in your soul stems from unresolved emotions such as bitterness and anger. An unwillingness to forgive our offenders will keep you rooted in a Spirit of Unforgiveness. We lose the ability to hear from God. Staying parked here doesn't serve anyone... This jaw-dropping truth can cause a variety of health and relational problems! B...

We repeat what we don’t repair! The primary goal is not comfort, but to confront things in our lives that need work. Guess what? It's going to be painful. EEK! Anything that God is pruning away is not fun, but always worth the reward.  Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting ->  https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books->  https://meliadiana.com/books VR Ministries ->  https://meliadiana.co...

Living with CHRONIC PAIN? Struggling with constant pain can mess with every part of your inner being... spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically. Been there, my friends! We are going to hash out 5 mindsets of self-care to get out of "negative mode" and look at pain through a different lens. Living with pain doesn't have to rule your life!  Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting...

Have you ever lashed out on someone? Blurted out hurtful words? Responded with offensiveness? Words are powerful... They can build up or tear down. The Bible says, "The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences" (Proverbs 18:21). We must think before we respond, my friends. Let's choose our words wisely.  Blessings xo- Email "HEAL" for limited time special:...

Are you attending church that teaches the Word of God? Did you know false prophets exist? Many are teaching the gospel just for money as opposed to a pure heart. The Bible says, “Beware of false prophets who come disguised as harmless sheep but really are vicious wolves" (Matthew 7:15). We must be careful, my friends. This is happening in churches, social media, television, movies… Everywhere we t...

Have you ever been in a tough season? A season of loss? A divorce or a brutal break-up? You can't seem to wrap your mind around it and wonder "WHY ME?" We all go through ups and down of life... Discover 3 lessons why God allows hard seasons of life! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting ->  https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books->  https://meliadiana.com/books VR Ministries ->  https:/...

Newsflash! Faithful people have FLAWS, too! We are human and make human mistakes... Avoid the perfectionism trap and get a hold of what God wants us to do with our imperfections. Emotional disruptions don't have throw us into a tailspin. So, why do we let them? Blessings xo- Podcast Insider- https://meliadiana.com/podcast Christian Counseling & Consulting ->  https://meliadiana.com/our-service Boo...

Who doesn't NEED a little inspiration and encouragement? I'll be sharing my Prayer Devotional from my personal journal with you today... Devotionals infused with encouragement and inspiration from the HEART. Get closer to GOD and allow the Lord to speak to your soul.  Blessings xo- My Books- https://meliadiana.com/books Signature Programs https://meliadiana.com/our-services Community- https://bit....

Special guest for you today! My husband and I are talking about real struggles, truth and the common misconceptions in a Christian marriage. How to "DIE to SELF" and what it truly means to surrender to your spouse... Johnny and I are bringing you authentic and raw biblical value- the hard truth people don't like exposed! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Consulting ->  https://meliadiana.com/ou...

Can’t let the sting of a divorce go? Are you till mad about something that happened a year ago? Friends, this is living in the past. Forgive and let go. Forgiveness is vital in our walk with the Lord. It's not enough to forgive today and deliver the offense tomorrow... It blocks our relationship and fellowship with our heavenly Father. God wants more for you! Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & C...

Did you say, "I do" to an unbeliever? Give yourself permission for God's grace. God can do anything through a marriage, but it will take work! Let's hash out 5 truths living with an unbeliever and how to cope as a Christian wife or husband. Blessings xo- Christian Counseling & Coaching -> https://meliadiana.com/our-service Books->  https://meliadiana.com/books VR Ministries ->  https:...

Do you feel unworthy? That inner voice needs to go bye bye, my friends. Most unworthiness issues are caused by abandonment, rejection, and being mistreated. These emotions leave you feeling alone, disconnected, shameful... which cause low self-esteem. Get the freedom you deserve with 3 reasons to why you're feeling "not enough" in your marriage or singleness.  Blessings xo, Clarity Call-  https://...

Buyer beware! Not sure what to look for when hiring a qualified personal trainer? Are you ready to start treating your body as God's temple? Protect yourself, my friends! Prepare yourself and ask the right questions before spending your hard-earned money. God cares about your health... Get back in shape with a trainer who has experience, compassion, and knowledge of the anatomical human body! Bles...