The Valley of Grace Podcast

Everything that glitters isn't gold. When people say that they love you so deep, but their fruit is not one that you'll keep, you have to be careful. There are some brown spots worth inspecting. #love #freedom #relationship

We've all been to the produce department. There lies fruit of every color, shape, and size. Those fruit represent the behaviors that manifest themselves in our relationships. Will the core be rotten? Will the outside look appealing? Will you have to keep cutting away to get to the good part? Only you can answer those questions and more. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship

At first, you thought it was just you. Maybe you were overthinking what was said and done. Then, you realized you were betrayed by an alleged friend who turned out to be a narcissist. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship

It's hard to enforce the concept of boundaries when you face losing the people, places, things, and ideas you love. It's even harder to remain without them. Boundaries teach us a lot. The lesson starts with ourselves. Listen in. #freedom #love #relationship The Valley of Grace Song is licensed for permission to be used by Katina Horton-Valley of Grace Ministries by the composer and performing arti...

We hear the term control freak all the time. What we don't hear about is the bondage that this spirit/addiction brings you. It interrupts the natural order of how you relate to yourself, others, and God by keeping you in a constant state of rules, bondage, reinforcement, and micromanagement. #control #controlfreak #addiction

We all have issues with power management. However, intense lack of power management leads to intense lack of control management. When we lust for control, insecurity sets in, and then we're headed for the spirit of individual, collective, and or cultural narcissism. #love #freedom #relationships

When we look at certain individuals, they seem like they have it all together. Even more so, when we look at ourselves, we think the same. What if that's not the case? What if you are walking around with so many coping mechanisms, dysfunctional patterns of behavior, and addictions that you're covering up the key to your needs, self-discovery, self-concept, and self-awareness? The end result of thi...

When people have information on us, they use that information as bait to trap us. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship

When power is regulated well, we work as a team. When power is dysregulated, we work as enemies, fighting for power and control at all costs. But what happens when position, role, and authority is used as a weapon for power and control? Which side will you sit on? Let's talk about it. #love #freedom #relationship

When power is regulated well, we work as a team. When power is dysregulated, we work as enemies, fighting for power and control at all costs. But what happens when food is used as a weapon for power and control? Which side will you sit on? Let's talk about it. #love #freedom #relationship

It's easy to spot abuse from an overt person. But how do you recognize the more covert, subtle forms of abuse that we often experience. You often shrug it off as a trigger. Nine times out of ten, it's not. Don't ignore your intuition. #love #freedom #relationships

You wouldn't want to overdose on medication. But for some reason, you think it's okay to overdose on people who are not good for your mind, body, soul, and spirit. #freedom #love #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

When someone else doubts you, it's one thing. When they can get you to doubt yourself, abilities, and every other person, place, thing, or idea tied to you, that's another. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Our Mission, Vision, & Why Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, releas...

It’s amazing what happens once the seed of deception sets in. What’s even more mind-blowing is when we are vulnerable, we end up disobeying God, calling it sacrifice, and opening ourselves up to other spirits running 🏃🏿‍♀️ amok. Listen 🎧 in !!! #katinahorton #propheticword #toxicrelationships

Devaluation is a corrupter. Real fast and in a hurry. They devalue you. You devalue yourself. It's a toxic dance cycle that never wants to end. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

Some relationships we're in are just toxic. There's no other way to look at them. But we stay in them. Why? Let's dissect this.

Transitions are a part of life. Transitions are also major parts of a transitionally-supplied soul-tied toxic relationship with a narcissist. #love #relationships #freedom #transitions

When physical bombs are dropped, there are no warnings. The same thing exists when the narcissist drops the bomb on you. #bomb #lovebomb #narcissism #narcissist #relationships #love #freedom

We armor up for arguments and everything else. Why don't we armor up for battle when it comes to dealing with narcissistic people? #love #freedom #relationships

Love has been translated all kinds of ways-lust, love bombing, soul cravings, infatuation, flattery, etc. The way we define love is the way that we give and receive love. And the way that we give and receive love is the way that we live love. #story #narcissist #healing

When you're walking around in a heart-sicken state, feeling needy, and languishing, you will do anything, including agreeing to open relationships with the #narcissist . But how do you get out of the vicious cycle? Listen in. #healing

IT'S ALWAYS EASIER TO OWN SOMEBODY ELSE'S STORY. ESPECIALLY WHEN IT APPEARS MORE BROKEN OR GLAMOROUS TO US. BUT IS THAT MORE OF WANTING COMFORT OR TRUTH.

Good character takes a while to develop. Yet, if not careful, it can be lost almost overnight when it comes to hanging out with certain people. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

When you think of the word detox, an immediate physical cleansing comes to mind. And this is partially true of our discussion today. There is a cleansing taking place. However, This one deals with the cleansing of the soul after being in a toxic relationship. Thinking 🤔 that you can just move on after having a soul tie is so far from the reality of the situation. But then again, if our brains 🧠...

Decisions that we make, the thoughts 💭 that we think 🤔, and the manner in which we live our lives are based on biases, privilege, our understanding of the concept of love, and toxic thinking. Listen 🎧 in. #Toxicrelationships #Katinahorton #toxicthinking #openyoureyes