The Ultimate Relationship

I have recently made the acquaintance of a little person who, unbeknown to me, secretly lives under the floorboards in the ancient barn. There are steps up to the wooden door (which has a cat-flap fitted for small feline friends) and the steps are large and uneven, so it's a bit of a challenge if you are a small furry creature carrying something heavy... Audio extract from my book 'The Ultimate Re...

Anyone can benefit from your compassionate thought, including family and friends in difficulty, as well as people affected by catastrophic world events such as forced migration, cataclysmic weather, mass shootings, volatile political regimes, war and whatever else is happening. In this audio extract from my book, 'The Ultimate Relationship... the one with yourself' , I explain how use the power of...

Dowsing with a pendulum is an amazing tool and one that I have been using for over 30 years. Basically, it’s your instinct on the end of a piece of string, with the massive advantage that it’s visible. Given that instinct is our best guidance in life, dowsing is very handy and it has saved me a huge amount of time and effort over the years, not to mention money. In this audio extract from my book,...

'Quantum' is an increasingly popular term but it's confusing for the majority of us, who are not scientists. What it means in physics and metaphysics differs. In this audio extract from my book, 'The Ultimate Relationship... the one with yourself' , I describe how I have used the notion of 'quantumness' in practical ways, to enhance my life. For example, to stretch time, get more out of my fitness...

We have much more control over our body than is commonly thought. Most people assume we have no control except around the edges through eating a healthy diet, exercising or reducing stress. Certainly, not through using the power of thought. Our world doesn't encourage us to think this way. But if thought has energy, and if we can master our thoughts, it makes sense that we should be able to contro...

What does it feel like to be balanced? For me, it's a heady mix of mental, emotional and physical factors. For instance, feeling energised and positive, grounded and strong in my core, a quiet but alert mind, a heightened state of awareness, feeling empowered and intuitive, believing the world is a great place, seeing the good in people and events, feeling gratitude and compassion. Everything we w...

Using conscious thought to create the life you want and become the master of your own health, abundance, joy and so much more, is a very big subject. It's actually the synthesis of some of my other writings on themes such as the power of thought, narrating your life, affirmations, taking charge of your health, energising your food, living in balance and using compassionate thought to help others....

Instinct is something we are born with, and from the very early years of life, it's the prime force that motivates us. But society and education suppress it in favour of logic. Instinct is still there but it's buried. Yet it is our guidance system 'par excellence', as it prompts us to go where we can find information and opportunities that are connected to the things we want to create. I explain h...

I have proved this to myself, beyond a shadow of a doubt. Because thought has energy, it affects us and the world around us. Coincidences are an example. You might think of someone and the next thing you know, you bump into them or they get in touch. Or, you need information and it magically appears. Over time, these 'coincidences' grow and you begin to think that something else is happening, some...

To me, affirmations are totally natural, and I have used them to help me change much in my life. They are especially relevant today in our fast moving world, because whilst change brings new opportunities, it's also stressful as there are unknowns. To make successful changes, we have to think differently but changing our habits of thinking is challenging. This is where affirmations come in, as the...

This is a big question. But at its simplest, here is what it means to me. Spirituality is 'everthing that there is'. It ranges from practical applications in everyday life to full-blown esoterics. I talk about both in this audio extract from my book, 'The Ultimate Relationship... the one with yourself'. More of my content can be found on my website and on my Substack . Hosted on Acast. See acast.c...

Connecting with nature is a well used expression. But what does it really mean? It's not the same as being in nature whilst doing something else. It was only when I began my rewilding experience in Wales, and found myself custodian of land, animals and an ancient property, in a micro-climate of extreme weather, that I understood what this really meant. I narrate my experience in this audio extract...

In this extract from my book, 'The Ultimate Relationship... the one with yourself. Insights and epiphanies of a 21st century woman', I read a poem I wrote for a feline 'soulmate', who was a treasured member of my animal family. Fanny lived to the ripe old age of 19 and returned disguised as another cat who possessed her characteristics and behaviours to a tee. He also looked identical. I believe t...

Here is another extract from my book. It comes from the Podcast section. I have thought a lot about what I eat over the years, because it’s the easiest way to support my health. I view my food as ‘medicine’. So, I cook everything from scratch, eat as much as possible organic and raw, use supplements where necessary and, these days, I am vegetarian. But, more than that, I believe you can turn all y...

In this extract from my book 'The Ultimate Relationship... the one with yourself. Insights and epiphanies of a 21st century woman' , I read a blog I wrote during my rewilding experience, when I lived remotely in Wales. The weather could be extreme and this entry was written on 'a day from hell'. I survived to tell the tale! You can find more about my book on my website . The picture is an old wate...

This is an audio recording of an extract from my book 'The Ultimate Relationship... the one with yourself. Insights and epiphanies of a 21st century woman.' You can find it in a section called 'Biz-chat'. Becoming the best version of me in business was an enduring quest to be more effective and also find peace, amidst the chaos of growing a business from scratch. I had competed in sport at interna...

This is an extract from my book 'The Ultimate Relationship... the one with yourself. Insights and epiphanies of a 21st century woman.' It's my story from the inside out. Part narrative, part insight. Honest and authentic. It's a kaleidoscope of insights, epiphanies and practical spirituality which resulted from a quest to take control of my mind,my body and emotions in a life of perpetual motion,...

Contrary to popular opinion, you haven’t lost the plot if you talk to yourself and become the narrator of your own life. In fact, it's extremely beneficial. Most importantly, it helps us to become aware of what we habitually think and do. Only then do we realise how much negativity we carry around and the drama and recurring experiences it creates. To a large extent, we are what we think. This is...