The Transformational Leader

On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney along with special guest Monica Borrell for a discussion on leadership and the fine line between supporting your staff and unintentionally creating a high-maintenance culture. Together they explore what it means to "catch" an experience for your team, how coddling can sometimes hinder growth, and the challenges leaders face in balancing empathy wit...

True transformation doesn't come from avoiding discomfort, it comes from facing it. In this episode, Adam Quiney unpacks the Zen idea that "you cannot leave a place until you've been there" and explores how both ontological coaching and Ayahuasca reveal the same truth: real healing happens when we stop resisting and finally touch the very thing we fear.  

On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a discussion on Myers-briggs and other personality assessment tools, and why they limit us, how personal growth is often about avoidance of our own transformation and healing, letting go of the hypocrisy of others, and more!  

Every leader has a shadow side: the parts of ourselves we'd rather hide or deny. For many, that looks like judgment, frustration, or even the thought: "People are dumb and I hate them." When we push these parts away, they don't disappear. They slip into our blind spots and leak out sideways, often in the form of sarcasm, criticism, or subtle disconnection. The harder we try to shut them down, the...

Arrogance can be one of the biggest blind spots for leaders. It shows up subtly in judgment, in righteousness, or in the need to be right, and it can quietly damage trust and impact. In this episode, Adam Quiney shares a personal story about being called out for his arrogance and the lessons that came with it. He explores why arrogance is often a survival mechanism, how to spot it in yourself, and...

On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a discussion on How We Train the World Around Us.  In this episode, Adam discuss ideas such as How we train people around us to behave the way we complain about, How our training of the world at large makes our own transformation challenging, How we can train our clients and customers for a more empowering experience; and How to shift all of th...

Leadership and transformation aren't about adding more tools to your belt; they are about seeing how you get in your own way. And that starts with learning to accept what is true about how you show up, even when it's uncomfortable. In this episode, Adam Quiney breaks down the three stages of acceptance that every leader moves through. From resisting feedback to intellectual acknowledgment, and fin...

On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney as he explores topics such as how relational patterns show up everywhere, what to do when your leader isn't leading well, and how to practice "leading up." Adam also unpacks the concept of being at choice, and why it's central to the work of both coaches and leaders.

Intellectual loneliness isn't just about craving "deep talks." It is the realization of how few people can truly tolerate complexity. It is noticeable how quickly others rush to have an answer, not to understand, but to be right. It is the silence that follows when what you say doesn't fit neatly into someone's script. In this episode, Adam Quiney dives into the experience of intellectual loneline...

We often believe we are already doing the transformational work by reading books, watching videos, attending seminars, or having deep conversations with friends. These can look like transformation, but more often they skim the surface without truly shifting who we are. In this episode, Adam Quiney unpacks why our ego convinces us that we are "doing the work" when in reality, we are just reinforcin...

Relationships are the foundation of powerful coaching. Yet, many clients and coaches lean heavily on methodology, certifications, or step-by-step processes, thinking that is what guarantees success. While methods can be useful, they can also become a shield that keeps real connection at arm's length. In this insightful episode, Adam Quiney shares why true transformation happens when relationship t...

How does transformation lead to kinder, more compassionate, and more generous leaders? In this episode, Adam Quiney shares why the heart of transformational leadership begins with a simple question: What do you want? We often meet people at the surface, seeking money, power, or control, but true change happens when we meet them where they are instead of trying to stop them. That's when deeper poss...

On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney along with special guest Seth Drugatz, who will be sharing about his experience inside The Forge.

The idea of being a product of your own product means that, in a setting or structure where you are both selling and using the product. That is the kind of idea of it.  You ought to be modeling or demonstrating that the products work, that your life is better. It's easy to fake the results. But real leadership shows in how you live, not in what you say. In this episode, Adam breaks down what it me...

On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a discussion about the trap of "I know what I need to do, I just need to do it", as well as ontology, dancing and leadership.

Most people market coaching like they're selling windshield wipers; quick, generic, and low trust. But transformational work doesn't work that way. In this episode of The Transformational Leader, we dive into why coaching is a relationship-based business and not a sales-based one. We'll explore how to shift from lead generation to genuine service, and why trust and patience create clients. If you...

On this week's mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney along with his wife and partner in this work, Bay, for an honest conversation about transformation - what it truly looks like, the very real challenges, and the immense rewards on the other side. They'll also dive into The Forge (https://evergrowthcoaching.com/the-forge/), their signature container designed to support people in doing this deep, lif...

Most people say they want transformation, but when it's time to take action, resistance shows up. In this episode, Adam Quiney explores why the path to real change always feels tilted against us, and how our strategies to avoid discomfort often make perfect sense but keep us stuck. Listen as we explore the hidden role fear plays, why you can't outrun it, and what it takes to move forward. If you'r...

Accountability: a common term yet essential for a company and leader. But really, what does it means for leaders, and how can it be developed? What does it mean if someone is held accountable? Let's find out. In this episode, the talk will focus on accountability and developing it in your people -- what accountability is, the relationship towards it and people, what we think of when we have to dev...

Today's show opens up a new series called Leadership Sandtrap. These are ways to get people to show up in their leadership, as the sticky quicksand traps, providing short-term results, compelling for leaders or those practicing leadership. These short-term results make it hard to reflect on what they lack or their breakdown or next-edge leadership, brought about by the fear of what they created wh...

While the zone of genius seems like a straightforward thing, there's more to it than meets the eye. For instance, it's easy to mistake your zone of excellence for your zone of genius. What occurs when this happens? For starters, you get to work more and more with whatever it is that you're already comfortable with. This means you are stuck. There is no expansion. So how do you go about stepping in...

In most cases, the conversations people have with each other revolve around content as opposed to context. Simply put, context is what lies beneath the content. Most people spot the content but miss the context. In this episode, I'll tackle what context really is, how to spot it, and why it is challenging to create any significant shift when you can't see it. I'll also tackle how it impacts your t...

While very subtle, there is a distinction between leadership and the mere performance of leadership. Most people want to do leadership right, they want to look good, do right, and be inspiring as leaders. However, many don't know the distinction between the two. In this episode, I'll discuss how one is different from the other and how it impacts both your leadership and personal life. If you want...

A gradient is the steepness with which we confront you and present whatever work there is for you to do. It's like going into a gym and picking up a 6,000-pound weight. That rate is going to be a high gradient for your muscles to adapt to, while a low-pound weight might be too low of a gradient. In transformational work, we seek to find the gradient that is going to support you. In this thought-pr...

An ontological leader can bring the being of a leader to whatever they are doing. One of the things that an ontological leader does is to perpetually be at choice for what is happening. What we mean by we are choice is that we are choosing what is going on, which allows us to be empowered by what we are up to. In this episode of The Transformational Leader, Adam Quiney dives into the profound conc...