The Tit for Tat Podcast

From defining what a friend is to examining the boundaries put in place by personal friend groups, tap in with your hosts as they tackle the taboo topic of dating a friend's ex. Listen in as guests from various backgrounds share their personal experiences involving a friend's ex with some surprising outcomes. Rather or not dating a friend's ex is a go or a no, keeping it real with your...

All relationships have ups and downs. A vital aspect to strengthening our relationships lies in our ability to appropriately manage conflict. Listen in as your hosts use proven principles and personal experiences to break down intentional mindset and strategies you can apply to successfully grow past conflict. This is a MUST listen for anyone seeking to improve their people skills and build health...

Tune in to part two of our controversial episode on cheating as the hosts share cheating stories submitted directly from our listeners! From steamy to downright scandalous, listen in as the audience hilariously ranks each confession’s level of offense on a scale from 1 to 3. Rather the infraction is mild or major, the choice to cheat is not without consequence.

Listen in as your hosts give a rundown of all things cheating, including actions that classify as cheating, why people cheat, and rather or not cheating is ever justified. Tune in to the male vs. female perspectives on cheating and how viewing certain acts through a different lens can impact the partnership. Ultimately, all parties agree that cheating is a decision and to get past infidelity in a...

When it comes to dating, knowing what we want and being prepared for what we want are equally important. Tap in as your hosts discuss how preparing for partnership often requires making sacrifices and adapting to changing desires within the relationship. Can you handle that?

Tune into this special birthday edition as your hosts hold nothing back when hilariously discussing the appropriate flying out etiquette. Listen in as Jay shares the male perspective on expectations and mindset around funding the trip while Carolyn counters with some tips for the ladies regarding communication and preparation if you are considering allowing a man to fly you out. Rather you are fly...

Tune in this week as your hosts, Carolyn and Jay, along with guest host, Natasha candidly discuss the different perspectives of men vs. women regarding standards in dating and relationships. Listen as Natasha, an empowerment strategist and mental health clinician, explains how we set our standards to the level of our self-esteem. Both men and women can experience a confidence boost when they are s...

Social media platforms are used by one in every three people worldwide along with more than two-thirds of all internet users. With such a vast reach, it is no wonder that social media has a huge impact on modern dating and relationships. Tune into our most shocking episode yet as your hosts along with a fiery pop-up guest, zero in on the drawbacks of social media and its role in creating unrealist...

Part 2 of the explosive topic, "Why are we afraid to love?" Tune in as your hosts examine the link between our fear to love and fear of commitment and accountability and how fighting through the fears often means working on ourselves so we can be better partners in our relationships.

What makes us afraid to love? Rather it's toxic past relationships, experiencing a divorce, or childhood and other traumas, fear can prevent us from having the love we all deserve and desire. Tune in with your hosts, Carolyn and Jay, along with special guest Adrian, as they laugh, cry, and ultimately come to the conclusion that the key to overcoming our fear to love starts with truly loving yo...

Does your relationship have a open door policy? It's no surprise traditional dating in a modern society has its challenges. Tune in as your hosts interview Dakota and Hannah, a professional couple in a self-proclaimed open relationship. Listen as the couple discuss the pros and cons of their unique relationship and how boundaries and communication are key components to finding what works best...

Often times we allow our past traumas to influence how we move in our current dating relationships. Tap in as Carolyn and Jay dig deep into the triggers that can hinder our progress and discuss how effective communication helps create the space to better understand your significant other's motive and intent within the relationship.

Who's bringing what to the table? Listen in as this week's panel has a fiery yet funny discussion about the appropriateness of asking women what they bring to the table, what men ACTUALLY mean when they ask this question, and the type of responses both men and women look for to feel comfortable moving things forward.

Dating can be like shopping for a new car. Sometimes after a test drive or two you decide you would rather leave it on the lot. When that happens in dating, people often find themselves struggling with an exit strategy. Listen in as the hosts define "ghosting", share their hilarious personal testimonies around "ghosting," and ultimately decide the best way to move forward witho...

Both men and women struggle to avoid stereotypes. Rather you're a "Gold-digger" looking for a "Bad Boy" or "Bad B!+ch" avoiding all the "Corny Dudes," tune-in as Carolyn and Jay break down stereotypes within the culture, their impact on dating, and how being your authentic self is always the best move.

In the season opener, Carolyn and Jay examine the challenges women face in their journey to finding Mr. Right. Jay offers some insight from a male perspective on ways women often trip themselves up and how to avoid those pitfalls when dating.