The Thing Doers

Ever been told that grocery shopping counts as "me time"? Join us on the latest episode of "The Thing Doers" as we break down the ridiculousness of what society deems a "break" for moms. From the "luxury" of showering alone to the "relaxation" of running errands, we're calling out the nonsense. We'll also explore the absurd types of breaks we get: Bathroom Time-Out, Car Cry Sessions, and Actually...

In this episode of The Thing Doers, we dive into the glamorous world of parenting across state lines, comparing the high-stakes, fast-paced life in California with the charmingly disciplined realm of Texas. Ever wonder why kids in Texas listen to their parents and those in California seem to run wild? We've got personal anecdotes, playdate dramas, and a touch of cultural critique to keep you enter...

In this episode Sam and Pam tackle the question of self-identity with a touch of sarcasm. Sam shares a curveball thrown by a new friend who asked, "Who are you?" Realizing she can describe others but not herself, Sam fumbles for an answer, realizing she can easily describe others but not herself. This challenge eludes Pam too who is stumped beyond answering "I wear black everyday and I'm an introv...

In this episode Sam & Pam delve into the overwhelming world of mental load—the never-ending tabs open in their heads managing home and family life. Mental load isn't just about tasks but the constant mental gymnastics required to keep everything running smoothly. The daily struggle with the barrage of thoughts and responsibilities. They reflect on the absurdity of it all, balancing the necessity o...

Sometimes you hear something on a reel that make you go, hmmm. The inspiration for this episode came like that. A reel of a 70 year old lady who knows what she’s talking about. Sam and Pam discuss what she had to say and learn about the value of our yes', our no's and the power of just saying eff it when the mood strikes. This topic is for anyone whether you're a mom, a wife, an employee or a frie...

This episode is missing the ladies, well all except Pam. So Pam invites a couple of guests to sit in the empty podcast seats. Her husband Steve sits to chat about lists, old TV, and freeways among other things. And then a surprise call from her sister adds Wendy into the conversation so we can talk crocheting, football and the depth of the waters of the great state of Texas. A virtual cornucopia o...

In this episode we discuss things we just can't tolerate (glitter, paper labels, and the like) and wander into what to watch whether it’s an old kids movie, true crime or network TV we share them all. And a little side step into the animal world. This episode covers a lot of topics in a relatively short amount of time.

In this episode we discuss a variety of things that affect the family and our own personal values. From making the decision for public school or homeschool, the fall of mankind as we know it with the increase of participation awards for everything and the lack of striving to be better or even the best at something. So much to talk about and we talk about all of it.

Sam and Pam host this week and discuss the world of the magic coffee table from the coffee table’s perspective. Spurred by a YouTube video of the same name this discussion shares the concept and what the life of a magic maker in our homes is like. The magic is who the Thing Doers are at their core. This comes with a lot of work, pride, frustration and feeling of accomplishment.

In this episode the ladies dive into all the aspects of that thing that drives us, our brains. From their fascination with the psychological side of brains to the unknown world of why we allow our brains to be so mean to us. They cover seizures, dreams, alcohol and all the things that make us who we are and how we think. They still don’t understand the complexities, or how men are different from w...

This episode focuses on the many layers of mom guilt, realizing that it is generally self-imposed but can also come from external forces. The ladies talk through guilt as a stay at home mom and a working mom. This also extends to wife guilt and self guilt as well. The comparison of the perfect social media moms and hitting our mom breaking points. Even with adult children mom guilt can be the gift...

This episode introduces the ladies, Sam, Pam and Richelle. A trio of unlikely friends who have found friendship regardless of the improbability. Being in different stages of life and different states doesn’t stop their daily connection via Marco Polo and that's where this podcast was born. These are women that do ALL the things as most women and moms do in their worlds. We share what we do, why we...

A brief introduction of who we are and what we talk about here at "The Thing Doers"