the (THESIS)

In this concluding interview with Ravin, we dive into various aspects of the "Waiting to Exhale" film, including its soundtrack, character development, and the impact of male characters on the narrative. Ravin highlights the crucial role of the soundtrack in enhancing the emotional resonance of the movie. She discusses how the music contributes to storytelling by setting the tone and hei...

In this two-part interview with Ravin, we delved deep into the themes and nuances of the iconic film "Waiting to Exhale." Beginning with an exploration of the movie's portrayal of the challenges and expectations confronted by African American women in relationships, Ravin provided insightful commentary on the film's resonance with her own experiences and its broader cultural sign...

In this chapter, my fraternity Brother Pastor Martin delved into the biblical perspective on love as ordained by the will of God. We explored scriptures that underline this divine mandate, emphasizing its significance in guiding relationships. Pastor Martin discussed the Bible's definition of love and its alignment with God's will, highlighting the importance of selflessness and commitment...

In this chapter, I had an honest conversation with Danielle about the importance of hope in love. I started by asking her about her relationship status and how long she had been single. Our discussion quickly turned into a deeper exploration of what hope in relationships means to her personally. Danielle shared her insights on how to stay hopeful despite facing obstacles in finding love, drawing f...

In this thought-provoking interview, David delves into the intricacies of forgiveness, reflecting on personal experiences and relationships. We explore the challenges of self-forgiveness, discussing the impact on self-esteem and interpersonal connections. Transitioning to familial forgiveness, David shares poignant anecdotes of forgiving family members, highlighting the transformative effects on r...

In this chapter, Chante and I emphasize patience's role in healthier relationships, discussing its forms within love. Patience is portrayed as a virtue essential for navigating love's challenges, influenced by cultural expectations. Strategies for cultivating patience include empathy and effective communication. Overcoming challenges in practicing patience involves mindfulness and emotiona...

In this insightful chapter, we delve into the concept of supportive love and its impact on relationships with Jerome. He reflects on the title "Love is (Supportive)" and shares his immediate thoughts on how being supportive can affect relationships. Jerome also discusses the unique implementation of love languages and recounts personal experiences that have driven his need for support fr...

In this chapter, I discuss with Djuan Short, LCSW, CTCP, and C-IYAT this continuation of conversation touches on some potential reasons why there is a romantic separation in the African American community or simply a lack of communistic bonds. The need for love among African American men and women is profound and essential for personal and communal well-being. Love fosters emotional resilience, he...

In a world where love often intertwines with pain and heartache, imagine a realm where affection flows freely, unencumbered by the scars of past relationships. Picture a love unbound by the shackles of comparison, where every action is cherished for its uniqueness, not measured against past grievances. In this sacred space, we find ourselves immersed in the purity of connection, unburdened by the...

In this conclusion discussion with Djuan Short, LCSW, CTCP, C-IYAT we finish tackling the tough conversation of what is causing the separation romantically in the African American community. The separation conversations that have been taking place since the days of the Oprah Winfrey show have destroyed the lasting relationships that once existed among African Americans. Now there is a conversation...

In this chapter, I discuss with Djuan Short, LCSW, CTCP, C-IYAT the tough conversation of what is causing the separation romantically in the African American community. The separation conversations that have been taking place since the days of the Oprah Winfrey show have destroyed the lasting relationships that once existed among African Americans. Now there is a conversation about "passport...

In this continuation of the conversation Mycah and I conclude the discussion of basic concepts of financial literacy. Some of the topics discussed in this two-part chapter should be discussed in a high school classroom. However, in many cases school does not deem basic financial literacy as an important subject. It is my hope that this information can be shared with anyone that could utilize the i...

In this conversation, I discuss with Mycah the basic concepts of financial literacy. Some of the topics discussed in this two-part chapter should be discussed in a high school classroom. However, in many cases school does not deem basic financial literacy as an important subject. It is my hope that this information can be shared with anyone that could utilize the information. It is never too late...

In this chapter, I continue the discussion with Maurice regarding indoctrination versus subjugation, code-switching, the potential benefits and experiences of attending a PWI as an African American, the fragility of American culture, etc. This is bigger than the podcast. This is about the educational experiences of the (culture). Listeners if you would like to offer your thoughts on this chapter o...

In this chapter, I discuss with Maurice indoctrination versus subjugation, code-switching, the potential benefits and experiences of attending a PWI as an African American, the fragility of American culture, etc. This is bigger than the podcast. This is about the educational experiences of the (culture).  Listeners if you would like to offer your thoughts on this chapter or a previously ...

In this chapter, I discuss with Amber the timeless R&B music that was released in 1990s. When did you fall in love with R&B music? For this discussion, we focus on the solo artists and albums that were released in the 1990s. This decade definitively set the tone for solidifying our culture musically. It is my hope that this conversation will encourage you to revisit some of your favorite a...

In this chapter, I discuss with the Caldwells their college love story that led to marriage. We discussed a range of topics such as how to overcome some challenges that married couples face, how to balance career and family life, couples that have been an influence on their marriage, and recommendations for couples who are looking to transition to marriage. Despite what the media says about Africa...

In this chapter Ravin and I discuss the multiple layers of the amazing movie "Love Jones." Before recording this chapter; I asked myself what happened to black love stories. Black love has become an example of toxicity by way of reality shows. This is movie is an example of what takes place in blending the arts, friendships, and love. In my opinion, "Love Jones" is a movie that was instrumental in...

I discuss with my brother Pierre some misconceptions held by African Americans, economic shortcomings, political views, and ways that can assist in shifting your mindset. This is bigger than the podcast. This is about the (culture). Listeners if you would like to offer your thoughts on this chapter or a previously released chapter. Beyond that, if you would like to be interviewed to offe...

As we transcend pass world mental health day. We must not forget those in our lives who may need a helping hand. In this chapter, I have a great conversation with Djuan  Short, LCSW, CTCP, C-IYAT about the trauma that many African American men are facing. Unfortunately, there is an alarming increase in African American men completing suicide. If you know someone that may need some help or res...

Welcome to the (THESIS) season three. The chapters recorded for this season will tackle a wide range of subjects from pop culture to politics that I hope will expand the mental landscape of what it means to be African American. Oftentimes, African Americans are used as the negative scapegoat of western culture. In my opinion, no culture should be boxed into any trope that is not indicati...

In this chapter, I interview Realtor Steven Allen and we discussed the foundational components of purchasing a home for the first time. It is my hope that this enriching conversation will inspire you. I do not own the interpretation of the music used in this chapter. Fair use statement: Section 107 of the Copyright Act states that copyrighted materials can be fairly used for the following purposes...

In this chapter, I interview Alan Chang and we discussed the missing pieces of information regarding the "African American" family. We unwarp several books and empirical data. It is my hope that this enriching conversation will inspire you. I do not own the interpretation of the music used in this chapter. Fair use statement: Section 107 of the Copyright Act states that copyrighted materials can b...

In this chapter, I interview Dr. Claggett and we discussed the importance of physical therapy, things to consider when exercising, potential diet regimens, not meeting fitness goals, etc. It is my hope that this enriching conversation will inspire you. I do not own the interpretation of the music used in this chapter. Fair use statement: Section 107 of the Copyright Act states that copyrighted mat...

In this chapter, I interview Dr. Hawkins and we discussed the importance of mentoring, resistant masculinity, current forms of social change, cultural pluralism etc. It is my hope that this enriching conversation will inspire you. I do not own the interpretation of the music used in this chapter. Fair use statement: Section 107 of the Copyright Act states that copyrighted materials can be fairly u...