The Tango Banter

Today I dive into social media's influence on tango culture—and the highs and lows it brings to our everyday lives as dancers. Drawing from my personal journey and experiences in the tango community, I share tips to navigate social media in a healthier, more enjoyable way. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by online drama or find yourself curious about using social media platforms differently, this...

Today I share my recent experience on a DJ panel and offer insights for those curious about becoming tango DJs. I break down the basics of getting started, even if you're a complete beginner, and discuss how to curate your first playlist without needing expensive software or a mentor. Whether you're interested in DJing or simply want to deepen your understanding of musicality for your dance, this...

Today we dive into the anxiety and excitement that comes with attending your first tango festival, especially when traveling solo. Drawing from personal experiences, I discuss the nervousness of stepping into unfamiliar territory and how to navigate the insecurities that arise. From the importance of showing up early to finding the right seat and attending mixers, I share practical tips that can m...

Today I dive into a difficult but important conversation about power dynamics and respect in the tango world. Prompted by a recent public incident during a performance, I explore how moments like this expose deeper issues within professional and social tango relationships. I share my personal reactions, insights from the community, and reflections on how we, as dancers, can navigate these situatio...

In this episode, I explore the role of performances in tango, especially from the perspective of social dancers. While many tango enthusiasts find performances irrelevant or even off-putting, there’s a deeper conversation about how performances and social dancing intersect. I dive into the challenges of stage fright, what makes a performance engaging or cringe-worthy, and why some dancers avoid th...

In this episode, I dive into one of tango's most elusive yet essential elements: connection. Inspired by a recent poll in my private Facebook group, where "connection with your partner" emerged as the top reason people love tango, I explore what this term really means. I discuss the physical, emotional, and even mystical aspects of connection in tango, how it affects our bodies, and why it’s such...

In this episode, we dive into Robert Duvall’s Assassination Tango, a film that blends the worlds of hitmen and tango dancers. We explore how tango is portrayed through Duvall's eyes as both a dancer and a filmmaker, and discuss how the movie captures key elements of tango culture, from masculinity to the tension between tradition and modernity. Tune in as we reflect on the film’s unique take o...

Do you feel that tango challenges your confidence and sense of self-worth? In this episode, I share three powerful mindset shifts that helped me overcome self-doubt as a tango follower. Upcoming musicality webinar: Beyond Rhythm- how to dance tango to the melody: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/how-to-dance-to-melody Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangowo...

If you’ve been dancing tango for a while, you probably know it’s not always easy on the body. In this episode, we share our own experiences with pain and injuries—especially in the upper back and feet—and how tango’s asymmetry can lead to muscle imbalances. We also share our own personal approaches to body care and maintenance. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotang...

"You've decided to go to Buenos Aires—now what?" In this episode I break down everything you need to know to get the most out of your tango trip to Buenos Aires. I’ll cover the best times to visit, tips for finding the right milongas, and advice on where to stay based on your needs. Whether you’re a first-timer or a regular visitor, these tips will help you make the most of your time...

How can you express the music as a tango follower when dancing at the milonga? How much of your musicality comes from the leader and when can you put in those embellishments you learned in class? In this episode, you'll learn what it means to be an expressive tango follower and discover practical tips to develop your musicality. Tango Simplified Learning Series: https://www.youtube.com/playlis...

Ready to transform your milonga experience? In this episode, I delve into the crucial role of tango music in your journey as a dancer. We explore why recognizing orchestras and understanding their distinct styles is essential for truly succeeding at the milonga. I share my personal journey of learning to identify these musical nuances and offer a simple, effective process for you to follow. By mas...

In this special episode recorded in 2021, I sit down with Horacio Godoy, one of the most influential and renowned figures in social tango today. Horacio has excelled in every tango role imaginable: performing in multiple tango companies, becoming an internationally sought-after DJ and tango music expert, and serving as a guest maestro, judge, and consultant at festivals and mundials in over 40 cou...

Today we dive into the world of tango as depicted in the classic film "Scent of a Woman." We explore the iconic tango scene and discuss its impact on both the tango community and popular culture. We share our insights on how the film portrays tango, and why it captivated so many viewers, inspiring many to take up the dance. We also delve into the broader themes of the movie, such as masculinity, f...

Dancing with beginners can be challenging, but there are strategies to make it a more enjoyable experience. Pacing yourself and saying no when needed is important for your own well-being. Choosing the right music can also make a difference in the dance. Focusing on your own physical comfort and letting go of perfectionism can help you navigate the dance with beginners. Letting mistakes happen with...

In this episode, Caroline shares her journey into Argentine tango and how it helped her cope with the social isolation and emotional challenges of the COVID-19 pandemic. She also talks about her challenges dealing with menopause and kids growing up and moving away. She describes how tango provided a sense of connection, co-regulation, and healing through touch and music. We also discuss the differ...

In this episode, we dive into our recent experience at Tangamente Immersion Weekend and share some tips on making the most of tango festival workshops. We talk about the challenges of choosing the right classes, dealing with different teaching styles, and the importance of role switching. We also reflect on how to retain new techniques and incorporate them into your dance. July 26 Musicality Webin...

This week Alex and I dive into the key music tips that made tango easier for us. Whether you’re a leader or a follower, understanding certain music fundamentals helps you to get to that fun part of tango quicker. This is because no matter how much/little vocabulary you might know, it’s about how you make it work with the music that makes the difference. What musicality concept made tango easier fo...

In this episode, we dive into building confidence as a tango dancer. I share my personal journey of overcoming body image issues and embracing my true self on the dance floor. I cover practical steps for boosting confidence, like finding inspiration in other dancers and evaluating your own movement. I also stress the importance of self-expression and creativity in becoming a confident dancer. Mont...

In this episode, we dive into our experiences at the Caltech Tango Festival and the LA Tango Marathon. We talk about the different vibes, dancer levels, and social dynamics at each event. We also touch on our personal anxieties and the unique challenges of dancing with advanced partners. Plus, we explore how tango can be a haven for the socially awkward, providing a controlled space for connection...

Many female tango dancers have faced gender bias and discrimination in the tango communities over the past few years. In this episode, Freseda Mae and I discuss how instances of unsolicited feedback and uncomfortable dance experiences led Mae to decide to start leading. But once she did start leading she faces other challenges of being a dual role dancer. We also talk about the impact of gender bi...

Maziar is BACK for another interview, bantering about lessons learned along the way as he continues to live the tango nomad lifestyle. Having known him for many years, I have always wondered how he manages to enjoy himself so much on the dance floor, no matter who he dances with. In this episode, he reveals SOME of his secrets. Check out our first interview here: https://youtu.be/20nfqhSsrMA Join...

Female leaders are on the rise in tango and in this episode I share my perspective on what the next phase of growth looks like for women leading. I also address the criticism that female leaders may not have the same skill set as male leaders. DonAgucho on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@donagucho?si=aV3gXh3XF5ReUKnj Chicas del Tango Private Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/684592556384539...

If you want to succeed in tango, you gotta learn the right stuff. There are plenty of dancers out there who spend years working on their tango and not getting anywhere. Frequently, it has little do with with WHAT they are learning and more with HOW they are learning it. LIVE webinar Friday, May 31- How to use musicality to get better dances: https://imsotango.com/musicality-may-2024 Join my privat...

Cabeceo is not just a set of rules, but a tool that can be adapted to individual styles and situations. At least that’s how Alex and I think about it. In this episode we explore different ways we can practice the cabeceo that can help us connect with other people and get more dances. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Sign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: http...