The Tamsen Show

Feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or like your brain won’t slow down is incredibly common, especially when there’s pressure to be calmer, more productive, or more “together.” Many people blame themselves for this: for not being disciplined enough, resilient enough, or mentally strong enough.  But what if anxiety isn’t a personal failure and what if your brain is actually doing exactly what it was desi...

If you are back out on the dating scene and feeling frustrated, we have one of the top dating experts here to answer your questions. Tamsen knows personally that starting over can feel overwhelming and discouraging, especially when it comes to dating, navigating dating apps, and trying to make sense of modern dating after divorce or a long relationship.  Many women find themselves burnt out, quest...

Menopause doesn’t just change your body. It changes how you think, how you feel, and how you see yourself. For so many women, that shift shows up as brain fog, exhaustion, lost motivation, or a quiet fear that something is “wrong,” even when nothing is. In this episode, Tamsen is joined by Dr. Mindy Pelz, functional medicine expert and bestselling author of Fast Like a Girl and her new book Age Li...

Divorce is already disorienting. But when you’re dealing with a narcissist, the rules change and most people don’t realize that until they’re already in it. In this episode, Tamsen is joined by Sue Moss, a leading NYC divorce attorney, to talk about what actually happens when control, manipulation, and power dynamics show up in a divorce  and what women need to understand before things escalate. T...

You might feel overwhelmed, burnt out, stretched too thin, or constantly behind, even when you’re doing everything you can. The pressure to be productive, to keep going, to never fall apart is so heavy… and most women don’t understand why they feel this way or how to break out of it. This is exactly why Tamsen turned to Israa Nasir, a licensed psychotherapist and the author of Toxic Productivity,...

So many women are confused about GLP-1 medications like Zepbound, Wegovy, Ozempic, and Mounjaro, and unsure how they work, how to start, how to avoid side effects, or whether they are safe. The opinions are loud, the misinformation is everywhere, and it can feel impossible to know what is true. This is exactly why Tamsen turned to renowned physician Dr. Rocío Salas-Whalen, one of the country’s lea...

Hormone therapy is back in the spotlight, and for good reason. New research, new guidelines, and new conversations are rewriting what women are told about their brains, hearts, bones, metabolism, and long-term health. If you’re trying to understand what hormone therapy actually does, and whether it’s right for you,  this episode cuts through the noise. Whether you’re in perimenopause, menopause, o...

If you've ever felt knocked down, discouraged, or unsure of how to move forward, this is the conversation you need. Because Sherri Shepherd has lived through more “start from scratch” moments than most people will ever face. You know her as the Emmy-winning host of “The Sherri Show”, a beloved comedian, actress, and now author of the beautiful children’s book “The Sunshine Queens,”  but the road t...

Bruce Willis has spent decades on screen as one of Hollywood’s strongest leading men. Now, his wife Emma Heming Willis is redefining what strength looks like behind the scenes. In this powerful and deeply insightful conversation, Emma joins Tamsen to share what she’s learned from caring for Bruce and how her experience has become a guide for millions of caregivers around the world. Emma opens up a...

In this episode, you’ll learn why you feel disconnected even when your life looks full and how to start feeling safe, seen, and connected again. Tamsen sits down with Anna Runkle, trauma expert and creator of The Crappy Childhood Fairy, to unpack how early emotional wounds shape your adult relationships, why you pull away when you’re overwhelmed, and how to rebuild trust in yourself and others. An...

In this episode, you’ll learn why so many women inherit body shame, how to break free from approval addiction, and how to finally make peace with your body. Today, Tamsen sits down with Dr. Shefali, a leading psychologist and bestselling author known for helping women wake up to their power and heal the generational patterns that keep them small. Dr. Shefali is a global voice in conscious living a...

What would your life look like if you felt powerful around money instead of anxious or unsure? In this episode, personal finance expert Farnoosh Torabi joins Tamsen for an honest conversation about what’s really holding women back from financial confidence. They talk about the fear so many of us carry: fear of not knowing enough, fear of losing control, fear of starting too late and how to move th...

If you are struggling with a low libido or painful sex, Dr. Kelly Casperson is back, and this time, she’s answering your questions. and talking about testosterone. In this episode, Tamsen sits down with Dr. Kelly Casperson, the leading urologist, author, and leading voice in women’s sexual health for an honest, no-shame conversation about what’s really happening to women’s bodies in midlife. She e...

It’s not your imagination. Something’s changing and it’s time men finally understood what that really means. The Men’s Guide to Menopause is the first of its kind: a no-BS, science-meets-real-life guide to understanding menopause, perimenopause, hormones, hormone therapy, and everything else no one ever explained about women’s health in midlife. Tamsen sits down with the leading OB-GYNs, urologist...

Perimenopause can feel like losing control of your own body: the hot flashes, the sleepless nights, the brain fog, the sudden anxiety. In this powerful conversation, Tamsen sits down with leading OB/GYN and author of the upcoming book The New Perimenopause, Dr. Mary Claire Haver, to unpack what’s really happening during perimenopause and menopause, and what women can do to take control.  In this e...

You’ve seen her on screen for decades, but what you might not know is that Naomi Watts was told by Hollywood she’d be “done” by 40 and at 36, while her career was taking off, she was already in perimenopause. For years, she carried her symptoms in silence, afraid that talking about menopause would end her career. Today, Naomi is rewriting the script. She’s built Stripes, a brand dedicated to women...

Reinvention, identity loss, and personal growth aren’t just themes in Bobbi Brown’s story, they define it. Bobbi Brown, the legendary makeup artist and entrepreneur, described the moment everything she had built was suddenly gone. In an unexpected twist of midlife reinvention, she faced the loss of her identity, proving that even icons must confront the need for personal reinvention and bold caree...

Heart disease is the number one killer of women, yet most of us still think of it as a “man’s disease.” Symptoms like fatigue, jaw pain, nausea, or palpitations are too often brushed off as stress, anxiety, or just “normal aging.” The result? Women wait longer to get care, and their first heart attack is more likely to be fatal. Dr. Jayne Morgan, leading cardiologist and researcher, joins Tamsen t...

Maybe you’ve noticed you don’t feel like yourself anymore. The brain fog, mood swings, weight gain and exhaustion creep in slowly, and most women never realize these symptoms can start as early as their late 30s. Too often, they’re dismissed as stress, depression, or just part of getting older. But they’re not, they’re signs of perimenopause. Dr. Mary Claire Haver, leading OB/GYN, bestselling auth...

ADHD in women has been invisible for decades. The overwhelm, the racing thoughts, the feeling that everything is urgent are often dismissed as anxiety, depression, or just “being busy.” But they’re not character flaws, they’re signs of something deeper. In this episode, Shanna Pearson, founder of Expert ADHD Coaching and author of Invisible ADHD, shares why so many women are only being diagnosed l...

What happens to the female brain in midlife is one of the least talked-about and most misunderstood health issues of our time. The slips in memory, the fog, the sudden loss of focus can feel alarming. But they’re not random, and they’re not a sign you’re broken, they’re a sign of change. In this episode, Dr. Lisa Mosconi, a leading neuroscientist who has dedicated her life’s work to studying women...

Maybe your workouts don’t work the way they used to. Maybe you’ve noticed stubborn belly fat, or you don’t feel as strong as you once did. Here’s the truth: it’s not your fault, and it’s not inevitable. The missing piece isn’t more cardio, it’s strength. Dr. Vonda Wright, MD, is a double board-certified orthopedic surgeon, bestselling author and one of the world’s leading experts on women’s health...

If your home is juggling teens, step parent dynamics, and even caring for aging parents, this conversation gives you a clear, rules-based plan you can use across all of it. Dr. Aliza Pressman is a developmental psychologist, co-founder of the Mount Sinai Parenting Center, and author of The 5 Principles of Parenting. She lays out what works in blended homes, co-parenting, and hormonal seasons so yo...

If you’ve ever thought, "What is happening to my face?," this episode gives you the science and solutions to finally understand it. From crepey skin to jawline shifts to hair that’s suddenly thinning, midlife changes can feel confusing and frustrating. Most women don’t know what’s really going on, or what to do about it. In this episode, Tamsen sits down with one of the country’s top dermatologist...

If your friendships have started to feel more distant, more confusing, or more draining than they used to, you're not imagining it. Tamsen sits down with leading therapist and author Minaa B. to talk about the emotional side of adult friendships: the breakups, the boundaries, the loneliness, and why building connections can feel so hard, especially in midlife. Drawing from her clinical work, Minaa...