The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi

Is keeping your virginity before marriage still realistic in today’s world? In this episode, I respond to a young lady’s question about chastity and explore the challenges of upholding it in the 21st century.

Can people really change? Is lasting transformation truly possible, or is it just wishful thinking? We’ve all tried breaking a bad habit—or prayed and hoped that someone we love would do the same—only to find that the change feels painfully slow, if it ever comes at all. In this episode, I dive into the tough, often frustrating journey of personal growth and transformation—the setbacks, the small...

What happens when you stop chasing outcomes and start embracing the present? In this episode, we explore how letting go of expectations opens the door to richer experiences, deeper presence, and true enjoyment of life.

In this episode, I share my thoughts on Jaiz Bank’s recent rebrand and reflect on a personal experience from 2015 that completely changed how I view major corporate rebranding projects.

Do opposites really attract in romantic relationships? Are we truly drawn to people who are different from us—or is compatibility built on something deeper than just contrast?

The term Black Tax has gained momentum in recent years, carrying layers of meaning beyond finances. In this episode, I explore its origins and unpack what it reveals about the state of our society, our shared humanity, and even our spiritual lives.

In this episode, I respond to one of the most honest and vulnerable messages I’ve ever received. It’s raw, deeply relatable, and it raises profound questions—about the nature of God, and the seeming futility of what we call life.

When the father is absent, the whole home feels it — in ways seen and unseen. This podcast unpacks the hidden wounds, the silent struggles, and the generational impact of a missing father figure — and what it takes to heal.

In this podcast, I explore the flow of energy from the head down, revealing how this dynamic shapes the health and success of families, organisations, and nations.

In this episode, I explore why some people find themselves trapped in a loop of stagnation. It’s not bad luck or a curse—it’s a mindset problem. I call it The Swine Mindset.

This is the second part of a recording of a Q&A Session I had with students in my design training course.

This is a Q&A session I had with participants in my logo design training course.

Have you ever wondered why some people stand out more than others? Why some people are more memorable and while others are just down right forgettable. In this podcast, I teach on the 3 pillars of personal branding. I also recommend my book -Inspire and Influence Get your copy: https://selar.com/inspireandinfluence

Can God send you on mission that makes life harder? Can doing God's will bring you pain and some amount of shame? In this podcast, I talk about the often thorny path called doing God's work and what prosperity truly entails.

“Give, and it will come back to you—good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over…” It’s one of the most quoted verses in the Bible. But have you ever felt like it just doesn’t seem to work for you? Like you’ve been generous, yet the returns are slow, small, or even non-existent? In this episode, I take an honest look at this dilemma—and explore it from a perspective you might not...

Have you ever felt completely confused—like every part of your life is tangled up in a mess of wires, and you don’t even know where to start? You find yourself wishing God would just shout the answers to life’s most puzzling questions. In this episode, I share how I’ve learned to navigate confusion and develop clarity—and how you can begin to master it too.

Here I share a deep spiritual principle about taking bold actions in the midst of what appears to be suboptimal conditions. If you have been waiting on God for a particular break through in your life, this podcast is for you.

This is a recording of a Q&A Session I had with a group of creatives.

"Carpe diem"—Latin for "Seize the day"—is a phrase made famous by the Roman poet Horace. It's echoed across centuries, quoted in movies, speeches, and social media captions. But have we ever stopped to ask: what does it really mean? And more importantly, how do we truly seize a day? In this episode, I explore a fresh and thought-provoking perspective on what it means to make each day count—one you...

Times are hard. Things are costly. Businesses are struggling. How do we survive? In this podcast, I narrate my experience in what I consider one of the toughest economies in the world - Nigeria. I discuss the secret to overcoming economic hardship without compromising your values and virtues.

In this podcast I address men struggling with masturbation in marriage. I discuss the 3 critical steps in breaking the hold of pornography and masturbation on the incredible institution of marriage.

This is a recording of an organisation's corporate team building session. In this session I focus on advancing personal and professional growth within a company.

These days, many young people view living with their parents as something to be ashamed of — an inconvenience that holds them back. Home is often seen as a 'comfort zone' that must be escaped at all costs. But in this podcast, I take a different angle. I explore the hidden blessings and overlooked advantages of staying at home longer, and why it might just be one of the smartest decisions you can...

Have you ever given God an ultimatum—threatening to walk away from His calling on your life because the road felt too hard or unfair? In this episode, I share a personal moment when I wrestled with that very temptation, and why turning away from God’s call isn’t as simple—or as satisfying—as it might seem. To get my book - Inspire and Influence: https://selar.com/inspireandinfluence

If God is truly our Father who loves us, why is His voice so hard to hear?" That’s a question I recently had to anwer—and in this podcast, I dive into one of the biggest barriers that muffles God’s voice in our lives. I also explore why this particular issue has been so effective at keeping people distant from God, and how we can begin to hear Him more clearly.