The Susan Winter Show

   Unlock the secrets of magnetic attraction. Discover the 3 proven strategies to becoming irresistibly desirable and alluring. If you’re looking lasting success in relationships, these factors make you stand out and captivate effortlessly. 1. True interest in others. Ask questions about them. 2. Warm personality – opposite of cold/aloof (which equals fear/protection) 3. Conversational skills – kn...

   Obsessed with your ex and stuck in a breakup loop? Learn how negative scripts hijack your mind and keep you from moving on—here’s how to break free and reclaim your peace. #BreakupAdvice #MoveOn  1.     If he/she doesn’t want me = no one will. 2.     They are irreplaceable  3.     They’ll give all their love to someone else 4.     Unnecessary suffering, through negative overthinking and project...

   Are you stuck in 'The Approval Prison,' constantly chasing likes, status, or validation? Learn how external evaluation systems keep you trapped and discover the key to securing real self-worth on your terms.  1.    Externalized Version of Worth 2.    Securing Inner Worth 3.    Social Media Conformity 4.    Accepting Your Choices

   The partner you say you want isn’t the one you’re actually choosing. Why? It’s the Dating Paradox. Learn how to stop picking the wrong person and get out of your own way. Here’s how to find lasting love. 1.     The Dating Paradox 2.     Why We Choose Blindly (with our eyes) 3.    Edifying Our Ego 4.    Social Status and Peer Approval

   Rejection hurts. And it’s hard not to personalize it. But what if the real reason someone walked away has nothing to do with you as a person? Here’s how to decode the real reason for their rejection and gain insight to the bigger picture at hand.

   We often hear in dating advice, “Don’t give your power away.” How does that look in the real world? Here’s how to never feel like you’ve lost your power, no matter the circumstance. 1. Power Dynamics In A Relationship 2. Keeping Control, Independent Of Circumstances 3. How To Do It Examples

   Feeling judged? Here’s Why—Being judged hurts, but it says more about them than you. Here’s the reason and how to confidently flip the tables to your favor.   1. Judgement Speaks Volumes About the Judger 2. Fear of Difference and the Unknown 3. Only Two Positions- Open/Closed 4. The Closed Position 5. Evolving Toward Open

   Is your obsession real love or just loneliness playing tricks on you? Here’s how to pull back the curtain on lingering feelings of melancholy and determine the truth of your feelings. Here’s how to view our ex in totality and see the complete picture in full dimension.  1.    How To Know If It’s Love Or Loneliness 2.    How And Why You Got Stuck 3.    Deconstructing Your ‘Perfect Partner’ 4.   ...

   How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease.

How slow is ‘too slow’ in dating? What’s the difference between waiting and wasting time? Here’s how to tell if your partner’s legitimately setting a reasonable pace as opposed to playing you. We know ‘too hot too soon’ will ruin a relationship. But what about too slow? When is slow way too slow?  1.    The Difference Between Pace and Playing You 2.    Setting a Reasonable Timeframe 3.    Self-Wor...

   Has your self-esteem taken a hit from too much dating drama? Are you starting to doubt yourself? Questioning your instincts or wondering if there’s something wrong with you? Here are some tips on how to gain (and maintain) your self-esteem.   Gaining and maintaining self-esteem during the ups and downs of modern dating can be exhausting. One minute you’re up in the hopes that you’ve met somebod...

How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease.

   How do you know if you love yourself? What does it feel like? How does that look in real life? Here are the four essential components that enable you to agree with the totality of yourself and enjoy your uniqueness.  Here are the 4 essential components discussed in this podcast: 1.    Self-acceptance 2.    Non-comparison 3.    Uniqueness 4.    Inner Trust

   Have you fallen for the “Spiritual Player?” You may think you want a spiritual partner— but what you’re really requesting is ethical behavior and higher standards. Here’s the test: 1. You assume the realm is “safe” – not so.  2. Know your ‘why.’ What’s the real reason behind your request?  3. Beware of spiritual gaslighting. You’ll be blamed as being “less spiritual” for having a reaction to th...

   Struggling to find love? Frustrated, exhausted and in need of hope? Learn the structure and tools that enable you to get the love you want from the first date onward. These are the foundational principles: 1.    Hope: 2.    Filtering:  3.    Communication: 4.      Process:

   Is it your first love (and first breakup)? Or is it the first time you let yourself fall in love? Recovering from this type of heartache requires these tools:  1.     Accepting it’s over 2.     Separating ‘the dream’ from reality 3.     Trust LIFE to bring you love again.

   What is the ‘3-6-9 Rule’ for relationships and why is it crucial for finding a lasting love? Here's how evaluating your relationship at each segment of time will reveal key insights that guide you in determining if this is your ‘person.'  3. The Discovery Phase: The first three months are a period of discovery and assessment. Here is where you assess your level of attraction and compatibility. ...

   Ever felt like love is more about 'give and take' than genuine connection? You may be in a transactional relationship. Learn how to spot the signs and identify the cycles so you can protect your heart.  ·  Identify Transactional Relationship Signs: Learn how to recognize the key indicators of a transactional relationship and ensure your connection is based on genuine love and respect. ·  Unders...

   Are you attracted to unavailable and bored with compatible? Attraction and chemistry may seem independent of logic… until you understand this:    ·   Underlying Factors: Discover the underlying factors that allow you to find healthy relationships boring and how to overcome the desire to create drama and distraction in your life   ·   Break the Cycle: Learn how to break the cycle of being addict...

   Are you agonizing over the fact that it’s your fault for the breakup? Here’s how to handle your guilt and anxiety… and (possibly) recover the situation:    ·       Why you feel such guilt over the breakup that was supposed to set you free. ·       How dumpers remorse keeps you locked in a loop of stagnation ·       How to make peace with yourself and move on knowing that your decision was right...

   You did everything right—were the perfect partner but still got dumped. How can you heal and rebuild after heartbreak? Here’s how to let go of the grief, anger, and sadness and move forward without regrets.

   Want to overcome your dating anxiety? Wish you knew the key to leading with confidence and self-assurance? Here’s how to shift your mindset and free your fear

   Monogamy, or Not? Which is the right choice for you? If you don’t know what you want, you’ll get what your partner gives you. Clarity is essential in supporting your dating goals and in choosing the relationship model that’s right for you.

   They enjoy your company but don’t want to commit. What should you do when they like you, but not enough for a relationship? Here’s the answer.