The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast

If you ever feel like you're not good enough somehow, you are not alone.  I felt the same way.  Unfortunately, such self-judgment is an obstacle to being a powerful coach.  Today I'll share how to let go of negative self-talk.  Because you deserve all the praise coming your way as a coach!  

Could your deeply caring heart actually get in the way of a client's breakthrough?  I know that sounds backward, but I've seen it happen so many times.  So today we're talking about the top 5 reasons coaches don't give advice.  I'll share how you can get clear on your role as a coach on her role as a client for a powerhouse duo.  Listen here so you can become the most powerful coach you can be.

I'm right!  They're wrong!  That's a natural reaction to bait, an area I'm still growing in after 22 years. Today I'll share 4 ways to resist bait.  You'll learn specific practices when fear or hurt come up so you can continue to transform—and so the same skills can serve you in business just as powerfully as they do in your relationship.  

Have you ever found yourself in territory you don't belong in as a coach during a session?  Boy, can that be unnerving!  Today I'll share how to create connection and safety with your client, even when she brings an outside topic or you haven't been where she is.  All while growing your own personal transformation at the same time!

Is the same thing stopping you from being wildly successful that was for me? Today I'll share 6 myths about being a relationship coach to help you uncover what could be keeping you stuck. Listen here so you can be the wife, woman, and coach you want to be—without it having to be hard work.

Want to know the secret sauce to being a successful relationship coach? Then you're in luck! Today I'll share how I went from being the can-do girl—i.e., overworked and resentful—to feeling loved and supported in the remarkable culture at Laura Doyle Connect. I'm excited to share a few of my favorite things on our campus, which took me from a life of suffering to one of ending suffering. You'll le...

Today we're talking about the best way to start when you become a coach. Plus how to join us if you're not already a coach! You'll learn:   2 ways to become known, liked, and trusted as a relationship coach  1 specific action step to move forward in your coaching practice How to get unlimited group coaching calls for life and keep the 6 Intimacy Skills™ alive for yourself I'll share the approach w...

After the bad old days of falling behind after back-to-back meetings all day, I've learned ways to manage my calendar so it feels spacious. I'll share how, including the morning routine that sources my day. And a surprising way to find the energy to catch up on projects. You'll also learn: The key thing I use to start, end, and punctuate the day How to keep tasks like email from stacking up  A wee...

Coach Shanit's marriage was in the dumps, with her husband threatening divorce even during her Relationship Coach Training. But once she graduated, she felt she knew everything. She vulnerably shares the cost of overconfidence, judgment, and lack of safety as a coach. She also reveals why clients finally started renewing (and her husband never mentioned divorce again). You'll learn how she opened...

My guest Angela vulnerably shares the heartbreak that led her to become a beloved coach.  The former teacher reveals: The difference between coaching and teaching  How she has let go of needing to do it all  Plus her secret for avoiding exhaustion You'll also learn what she does when she's scared to receive a new opportunity so that one opportunity turns into another for you too!  

I can't wait for you to get to know the inspiring Coach Tess! She'll reveal the question a coach asked that changed her life, an indispensable habit for success as a coach, and the one Intimacy Skill becoming a coach has really taught her. Listen now to learn the promise she says will take you where you're meant to go!

Want to know what a woman really means when she says she can't afford coaching?  Today I'll reveal the crucial heart message behind those words.  You'll also learn 2 ways to respond to that objection and 2 practical things you can do as a coach so your prospect can find a way to have all that she wants.

Have you tried talking to potential clients at parties, to no avail? Me too. That was before I learned the one vital element to having a sacred conversation. Today I'll share how to create the space to have that conversation successfully. You'll also learn all the details to consider so you can coach on your terms and women not only enroll but renew with you!

I'm sure you're proud of the offer you've developed as a coach, rightfully so after your hard work!  Unfortunately, all the great features you offer are not what cause a woman to say yes to herself.  Today I'll share what matters way more than the benefits you offer and how you can give that to her.  I'll reveal where I now focus my energy, to the point that one of my programs is self-enrolling, w...

There's one skill I'm still stretching in.  After going into hiding and years of Needless Emotional Turmoil and even quitting, I learned the hard way the #1 obstacle to all the opportunities that would otherwise come your way.  If you ever find yourself where I was—playing it safe, crying and fretting, or feeling like a victim—you won't want to miss this.  I can't wait to reveal the magic word tha...

I admit I've had my share of blunders in my marriage—still do sometimes.  But when I get into negativity, disrespect or being undignified, I don't like how it feels. Today I'll share the #1 ingredient that allows me to show up as my best self in my relationship.  I'll also give you the key that will unlock the doors to being wildly successful both in your relationship and in your coaching practice...

We've all heard that it's the journey, not the destination. But what if it's not? Today I'll share a surprising context where the destination is actually the important part. You'll learn the focus that repels prospects, ways of being that enroll clients, the #1 quality I look for when hiring a coach, plus the secret that Laura Doyle has taught me the past 20+ years about the best way to attract cl...

Do you ever walk away from a coaching session feeling spent?  Or at a loss in solving her problem or answering when she's asking you what to do?  I did too, until I discovered what was getting in the way of my client getting her breakthrough.  Today I'll share how to increase your confidence and lighten your load as a coach—and give your clients more breakthroughs while you're at it!

As you know by now, my journey has not been so perfect.  I was once on the brink of divorce, feeling so lonely, unloved, and unsuccessful in relationships.  Today I'll share why that is now my biggest asset.  I'll also reveal how to boost your confidence in your own coaching so you can provide your clients with even more hope and transformation.  You'll learn how you can bring your personal transf...

I'm fortunate to know a LOT of successful coaches and get to study them up close.  Today I'll reveal key practices of the most wildly successful coaches I've ever met.  I'll share 3 benefits you have to experience for yourself (including a surprising benefit for your relationship)!  You'll also learn 3 key questions that will help you move toward your vision of the kind of coach you want to be.  A...

Do you see your clients' success as an indicator of your own?  If so, you are not alone.  It's a common pitfall, and today I'll share why.  You'll learn to turn that around using this essential practice of successful relationship coaches.  And you'll walk away with plenty to celebrate!

When your client is struggling, do you wonder how good you really are as a coach?  Today I'll share the problem with basing your success on your client's, along with 7 alternative ways to measure your success as a coach.  I'll reveal practical systems—including specific daily, monthly, and yearly practices—that will empower you with concrete measures of your success.  You'll learn to shift your mi...

In contrast to last week's episode on coaching for an organization, this week we're talking about the benefits of being an independent coach.  I'll also share how you can get support in fulfilling YOUR vision as a coach.  Listen now if you're ready to make a big difference!

What's the best way for you to be of service as a relationship coach?  Today I'll share the benefits of coaching for an organization and what it's like compared to coaching for yourself.  If you're still finding your lane, you won't want to miss learning about this opportunity to expand your reach and make a difference.

What do busy-ness and irritation have in common? Those are telltale signs of avoidance for me. But after receiving coaching for over 30 years, I've learned how to address the real issue, which all comes down to taking action. (I'll also share what happens when I avoid that action.) Today I'll reveal common signs of avoidance—and the antidote—so you can identify the symptoms and the cure for you.