The Subconscious Expert: Mindset, Identity Work & Embodied Leadership for Ambitious Women

Letting go of the 'how' is a topic that comes up time and time again in my private community and with my clients. To be honest, letting go of the 'how' was a big struggle in my entrepreneurship journey too. I was so consumed with how my dreams would become a reality that I couldn't move forward or see opportunities that were right in front of me! If you are holding on to the 'how', it's like you a...

Doing subconscious work looks so glamorous on social media, doesn't it? You see coaches sitting down, drinking coffee, doing a bit of journaling... and just like that, they break through limiting beliefs and become $3 million business owners! If only it were that simple… I don't want you to think that subconscious work is a walk in the park because it's not. It can be really hard sometimes, especi...

Stepping into high-cash months is your dream. It's on your vision board, you see it whenever you close your eyes, and maybe you've even achieved a high-cash month, but you struggle to maintain it. Do you know why that is? Because achieving high-cash months, whether it's $5K, $10K, or $50K, requires you to become a different version of yourself. You must embody the higher self version that no longe...

So you want to attract high calibre clients, amazing! Now, how do you do that? Two things: mindset and strategy. (Don't you dare skip the mindset part because that's the biggest piece of it!) When I see my clients wanting to attract high calibre clients and step into a higher calibre client experience, a lot of limiting beliefs come up. "What if I can't deliver? What if my experience isn't good en...

Hello, gorgeous lady! Are you ready to talk about the frantic energy in your business? It's that energy of "Why isn't this happening for me? What am I doing wrong? What else can I do to get to that 10K faster?". It's like your mind is racing a million miles per hour, thinking of all the things that you should be doing to make the business work and bring more money in. The problem with the frantic...

In today’s episode, I talk about something that I know many of my 1:1 clients and members of The Higher Self Society struggle with - old behaviour patterns or old limiting beliefs that keep coming back. Have you ever found yourself doing mindset work, breaking through your limiting beliefs, having “aha” moments, understanding your behaviour patterns, feeling so proud of yourself, seeing all the pr...

One of the very first things I learned about when I entered the coaching world was the Reticular Activating System or RAS, and it BLEW MY MIND! If you are anything like me, you roll your eyes whenever people say things like "I totally manifested my dream business." It leaves people confused, like what? How did you manifest it? Did you just think about it one night, wake up, and it was there? Of co...

Do you keep getting in the way of your own success? If the answer is a big fat yes, then you are in the right place today! I know you; I was you! You want to be a wealthy CEO, have freedom in your life and business, grow and scale your business at a rapid rate, and you can see yourself doing it but… You repeatedly fall into the vicious cycle of habits and behaviour patterns that don’t support you...

There is a big difference between operating your business based on your identity and defining your identity based on the performance of your business. Your business has needs, you have needs and they aren’t always the same. If you’re constantly attaching your self worth to the results you’re seeing in your business, you will burn out. In today’s episode join Bec as she explores the consequences of...

Finding the balance between gratitude and ambition is a challenge that many of my clients, myself included, struggle with. I remember how I used to tell myself, "When I make X amount of money, then I'll finally be happy and enjoy my life." Yeah, sure! As soon as you reach the amount of money in your bank account, the number of clients in your business, or the number of people signing up for your f...

When Beckie’s clients come to her, they often feel like procrastination is just part of who they are at this point, and they often feel ashamed for struggling with it. “I am committed to my goals, I want to do the work, I’m ready to put in the effort… so why can’t I just do the damn thing?!!” They feel frustrated with themselves but you know what, everyone procrastinates, but the beauty of subcons...

As humans, we LOVE overcomplicating things for no reason. Many business owners crave ease, flow, and simplicity, yet they still fall into the trap of overcomplicating things. It's almost as if when showing up in your business comes easily to you, and clients are drawn to you just by your personality shining through, it somehow feels wrong. Most of us were raised in a world where we were told thing...

In the online space, it's not as common as it should be to run a business based on how you operate as a human and CEO. Many business owners doubt themselves because none of the strategies they've tried seem to work. So when they hear about the latest strategy that some coach is raving about, they are excited to try it out! At first, things go well, but eventually, they realize they just can't stic...

Do you struggle with self-discipline? You’re not alone. Many of my clients often start their week feeling super motivated, ready to tackle a huge list of tasks and new habits they want to create. But by the end of the day, their excitement fades away, and the list doesn’t seem to be getting any shorter. Can you relate? I know I sure can! The reason for this is related to your subconscious mind. Wh...

Something that I repeatedly hear from my community is how much you love it when I call you out because it inspires you to take action. So today's podcast episode won't be any different! If you have been a loyal listener of Higher Self & I, you've heard me say that 95% of our behavior patterns happen subconsciously. Your subconscious mind may put you in business growth avoidance without you eve...

You wouldn’t believe how often I see business owners spending thousands and thousand of dollars on masterminds, masterclasses, business coaches, courses - yet the promised results never come. They keep making more and more investments in hopes that they'll finally unlock the secret they've been looking for all this time and explode their business. I know how easy it is to get lost on social media,...

BOOK YOUR SPOT IN LEAP NOW Let’s be honest, not many people like to push themselves out of their comfort zone. It’s called a COMFORT zone for a reason, right? But what if I told you that embracing discomfort could be the key to unlocking your success? A couple of weeks ago, my boyfriend and I moved into our new dream home and I must admit that despite all the excitement and butterflies in my stoma...

One of the things my ideal clients tell me before we start working together is that they are afraid of who they will become when they start making high-cash months. It’s understandable. Think about all the stories we hear about being rich or rich people. “Rich people are evil.” “Rich people are greedy.” “Who do they think they are?!” Most of those stories are pretty negative. Who wants to be calle...

Tell me how many times you invested in a program or course thinking: “Yes, this is it! This is the missing piece! This is going to save my business!”? You make the investment, follow a new business strategy, change your niche, content, graphics, and then… Nothing happens. So you hop on social media, search for another magical course, and the vicious circle continues. A couple of courses later (or...

Be honest, are you the type of person who sets your boundaries on Sunday night, hyping yourself up like “Yes, this is it! This is the day!” but then Monday comes around and you throw the boundaries out of the window? Or do you set boundaries and ACTUALLY embody them every single day? If you are the first type, no shame around here. Rebecca Haydon 1.0 had ZERO boundaries, (hands up if you are a rec...

Upper limit is a real thing. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. The first thing you need to know is that facing the upper limit looks different for every one of us because we all feel comfortable with different amounts of money in our business. But we all experience the upper limit in some shape or form, and NOT only once in our lives. You will run into the upper limit problem every time you hit...

Let me start off by saying that victim mentality is not something you shake off once and then you are over it (we wish!). Oh hell no. Talking from my own experience, victim mentality is still a part of me. It still rears its ugly head sometimes, especially when I’m up-leveling because it wants to protect me and keep me safe.  Please know that if you struggle with victim mentality on bad days,...

Truly stepping into an abundance mindset is easier said than done. Breaking my scarcity mindset and stepping into my multi 6 figure identity was one of the hardest things I had to do. There I said it! That’s why I can’t help but roll my eyes when I hear coaches say: “just think positively”. Breaking a scarcity mindset is not a quick thing like flipping a switch and all of a sudden you are in the a...

Don’t you just love when you wake up in the morning, full of energy and with good vibes? You start the day with your morning routine, maybe you journal, look at your vision board, listen to a self-hypnosis track, or visualize. As you close your eyes, you call in all the success, wealth, and money you desire. You can see that juicy life coming to fruition, ideal clients coming TO YOU, hitting that...

Sign up for my upcoming masterclass More Money, Less Problems Do you know what happens to your nervous system when it’s overloaded? It freaks out and starts looking for a way to feel comfortable and safe again. So when you feel like your business is fragile or unsustainable, and that might look like you are not in control of your business, you lack consistency in your behavior, or you are not sure...