The Stronger Marriage Podcast with Trey & Lea

Is debt killing your marriage? It can!  We struggled with it bad early in our marriage, and here are some things we did to get it under control.  Support the show

 1.   You’re not stressing over your body.  2.   You’re not afraid to talk about sex.  3.   When you’re willing to step out of your comfort zone a bit.   4.   You sometimes you schedule it to make it happen.  5.   You like it.  6.   You take turns initiating (agreed frequency).  7.   You feel like it’s a joy and not a chore.  8.   You’re willing to try new things together.  9.   You feel good or c...

Up for some fun?  We give all the details on our podcast, but here's a teaser ...  Show your spouse the list below and allow them to pick 5 things from the list. When they pick 5, you gladly do those 5 things over the next five days. Then, you pick your five favorites, and they can do those things for you.  1. Cook their favorite meal. 2. Have something delivered to them at their work or home...

We mentioned an awesome lingerie place called Mentionables. Here is the link: https://shopmentionables.com/ Support the show

Here is a great checklist of things to find out "are we in a healthy marriage?" Maybe a few things you need to work on. Healthy marriages bless you, your children and your grandchildren.  1. Healthy marriages don't throw around the "D" word.  2. Healthy marriages don't hide things from one another. 3. Healthy marriages have one another's ___________________. 4. H...

Sorry for all the coughing ... we're both getting over head colds.  1. P______________ together. 2. Have fun together. 3. Don't stop D________________. 4. Talk 5. Do M_________________ work together. 6. S___________________ your spouse. 7. Be romantic. 8. Go on a trip together.  Support the show

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We answer your questions this week on the Stronger Marriage Podcast 1.   How can we get the romance back into our marriage? 2.   How do you get your spouse to see his family connection is too close? 3.  I cheated and hate what I did. How can I help my marriage to heal?    4.  Advice for a spouse wanting to stay and work on a marriage when the other one doesn’t?  5.   What’s the first question you’...

One of the most powerful things you have in your home that promotes relationships, family growth and healthy relationships is the family dinner table. YET ... more and more family are not using it. Join us this week as we look at the REASONS to keep eating around the family table.  Support the show

Protect your intimacy in your marriage and don't let ANY of these things sneak in and kill you sex life.  Support the show

1. How to learn to say no. 2. Keep it simple. 3. Depend on the village. 4. Seek joy. 5. Take care of yourself.  6. Don't sweat the small stuff.  Support the show

Here are the 10 needs we discussed in no particular order. Work through them with your spouse... 1.   ____ Sexual Fulfillment  2.   ____ Affection  3.   ____ Financial Support 4.   ____ Domestic Support 5.   ____Recreational Companionship 6.   ____Conversation 7.   ____ Openness and Honesty 8.   ____ Family Commitment 9.   ____ Attractiveness of Spouse  10.                 ____ Admiration   Suppor...

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In this episode we cover ... How do I know I married the right person? Are soulmates real? Is there one person for every person in the world? Singles: 2 things you need to know before getting married. Can I fall out of love? Is love a feeling or an action?  Support the show

7 Things That Are OUT OF BOUNDS in Marriage 1.    Hurting your spouse on purpose.    2.    Withholding sex (or any other need) as punishment. 3.    Talking bad about your spouse to other people. 4.    _________________ your spouse. 5.    Allowing other people to _______________________ about your spouse.  6.    Keeping secrets from your spouse. 7.    ______________________________ at your spouse....

There is SO much debate over this question ... here's our thoughts. Our answer may surprise you.  Support the show

5 things for husbands and 5 things for wives.  Support the show

1. Make sex  M _______________  S________________. 2. Say "yes" more than you say "no." 3. Try ______________ things.  4. Be sexually ________________________. 5. Both initiate often. 6. ________________ nice for your spouse. 7. __________________ only after your spouse 8. Don't obsess about how you _______________. 9. Flirt. 10. Be naked with _____________________.  Suppo...

Today we are challenging you to take the 5-Day Marriage Makeover Challenge with us.  This will BLESS your marriage. Here's some hints to what you'll find here ... FOR THE NEXT 5 DAYS DO THESE 5 THINGS ... 1. Zero Criticism for the Next 5 Days.  2. Spend 20-30 minutes in Conversation Each Day for the Next 5 Days 3. Be ___________________ Each Day for the Next 5 Days. 4. __________________...

Healthy marriages include dating. It's so important to your marriage it should have been included in your wedding vows.  When you regularly date your spouse you're telling them that they are a priority in your life . Many couples stop going on dates once they get married and then wonder what happened to that original love they had for one another. Support the show

1.     Stop correcting your spouse in public. 2.    Stop putting your marriage on auto pilot. 3.     Stop treating your spouse like they are a child. 4.     Stop think your spouse should know what you need. 5.     Stop pretending like everything is fine.  6.     Stop purposely getting under your spouse’s skin. 7.     Stop being critical of your spouse to others.    8.     Stop making your spouse t...

10 great phrases you should be saying in your marriage.  Support the show

This was such a fun episode. Flirting 101. May you never stop flirting in your marriage.  Support the show

1. Stop lying and strive for honesty. 2. COMPLETELY STOP watching porn and stay away from anything that draws you towards it.   3. Take complete responsibility for your mistakes.  4. Answer questions.  5. Be patient as your partner rebuilds trust.  6. Be Open.  7. Make your partner feel #1 again.  8. Take the opportunity to refresh your relationship. 9. Consider a break from intimacy to restore th...

1. Don't wait until their is a problem. 2. Find accountability. 3. Find online accountability.  4. Set boundaries with your cell phones. 5. Remove the things that tempt you. 6. Guard your eyes and mind. 7. Be sexually generous in your marriage.  Support the show