The Stepmom Side Podcast

Ever feel like everyone else belongs but you do not? There's a secret language they speak. There are inside jokes. The history they share. The memories, vacations, and, well, you know everything that you don't share with them. In this episode, I break down, what outside syndrome is, what it feels like, and things you can do to overcome and work through it. We talk about this in The Stepm...

In this episode, Alicia talks about  being "just the stepmom" and how society puts pressure on stepmoms to show up in all the ways, but to remember that, as a stepmom, you aren't the kid's mom. She talks about changing your perspective from being "just" the stepmom to "I'm just the stepmom." Listen in to hear the difference and for tips to embracing bei...

How hard is it to admit you are wrong? Do you have to have things your way? How hard is it to say, "I'm sorry"? If those are hard questions to answer, this episode might be for you. It's a little dose of tough love to help stop your ego from driving the bus. Listen in as I share a nickname my husband gave me early on in our relationship. (Thankfully, he never uses it now!) The...

We've all been there: that awkward, "I don't know how to connect with my stepkid...but I know I should at least try.." In this episode, I talk about  -why it's important to build connections with your stepkids -where things can go sideways -what to do when it doesn't go well -how to try again Support the show Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here . After you...

JP Marsh is a single "girl dad" to a 9 year old. He's gone gone from "Conflict to Collaboration" in the 7+ years of co-parenting. JP speaks, coaches, and advocates for the benefits of getting out of your own way to be adults in the eyes of your children. In this episode, we cover: -the double standards of stepmoms and stepdads -changing your perspective on the other parent...

Christina is a San Diego native, with a degree in English from San Diego State University. She is a project manager by trade and a producer, writer and director by fun. Christina is the host of Wise Cracking Blonde Trivia Show. In this episode, we discuss: -what it's like having different custody schedules for siblings -how we help the kids navigate things when they go wrong -why Christina do...

If you're a new stepmom, this episode may be just a bit relatable.  I cover: -major differences -sharing things -how your relationship seems to take a hit -what stepmoms tell me they wish they would have waited on...and more! Support the show Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here . After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think! Get all th...

Jessica is a licensed clinical counselor and her job is to help people manage their anxiety and depression, but what she focuses on first is their sleep. In her spare time, she keeps busy on her farm with her husband and four boys. Their life is very busy with sports and farm life. In this episode, we discuss: -what is EMDR? -why you need to engage both sides of the brain to process -does EMDR mak...

Bryana Kappadakunnel is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, an Infant-Family Early Childhood Mental Health Specialist, and a Perinatal Mental Health Specialist. She has an MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University and is the CEO and founder of Conscious Mommy and Child Parent Connection. She has a private practice in Redondo Beach, CA and is a mom of 2. In this episode, we discuss...

Does that podcast title make you want to skip this episode? #relatable First things first: everyone is on their own healing journey. You might be further ahead than everyone else. You might be further behind. Reminder for you: it's not a race. Everyone is on their own journey. Listen in as I walk you through a few tips you can use to get to a friendlier relationship with the ex. Caveat to thi...

I posted an "Ask Me Anything" box on Instagram and the questions submitted were pretty juicy. In this episode, I covered: -stepmom burnout -do I get tired of talking about stepmom stuff? -in-laws openly love/discuss the ex -spousal support for the mom while she has a live in boyfriend and more! Podcasts referenced in this episode are: Everyone Talks About the Ex...HELP! How Your Expectat...

Jessica is a licensed clinical counselor and her job is to help people manage their anxiety and depression, but what she focuses on first is their sleep. In her spare time, she keeps busy on her farm with her husband and four boys. Their life is very busy with sports and farm life. In this episode, we discuss: -why you feel like eating everything in sight when you don't get enough sleep -how...

In this episode, I talk to you about the ONE thing you can control: YOU. I walk you through a couple scenarios and how you can control (yourself in) them. There's even a bit of tough love mixed in! If you want to chat this through tonight (May 14th), The Stepmom Side Community's Group Coaching is tonight. Sign up for the community here ! Support the show Want a specific topic covered? Le...

Aside from being the owner of Entering Motherhood, Sarah Marie is a mom of two, wife, and birth and postpartum doula. She is certified as a postpartum nutrition professional, holds a doula certification specifically centered around VBAC preparation, and is an active doula in her community. In this episode, Sarah walks us through all things birthing and what to expect when you are expecting! Here a...

In this episode, I cover a lot of ground. I talk you through 9 things that would have been really beneficial to know prior to being a stepmom...or getting married. You live and learn, right? Here are a few of the things covered: -diplomacy/communication -protecting your relationship -being able to add humor -Boundaries-what they are, what they are not and what to know...and more! Resources mention...

This is the first (of hopefully many!) topic requests for the podcast. This stepmom is a full time stepmom and their mom barely sees them, but when she does, she comes over to their house...and eats everything in it. Sounds like we need to rework how to navigate this dynamic...listen in. Support the show Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here . After you listen to this, tag me on Instagra...

Jyl Barlow navigates life as a stepmom and second wife with amazing hindsight. Her memoir, What to Expect When You Weren't Expecting, shares her bumpy road as a stepmom and the lessons learned along the way. Jyl lives in Virginia with her husband and two children, all of whom survived loads of speed bumps on the way to thriving as a family. In this episode: -Grief in stepfamilies -Guilt and h...

Naja Hall is the founder of  VIP Stepmom and Blended and Black. As a Certified Coach and Educator, she understands that the family is THE MOST influential entity of human development, and her work centers around helping individuals, couples, and families navigate some of life’s toughest transitions. As the host of  popular podcast, I know I’m Crazy with Naja Hall and author of the Amazon best-sell...

Mother's Day: one of the dreaded holidays for stepmoms. It's a weird one to navigate. What do I do? Should I expect anything? Is it weird? Send help! Listen in to get a bit of help (now!) on how to navigate Mother's Day this year and going forward! Resources mentioned: #27: How Your Expectations Set You Up for Failure Blog: Mother's Day As A Stepmom Support the show Want a spec...

Jaclyn Vonnahme is a licensed therapist & life coach with her own mental health struggles. Her mission in life is to remind people they are never alone! In this episode: -sobriety -trolls on social media -should you be on medication forever? -difference between coaching and therapy and more. Connect with Jaclyn: Instagram The Anxious Therapist Podcast Support the show Want a specific topic cov...

Suzanne is a former actress and Miss Arab USA turned writer. Her debut memoir, Post Pardon Me, is a dark comedy on postpartum depression and anxiety. She offers laughter and understanding to help mothers through the difficult early phases of motherhood. In this episode, Suzanne walks us through what postpartum life can be like. She fuses in humor, but more importantly, wants you to know you aren&a...

Being a stepmom is wild. Some days are great. Some days are crap. Some are a mix of the two. Sometimes it feels like you're just waiting for the other shoe to drop. In this episode, Alicia breaks down the ebbs and flows of relationships with: -Your partner -Your stepkids -The other house...and yourself. Episodes mentioned: #3: Embracing Being "Just" the Stepmom Support the show Want...

Carley is an empowerment coach on a mission to help women reconnect to their authentic selves and create lives they can’t get enough of. Her own journey of self-discovery led Carley to flip her life upside down and do one of the scariest things she's ever done—end her marriage. Flash forward to now, and Carley is in a fulfilling relationship, nourished by deep sisterhood connections, and unap...

The paranoia of being a stepmom? Sounds a little dramatic, right? Ever feel like you are watching over your shoulder (constantly)? Feel like everything you say and/or do will be reported back to the other house? Question your choices? Who can you be friends with? Listen in as we talk about all of this and more. Resources mentioned: Defining Your Stepmom Role Support the show Want a specific topic...

If you're a new stepmom, you need this episode! You'll learn what you are walking into when you start dating someone with kids. Not everything will happen all at once, but eventually, you'll need to know them. We cover: -emotions -boundaries -why you'd consider running...and more. RESOURCES MENTIONED: 10 Things to Know As A New Stepmom 5 Steps for Healthy Boundaries #3: Embraci...