The Self-Confidence Project

Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today we're diving into some of the worst modern dating advice that's keeping you from genuine connections. We'll unpack five harmful myths, including the idea that confidence is everything and the dreaded three-day text rule. Through relatable examples, I'll explain why these myths are detrimental and how you can navigate modern dati...

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly explores the impact of stoicism in modern dating. Learn why your understanding or application of stoicism might be sabotaging your chances of deeply connecting with women and forming the relationships you desire. Kimberly delves into how misinterpreting stoicism as emotional suppression can lead to women perceiving you as emotionally unavail...

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly discusses a psychological hack that hugely impacts dating. This psychological principle explains why unfinished or interrupted tasks are remembered more vividly, a technique that can create curiosity and intrigue in dating. Learn practical applications of this for dating and how to leave a lasting impression and foster genuine connections wi...

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, host Kimberly is joined by renowned somatic sex therapist Susan Morgan Taylor to challenge your views on sex, pleasure, and connection. Whether you're in a relationship, dating after divorce, or seeking deeper connections, this conversation is for you. Susan shares her journey and how her personal experiences led her to become a leading voice in...

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly delves into the real challenges men face when dating after a divorce, especially those in their 50's, 60's, 70's. Kimberly outlines common obstacles such as insecurities around age and attractiveness, the complexities of feeling attracted to younger women, and dealing with a shrinking social circle. She offers actionable steps on...

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I'll discuss the reasons why sexual intimacy often declines in long-term relationships and share practical advice on how to TRULY revive it. I'll talk about actionable steps to rebuild connection and intimacy without begging, pressuring, or pretending. The episode also emphasizes the importance of open communication and shared emotional suppo...

Welcome back! In today's episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I'm sharing why modern women often categorize men into two groups: those they respect and those they disrespect, resent and fear. I'll discuss key traits that earn women's respect versus common behaviors that garner disrespect (like indecisiveness and excessive agreeableness). I'll also share practical advice for...

Welcome back to The Self-Confidence Project. Today I'm diving into the topic of ghosting in modern dating. Learn the true definition of ghosting, the reasons why women might ghost you, and how to avoid it by understanding why women do this and how to regulate emotional investments. I'll also share tips on how to handle early rejection signs, create emotional tension, and maintain a grounded approa...

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I'm breaking down five common phrases women use that subtly indicate a lack of romantic interest. By understanding the true meaning behind statements like 'I'm just really busy right now' or 'I'm not ready for a relationship,' you can avoid wasting your time and energy on women who aren't emotionally available or. interested. I'll provide actionable...

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I'm talking about the widespread and often misleading concept of being an 'alpha male' and what it means to be a 'high value man.'  I am going to explain why these performative ideals are outdated and disconnected from what modern women actually want. The video delves into the true essence of high value, and I'll also highligh...

Welcome back to another episode of the Self Confidence Project. Today, we're diving into why some women seem to chase emotionally unavailable men and what you can do to avoid getting caught in these situations. I'll be sharing a true client story about a man who dated a woman for four years while legally separated, only to be left immediately after finalizing his divorce. We'll explore the psychol...

Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today, we're diving into the science of sexual polarity and maintaining attraction over time. We'll explore what sexual polarity is, why it's crucial for sustaining attraction, and how to recognize and maintain it. I'll share tips on how men can tap into their masculine energy and encourage feminine energy in their par...

Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today we're diving into why younger women might be interested in dating older men. This episode is for men dating after a divorce, separation, or after a long-term relationship. I'll also share important considerations if you're thinking about dating someone significantly younger and the potential challenges that may arise...

Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today, I'm delighted to bring on Mark Groves, an expert in relationships and self-awareness. We're focusing on his journey, insights, and advice for men seeking love, especially post-divorce. Mark shares his experiences and motivations that led him to explore relationship education, triggered by his personal breakups and the s...

In this episode, I'm sharing a comprehensive guide on effective flirting techniques for men. I'll be addressing common misconceptions about flirting, outlining key elements such as playfulness, confident communication, and body language, and introducing techniques like the playful opener and push-pull dynamics. Additionally, I'll share tips on how to recover smoothly when flirting goes awry. The v...

Most men think they're ready for love after a divorce, but they might just be avoiding loneliness or boredom. In this episode, I'll help you find out if you're truly ready for a meaningful relationship. We'll explore signs indicating you're ready to date and signs that more healing and self-reflection might be needed. Stay tuned for five crucial questions to ask yourself before...

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I'll be discussing how to determine if a woman is the right one for you in the bedroom. I'll also share tips on effectively communicating your intimacy needs positively in a relationship. Book your dating strategy call with me today by clicking here or watch my free masterclass here . <3 Kimberly

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly explores the #1 trait women find sexy in a man that will help you achieve the emotional and physical intimacy you're craving with women. She discusses the importance of staying composed, understanding yourself, and building trust in a relationship. By maintaining calmness and responding thoughtfully, men can create a safe environment for...

Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today, we dive deep into men's fashion and style with expert guest, Tanner Guzy. We discuss the transformative impact of how clothing can enhance not only appearance but also self-perception. From the three A's of style (Authentic, Articulate, Aesthetic) to how cultural and personal identity shifts can influence one's wardrobe, this e...

Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today, we're delving into why you might be attracting the wrong women or finding yourself in repetitive, unfulfilling relationships. As a dating and relationship coach for men, I’ll share insights on recognizing and breaking these patterns. We’ll also discuss the importance of self-awareness, setting healthy boundaries, and taking...

Join us for this engaging conversation with Dr. Robert Glover, the author of 'No More Mr. Nice Guy.' We delve into the nuances of overcoming 'Nice Guy Syndrome,' the importance of establishing boundaries, and the critical role men's groups play in fostering personal growth. Dr. Glover shares his insights on how nice guys can integrate their true selves and maintain healthy relationships without be...

Welcome back to The Self-Confidence Project. In this first episode of 2025, I discuss the challenges of dating in the modern world, especially after a long-term relationship or divorce. I outline four key traits to be mindful of when dating women. Whether you're navigating the dating scene or aiming to build a meaningful connection, these insights will help you approach relationships with more ope...

Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. I'm filming from the sunny tip of the Baja as I share my top five tips for men dating in 2025, especially those reentering the dating scene post-divorce or after a long-term relationship. These nuanced tips aim to help you navigate modern dating with confidence and clarity. If you're seeking support in your dating journey, I would be...

In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I share how you can identify if the woman you're dating values physical intimacy. I will highlight five key signs to look for, and four questions you can ask a woman on a date to determine her view on physical closeness. If you value physical intimacy and want to date with this value, then you don't want to miss today's episode.  If you're dating aft...

Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today I'll be diving into why successful, educated men, especially those newly dating after a significant relationship, are finding dating frustrating. I'll unpack four critical reasons that might be affecting your dating success. By becoming aware of these common missteps and making subtle shifts, you can improve your dating experien...