The Sacred Sofa

In this thought-provoking episode of The Sacred Sofa, Grace and Brad tackle one of theology's most contentious questions: Is God angry? Join them as they delve into scripture, examining various passages and interpretations to uncover the truth about divine anger. Through deep discussions and insightful reflections, they explore the nature of hell and what it truly means within the context of faith...

Faith Tested: The Complex Story of Abraham and Isaac In this episode of The Sacred Sofa, Brad and Grace delve into one of the most challenging and thought-provoking narratives from the Old Testament: the story of Abraham's near-sacrifice of his son Isaac. This ancient tale raises profound questions about faith, obedience, and the nature of trust in the divine. Join us as we explore the tensions an...

In this thought-provoking episode of A Sacred Sofa, Brad and Grace delve into the profound and timeless story of Job to explore the complex tensions people often experience with faith and God. Through an engaging and compassionate discussion, they unpack the challenges Job faced, the questions he grappled with, and the unwavering faith that sustained him. Tune in to hear how this ancient narrative...

Welcome to a brand new mini-series on The Sacred Sofa! In this episode, Grace and Brad embark on a journey to explore the multifaceted tensions that arise in our relationships with faith, God, ourselves, and the people in our lives. They delve into the challenges of balancing personal beliefs with interpersonal dynamics, and offer insightful strategies for navigating these complex relationships. J...

Welcome to the third installment of The Sacred Sofa Summer Series! In this episode, Grace and Brad tackle the profound and often challenging topics of forgiveness and reconciliation, especially in the context of abuse of power and relationships.  Join them as they delve into the nuanced differences between forgiveness and reconciliation, offering guidance on how to navigate each process. Grace and...

Welcome back to The Sacred Sofa Summer Series! In this second episode, Grace and Brad continue their deep dive into the intricate relationship between power and abuse. Building on the foundation laid in part one, they explore how power dynamics can be both a source of harm and a pathway to healing. Join them as they dissect real-life scenarios and provide practical advice on recognizing and addres...

Welcome to the launch of The Sacred Sofa Summer Series! This summer, Brad and Grace are bringing back listener favorites from their previous show, Theology and Therapy. In this first episode, they delve into the complex and crucial topic of power and abuse within relationships. Join them as they explore the dynamics of power, the impact of abuse, and ways to foster healthy, respectful relationship...

In the captivating season finale of The Sacred Sofa, Brad and Grace delve into the intricate world of relational dynamics in "The Theology of Conflict." This insightful episode explores how to navigate healthy conflicts and steer clear of combative situations. With their signature blend of warmth and wisdom, Brad and Grace discuss the inevitability of conflict in every relationship, emphasizing th...

In the gripping conclusion of our three-part episode on dynamic friendships, Brad , Grace , and special guest Karla Drader tackle the crucial topic of applying boundary-setting techniques in real-life situations. This segment dives into the nitty-gritty of how to implement boundaries effectively and compassionately, ensuring that your relationships are both healthy and fulfilling. Tune in as our h...

In this exciting follow-up episode, Brad , Grace , and guest Karla Drader delve deeper into the ever-evolving nature of dynamic friendships, focusing on the critical aspect of setting and respecting boundaries. Discover how healthy boundaries can enhance trust, intimacy, and mutual respect within your friendships. Join our hosts as they navigate the complexities of maintaining equilibrium in frien...

In this exciting episode, Brad and Grace delve deep into the intricate world of dynamic friendships, uncovering the truths that make these bonds so unique and vital. Unlike static relationships, friendships are ever-evolving entities that reflect the changing landscapes of our lives. Brad and Grace will explore why this fluidity is crucial and how it shapes the quality and resilience of our connec...

Join us this week on The Sacred Sofa for a special episode as Karla Drader takes the stage! 🎙️ Karla, an experienced pastor and spiritual director, will lead Grace and Brad through two compelling discussions that promise to enlighten and inspire. First, they'll dive deep into the complex and often hidden topic of shame in relationships, exploring its impact and how to overcome it for healthier con...

Welcome back to The Sacred Sofa podcast, where we explore the intricate dance of spirituality, psychotherapy, and relationships. In this compelling episode, Brad and Grace invite you to embark on a journey through the peaks and valleys of marriage, where highs and lows are part of the shared experience. Marriage, like life itself, has its moments of triumph and challenge. Partners may stumble, sli...

Welcome to our latest episode of The Sacred Sofa! Today, we're diving deep into a scorching topic - the diverse landscape of intimacy. We all know that not all sex is created equal, and it's far too easy to fall into the same old routine. But fear not, because we're here to shake things up! Join us as we continue to unpack the concept of "sex on a ladder," drawing parallels between our sexual expe...

Exploring the Sacred Bonds of Marriage is the next episode in the Marriage on a Ladder Series. Join hosts Grace and Brad as they delve into the deeper layers of marital relationships. Exploring the Sacred Bonds of Marriage, this podcast episode moves beyond the practical aspects of sex, money, and family dynamics, focusing on the mystical and enchanting facets that make marriages truly special. In...

Navigating Finances and Parenthood is the next episode in the Marriage on a Ladder Series. This episode invites you to embark on a revealing exploration of the intricate tapestry that is marriage. Join hosts Brad and Grace as they peel back the layers of this timeless institution, shedding light on the often overlooked yet crucial aspects of finances and child-rearing. Marriage, originally designe...

Join us for the first episode in our Marriage on a Ladder mini-series! In this eye-opening episode we delve into the diverse nature of intimacy within marriage and long-term relationships. Marriage was designed to be a practical institution and arrangement for handling our sexuality. But sexuality is a complicated thing and is often a source of tension. Not all sex is the same, and it's easy to ge...

Join us on a transformative journey through the intricacies of long-term relationships and marriage in our first episode. In this insightful exploration, we delve into the common temptation of becoming 'static' or stuck in neutral gear within relationships and provide actionable strategies to overcome it. Discover the profound difference between passively 'doing life with one another' and actively...