The Route 77 Podcast

What is a red flag in dating—and how do you know it’s not just a one-off mistake? In this week’s episode, Natasha and Monique get real about the warning signs they missed in past relationships and why recognizing red flags early can save you years of heartache. From poor conflict resolution to spiritual immaturity, they unpack personal, relational, and biblical red flags—and how to respond with wi...

What happens if you find yourself unequally yoked? Whether you're thinking about dating a non-believer, already in a relationship, engaged, or even married to someone who doesn't share your faith—this episode is for you. We talk honestly about the biblical command not to be unequally yoked, what that really means, and how to navigate the messy, real-life situations many Christians face. We...

We’ve all heard the verse: “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.” Most people think of it only when it comes to marriage. But is that all it applies to? In this episode, we unpack what it really means to be “equally yoked,” why this matters so much in dating, and how it can shape our closest friendships, business partnerships, and everyday decisions. Join us as we share personal stories, bi...

We all know the warning to “wait for marriage,” but too often the conversation stops at sex. What about the emotional, spiritual, and mental intimacy that builds long before? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast dating series, Natasha, Monique, and David dig into how other forms of closeness can push boundaries, set up unrealistic expectations, and even lead to the very physical temptation you’...

In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, Natasha and Monique tackle the real question: Why do we date at all? Is it just for fun, to avoid loneliness, or because we feel pressure from church culture? Or is there a deeper, biblical purpose behind it? Together, they explore the importance of spiritual maturity, the danger of dating too early—especially for new believers—and how emotional and spiritu...

Is it ever too early to date? This week on Route 77, Natasha, Monique, and David open up about their own experiences with dating (and misdating), especially during those wild teenage years. From emotional highs to heartbreaks, we unpack why emotional maturity, timing, and spiritual grounding matter before stepping into a relationship. Whether you're a teen, a parent, or just someone wondering...

What if the thing stealing your joy isn’t your circumstances—but your impatience with them? In this episode, we’re unpacking the subtle danger of restlessness, especially for those navigating life as a single person. Inspired by a paraphrased quote from Elisabeth Elliot, we explore how constantly reaching for what’s next can blind us to the goodness God is offering right now . Through Scripture, s...

Have you ever wondered if your singleness is your fault? Like maybe you’re too this, not enough that, or just plain missing the secret ingredient? In this episode, we explore the real (and often unspoken) question behind our struggle with being single: Did I do something wrong… or what? We take a look at Jesus' response in John 9, debunk the blame that society and the church sometimes throw at...

What happens when the longing for children meets the reality of singleness—and modern science offers a way forward? In this episode of The Route 77 Podcast , we explore the complex and emotional question: Should a single person pursue parenthood through IVF, artificial insemination, or other fertility options? We’re not talking about single parenting through divorce or loss—we’re talking about int...

Saying “yes” to God’s will is one thing—but are you actually cooperating with Him, or just going along grudgingly? In this week’s episode, Natasha and Monique unpack what it really looks like to partner with God, not passively or forcefully, but with trust, obedience, and the right attitude. From group project analogies to biblical stories (and even a taekwondo teaching moment or two), this conver...

Is it wrong to want something deeply—even marriage—if you still say you want God's will above all? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, we explore the tension between longing and surrender, asking what it really means to want God's will when your heart is aching for more. Natasha and Monique share candidly about prayer, trust, waiting, and the freedom that comes when you stop trying to...

"Is it selfish to treat yourself to a solo dinner or take a quiet day just for you? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, we’re talking all about dating yourself — a trend that's growing in the self-care world — and asking whether it aligns with a Christian perspective. We explore the difference between healthy rest and self-indulgence, how to enjoy God’s good gifts without making them...

Grief has many faces—and some of them look unfamiliar when you're single. In this honest and heartfelt episode, Natasha and Monique talk about the unique ways singles experience grief, especially when they've lost a spouse or are suddenly navigating life alone again. From the pain of widowhood and divorce to the questions no one prepares you for, this conversation touches on the reality of...

Death is something we all have to face—but as single people, the questions and fears can feel a little different. Will anyone be there when I’m dying? Who will grieve me? Am I prepared for the end of life—spiritually, emotionally, and practically? In this heartfelt episode, Natasha, Monique, and David open up about recent experiences with grief and the quiet fears that often come with singleness....

We’ve all heard them—those well-meaning comments meant to “encourage” singles: “Don’t worry, I knew someone who got married at 62!” or “Just enjoy this season and work on yourself.” In this episode of The Route 77 Podcast , Natasha and Monique get real about the emotional impact of these platitudes, why they often do more harm than good, and how we can respond with honesty and grace. From personal...

Can men and women really be just friends? In this episode of The Route 77 Podcast, Natasha and Monique explore friendships. Why do we so often assume every connection has to lead to romance? How can we build genuine, godly friendships without hidden expectations? From personal stories to biblical insight, this episode unpacks the cultural, relational, and spiritual dynamics that make friendship bo...

This week on the Route 77 Podcast, we’re digging into one of the most quoted verses in Christian circles: “Be fruitful and multiply.” But what does that mean for singles today? Is fruitfulness only about having children—or could it mean something deeper, something spiritual? Join Natasha, Monique, and David as they unpack the biblical context of this command, challenge assumptions around marriage...

Is singleness really a problem that needs fixing? Too often, we’re told—implicitly or explicitly—that marriage is the ultimate solution to loneliness, lust, and even personal growth. But is that true? In this episode of The Route 77 Podcast , we tackle the "fixer-upper" mentality around singleness and why marriage isn’t the renovation project that will solve all your struggles. We’ll div...

AI is getting more advanced every day—so advanced that some people are turning to artificial intelligence for companionship. But can AI really replace real relationships? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast , Natasha and Monique dive into the growing trend of AI boyfriends, girlfriends, and companions. They explore the dangers of replacing human connection with technology, the risks of artific...

You’ve probably heard it before— "I’m just waiting for my Adam" or "I need to find my missing rib." It sounds poetic, even biblical, but is it true? Does the Bible really teach that we are incomplete without a spouse? In this episode of The Route 77 Podcast , Natasha and Monique unpack the common belief that marriage is about finding your missing piece. They explore what Genesi...

"If you’re single, you’ve probably heard it before: ‘Just date Jesus’ or ‘Jesus is your husband.’ It sounds spiritual, but does it actually help? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, we break down the origins of this platitude, why it’s often unhelpful (and sometimes just plain weird), and what the Bible really says about our relationship with Christ. Is singleness just a waiting room for...

Bittersweet moments are a natural part of life—we celebrate with others while feeling a quiet ache for what we don’t have. Whether it’s seeing couples on Valentine’s Day, watching friends start families, or longing for a life season that hasn’t arrived, these feelings can be completely normal. But when does a healthy longing turn into coveting? When does wishing for something good begin to steal o...

Ever feel like people walk all over you? Or maybe you struggle with saying "no" without feeling guilty? This week on the Route 77 Podcast , we're talking all about boundaries —why they matter, how to set them, and how to enforce them without feeling like the bad guy. From friendships to dating to work and even church, boundaries help us protect our time, energy, and emotional well-being. But as si...

Are you seeing red? In this episode of The Route 77 Podcast , we tackle the ever-popular topic of red flags in relationships. From TikTok trends like emotional manipulation, dishonesty, and lack of accountability, we’re breaking down what really matters. Join me as we separate cultural stereotypes from true signs of trouble, explore what Scripture says about discernment, and share practical tips f...

Is singleness an epidemic in the church? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast , Natasha, Monique, and David take a closer look at this common perception. They explore how singleness is often treated as a problem to solve, unpack what the Bible says about singleness and marriage, and challenge the cultural and church narratives surrounding this season of life. Whether you’re single, married, or...