The Rosbergs: Your Marriage Coaches

Send us Fan Mail For today’s special edition of Your Marriage Coaches, Dr. Gary and Barbie reflect on 50 (yes, 50!) years of marriage. From wedding-day measles to 12 grandkids and counting, Dr. Gary and Barbie have experienced just about everything a marriage can, and today they are sharing their best advice with you, no matter where you are on the journey. Listen to your “elders” folks (just kidd...

Send us Fan Mail Husbands, how often do you pause and think of the ways you are honoring your wife? Do you know what honor looks like for your wife, specifically? Whether you’re engaged, a newlywed, or 30 years in, learning the unique ways your wife feels honored, loved, and cared for is always worth the time investment. Today, Barbie and Dr. Gary unpack how to connect with your wife in ways that,...

Send us Fan Mail Wives, does your husband ever seem like a complete mystery to you? Does his silent, stoic facade leave you guessing how he really feels? Never fear - Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg are here! Today, your marriage coaches reveal “Secrets of the Man Code” to help you better understand the man you married and learn things like: what he really needs to hear you say, why he stops talking w...

Send us Fan Mail Today, Dr. Gary and Barbie respond to a listener asking for advice on how to win his wife back after admitting neglect and not loving her in the way he should. As heartbreaking as this situation is, it’s not uncommon. Fortunately, Dr. Gary and Barbie have the wisdom, encouragement, and, as always, practical steps towards restoration. If this isn’t the circumstance you’re in, you m...

Send us Fan Mail Do you know the three hardest words to say in your marriage? Believe it or not, it’s not “I am sorry”, though those are difficult - it’s actually “I forgive you”. In their last episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie began to unpack the steps towards true forgiveness, dispelling myths around this virtue along the way. Today, Dr. Gary and Barbie look at the vital steps that must be taken befo...

Send us Fan Mail Do you know the three hardest words to say in your marriage? Believe it or not, it’s not “I am sorry”, though those are difficult - it’s actually “I forgive you”. Few words are more loaded than these, and today, Dr. Gary and Barbie begin to unpack the steps towards true forgiveness, dispelling myths around this virtue along the way. With great compassion and encouragement, Dr. Gar...

Send us Fan Mail Dr. Gary and Barbie are back with a special Part 2 all about stoking the fire of your marriage! After almost 50 years of marriage, Dr. Gary and Barbie have been through it all - the ups, downs, inside-outs, and flat-out miraculous - and they know what it takes to keep the embers burning in your relationship: Emotional honesty, depth of intimacy, and appreciation for one another. A...

Send us Fan Mail Does it feel like the North Pole in your marriage? Are you desperate for a flicker of heat? Grab some kindling and matches because Dr. Gary and Barbie are about to teach you how to LIGHT THAT FIRE! Listen in for practical, actionable tips to thaw out your marriage and get back to what you really want: emotional honesty, depth of intimacy, and appreciation for one another. Contrary...

Send us Fan Mail Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Philippians 2:3-4 Many of us are familiar with this passage in scripture. We understand this idea “to be of service to others and treat them better than ourselves” - but when it’s the pe...

Send us Fan Mail Healthy marriages are full of intention: intention to praise each other, intention to serve, intention to communicate, and the list goes on. The uncomfortable truth is that if we become passive in our relationship, indifference can creep in and lead to apathy - and as Dr. Gary and Barbie share today, apathy is the biggest marriage killer. So, how do we combat apathy and indifferen...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever found yourself in the middle of the same old argument? Something triggers it and you both fall into the same pattern of: confronting, blaming, defending, disrespecting, and…dang. You’re no closer to a resolution and you’re even more distant from your spouse. The Rosbergs call this the Crazy Making Cycle , and man, we have ALL been there. Luckily, Dr. Gary and Barbie...

Send us Fan Mail You and your spouse may each read your Bible, pray individually, and attend church as a family, but do you have true spiritual intimacy with one another? What is spiritual intimacy? Today, Dr. Gary and Barbie explain the spiritual needs that each husband and wife secretly desire and how you can support one another as you grow in Christ. If there’s a part of you that wonders if the...

Send us Fan Mail When walking through the darkness of pain, loss, financial hardships, or marital stress, it can seem impossible to express gratitude. When we are hurting it feels unnatural to shout a ‘Thank you, God!’, but when we force ourselves to count the blessings around us - even the basics of breath in our lungs to food on our table - things shift in our spirit and the atmosphere around us...

Send us Fan Mail Who would you call your best friend? Would your spouse be at the top of that list? For some, it’s an easy “yes,” but for others, that question stirs a longing for something more. In this episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie explore the essential roles of friendship and companionship in marriage. They’ll share insights on how to cultivate trust, reignite excitement, and build a love that’s...

Send us Fan Mail Today, Dr. Gary and Barbie continue the third installment of their series, 12 Steps to Having an Affair . Today, Gary and Barbie discuss steps 7-12: Purposeful Isolating, Pleasurable Isolating, Affectionate Embracing, Passionate Embracing, Capitulation, and Acceptance. However, this series is also one of encouragement and hope! Gary and Barbie emphasize that if you’ve ever found y...

Send us Fan Mail Today, Dr. Gary and Barbie continue the second installment of their series, 12 Steps to Having an Affair . Each episode will cover the slow and (sometimes innocent) steps that lead to infidelity if left unchecked. However, this series is also one of encouragement and hope! Today, Gary and Barbie discuss steps 3-6: Innocent Meeting, Intentional Meeting, Public Lingering, and Privat...

Send us Fan Mail Most married couples believe that an affair could never happen to them…but the Rosbergs humbly suggest that that thought is naive. Beginning with today’s episode, Dr. Gary and Barbie will begin a series on the 12 steps that lead to an affair and the biblically based, intentional actions every married couple can take, together and individually, to avoid this outcome. The first two...

Send us Fan Mail Join Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg, Americas Family Coaches, who bring four decades of equipping marriages across the US and internationally for this podcast to equip you and your marriage with encouragement and tools for a great marriage. The Rosbergs, Gold Medallion winners, have written over a dozen prominent marriage resources and DVD series with about 1 million total resources...

Send us Fan Mail Join Dr. Gary and Barbie Rosberg, Americas Family Coaches, who bring four decades of equipping marriages across the US and internationally for this podcast to equip you and your marriage with encouragement and tools for a great marriage. The Rosbergs, Gold Medallion winners, have written over a dozen prominent marriage resources and DVD series with about 1 million total resources...