Sam Frontera and Shelby Schwieterman
The Rom Complex
Which came first, the romantic comedy or our messed up ways of thinking about love and relationships? Each week Sam Frontera and Shelby Schwieterman break down the romcom tropes that make their hearts sing and the ones that need to be tuned up. Listen to them talk about how these movies affected their relationships–for better and for worse.
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Jul 9, 2026
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Episodes
278. The First Wives Club: Goodbye Love, Hello Pop-Tarts 20.11.2025 48:28
Did you miss us? Because we missed you! We're back to discuss The First Wives Club (1996) and the late, great Diane Keaton. If you know romcoms, you know Diane Keaton. Join us to chat about The First Wives Club, the plot of which Shelby kept getting confused with the new Kim Kardashian show All's Fair.
277. Pitch Perfect: I Love Stackin' CDs 25.09.2025 52:24
Sam has overcome her distaste for a certain actor and decided we should watch Pitch Perfect (2012). We chat about the peak of a cappella, having girl friends, and the black cat/golden retriever dynamic.
276. Hairspray: Never Leave Me Without Love 18.09.2025 55:34
You can't stop the beat, and you can't stop us talking about Hairspray (2007). We also discuss airport altercations, Zefron in a suit, and what type of men we are.
275. Across the Universe: All You Need Is Love 11.09.2025 54:43
Help, Sam is cursed and the only way to relieve it is to talk about Across the Universe (2007)! Luckily, there is plenty to say. We talk puppets, plot threads, and protests, all with a beautiful Beatles soundtrack.
274. Bye Bye Birdie: We Love You Conrad, Oh Yes We Do 04.09.2025 53:28
Ahem, mi mi mi mi miiiii. Sorry, just had to warm up my voice for Sing-along September! Our first musical masterpiece is Bye Bye Birdie (1963). We also discuss young love, less-young love, mama's boys, and what wars happened in what years.
273. Made of Honor: If You Love Something, Set It Free 28.08.2025 55:21
McDreamy and McCreamy collide in 2008's Made of Honor, a movie that proves that a rich man can have "broke boy energy." We also discuss Scotland, friends versus best friends, and comic relief grandmas.
272. The Wedding Singer: I Fell in Love with This Girl Who's Going to Marry an Idiot 21.08.2025 54:46
The Wedding Singer (1998) is our next wedding-themed selection, and we don't even mention the musical stage adaptation. We discuss the Adam Sandler method of movie production, character-based comedy, and the allure of dating a musician.
271. The Wedding Date: I'd Rather Fight with You Than Make Love with Anyone Else 14.08.2025 58:17
We've returned to 2005, Sam's favorite year for movies, for The Wedding Date. Join us as we chat about complicated families, dancing away the anger, and how more men should be named Dermot.
270. The Wedding Banquet: Let's Try Looking More in Love 07.08.2025 51:44
Grab your Bowen Yang Lego minifigs because we're starting Wedding month with this year's The Wedding Banquet (2025). We discuss the surprising plot, tropes we hate the most, and lying to Grandma. Join us for the celebration!
269. The Fault in Our Stars: Ours Is An Epic Love Story 24.07.2025 59:35
We're finishing up Summertime Sadness with The Fault in Our Stars (2014), based on the book that kicked off an entire trend of "sick lit." Find out which one of us knows more about the Green brothers!
268. Me Before You: Did You Ever Love Anything That Much? 17.07.2025 1:04:18
Don't put away those tissues yet because we are still powering through Summertime Sadness despite our sniffles and puffy eyes. This week we're discussing Me Before You (2016), a light little romantic drama (just kidding). Triggers include assisted suicide and discussion of suicidal ideation.
267. One Day: I Love You, I Just Don't Like You Anymore 10.07.2025 59:15
For our next bout of Summertime Sadness, we're joined by Anne Hathaway. Not physically, but spiritually, through her role in the movie One Day (2011). We also discuss character growth, diverging paths in life, and reality television.
266. Remember Me: They Love This Freaky, Poetic Crap 03.07.2025 58:08
This month we are celebrating Summertime Sadness, and we're off to an extremely tragic start with 2010's Remember Me. Trigger warning for the September 11th terrorist attacks. If you know, you know!
265. Gorgeous: We Love Dolphins (with Nick Foster) 26.06.2025 1:10:03
Writer, rapper, and filmmaker Nicholas Foster joins us to discuss 1999's Gorgeous, an extremely silly Jackie Chan romcom that veers off into unexpected side stories involving gangsters, business, and boxing. Lots of boxing. Check out more of Nick's work at https://justnickperiod.com/
264. Summer Catch: Love's the Game 19.06.2025 58:11
Summer Catch (2001) teaches us a lot, mostly about toxic masculinity and collegiate summer baseball leagues. We also discuss cool girls, summer love, and an abundance of subplots.
263. Falling Inn Love: I Do Love a Good DIY Project 12.06.2025 54:29
Falling Inn Love (2019) has a city girl moving to a small town, but this time it's in New Zealand. Take us with you! We also discuss Sam's dream life, on-screen chemistry, and creepy dolls.
Femmes Reading Filth Crossover: The Idea of You 10.06.2025 1:19:52
Our friends over at Femmes Reading Filth invited us on their podcast to chat about The Idea of You (2024) and the book from which it was adapted. If you like what you hear, please go check out more Femmes Reading Filth wherever you listen to podcasts!
262. Burlesque: Their Love's the Kind You Gotta Earn 05.06.2025 52:18
Divas take the stage in 2010's Burlesque, an ultimately silly movie that happens to meet the theme of the month: small town/big city. We also discuss Labubu, drinking on the job, and the Wagon Wheel Watusi.
261. Love Me: Love Between Lifeforms 29.05.2025 49:42
Love science month concludes with Love Me (2024), in which two pieces of technology (science) fall in love (that's the love part). See, it fits the theme!
260. Timer: Take the Guess Work Out of Love 22.05.2025 55:54
Love science and time science come together in Timer (2009). Sam and Shelby get to say whatever they want about this movie and not feel bad because the creator went on to make Wandavision.
259. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind: I Love This Memory 15.05.2025 53:16
We're going "sad" this week with 2004's Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. We discuss poorly-treated actors, wigs vs. dye, and the nature of memory.
258. Love Potion No. 9: The Biochemical Process of Feeling in Love (with Rob Schulte of Vanderpump Robs) 08.05.2025 1:03:19
Our friend Rob of Vanderpump Robs joins us to chat about 1992's Love Potion No. 9. We also discuss little mustaches, the fear of rejection, and, of course, kissing cops.
257. Duck Butter: You Can't Play It Safe in Love 24.04.2025 56:01
Something about Duck Butter (2018) makes us hungry because not only do we discuss shortcuts to falling in love, we also list ingredients to spear on a kabob and reveal the best way to reheat leftover Taco Bell.
256. Stay the Night: He Could Be the Love of Your Life 17.04.2025 53:39
We're still not asleep for 2022's Stay the Night, a movie NOT based off a hockey romance novel. We also discuss character growth, Canadian careers, and what in life is worth chasing after.
255. Sleepless in Seattle: People Who Truly Loved Once are Far More Likely to Love Again (with Jenn Scott) 10.04.2025 1:00:35
We're joined in our late night discussion of Sleepless in Seattle (1993) by Jenn Scott. We compliment Meg Ryan, forgive some light stalking, and wonder how airports could ever have been so easy to get around.
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