Sam Frontera and Shelby Schwieterman
The Rom Complex
Which came first, the romantic comedy or our messed up ways of thinking about love and relationships? Each week Sam Frontera and Shelby Schwieterman break down the romcom tropes that make their hearts sing and the ones that need to be tuned up. Listen to them talk about how these movies affected their relationships–for better and for worse.
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Sam Frontera and Shelby Schwieterman
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Jul 9, 2026
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Episodes
55. Practical Magic: Fall in Love Whenever You Can 29.10.2020 58:30
This week we talk about Practical Magic (1998), a movie about sisterhood, magic, and getting away with murdering the same person twice. Or is that a different movie? No, it’s this one....
54. Sleepy Hollow: The Horseman Came for the Love of Carnage 22.10.2020 1:00:42
This week’s episode is light on romance but HEAVY on corny-looking pumpkinheads because we’re talking about Tim Burton’s Sleepy Hollow (1999)! Yet another bland “female lead” is overshadowed by her vengeful, busty...
53. Warm Bodies: It’s Not Gonna Happen, Lover Boy 15.10.2020 53:24
This week Sam and Shelby discuss Zombie Twilight–*ahem*–I mean Warm Bodies (2013), a film about a very special boy and his very special love. In the zombie apocalypse, dating is almost as...
52. Love Story: Love Means Never Having to Say You’re Sorry 08.10.2020 1:03:22
This week Sam and Shelby talk about Love Story (1970), an outdated movie with a definition of love so incorrect that it truly boggles the mind. Other mindboggling topics include an unrealistically...
51. Pride and Prejudice: We Are All Fools in Love 01.10.2020 1:00:20
Sam and Shelby drool over the subtly yet surprisingly horny Pride & Prejudice (2005). Topics include the sexiness of small touches and witty banter and how the rom com fantasy has been...
50. Bridget Jones’s Baby: Falling in Love Doesn’t Happen on Paper 24.09.2020 59:47
As a reward for making it to 50 episodes, Sam and Shelby express their shock and delight at how much they enjoyed Bridget Jones’s Baby despite the unnecessary zorbing of Ed Sheeran....
49. Bridget Jones (The Edge of Reason): He Must Still Love Me! 17.09.2020 57:14
The second installment of the Bridget Jones series (Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason) is simply not very good. Sorry! Sam and Shelby talk about not letting other people get into your...
48. Bridget Jones’s Diary: How’s Your Love Life, Anyway? 10.09.2020 57:54
Put on your big underpants and start scribbling in your journal about how much you hate (love) Mark Darcy because Shelby and Sam are talking about Bridget Jones’s Diary (2001). Topics of...
47. The Big Sick: Love Isn’t Easy. That’s Why They Call It Love. (with Suki Lanh) 03.09.2020 1:12:43
Writer and teacher Suki Lanh (www.unitedstatesofsuki.com) joins Sam and Shelby to talk about The Big Sick (2017). Do we spend a lot of time on how cute Suki and her husband’s love...
46. To All the Boys (P.S. I Still Love You): I Know Now That I Don’t Want to Love or Be Loved in Half Measures 27.08.2020 1:00:54
What do you do when the characters got together happily in the first movie? According to To All the Boys: P.S. I Still Love You, you briefly turn your movie into a...
45. Breaking Dawn Part 2: Because I Fell in Love with a Human 20.08.2020 1:02:13
We’ve finally arrived at the thrilling (read: anti-climatic) conclusion with 2012’s The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn Part 2. Sam and Shelby can’t seem to stop talking about the moral implications of a...
44. Breaking Dawn Part 1: Um, I Love It 13.08.2020 58:31
Sam and Shelby add themselves to the long list of people expressing their opinions about Bella’s sex life as they discuss The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn Part 1. There’s a wolf-feud! There’s...
43. Eclipse: I Promise to Love You Every Moment of Forever 06.08.2020 56:19
Sam and Shelby are wolfily bounding right over that halfway point of the Twilight series with The Twilight Saga: Eclipse (2010). Love triangle? Never met her. We’re talking bad wigs, wet werewolves,...
42. New Moon: How About Those Filthy Bloodsuckers You Love? 30.07.2020 1:02:17
The Twilight Saga: New Moon (2009) just about DEMANDS that Sam and Shelby continue talking about abusive relationships and creative responsibility, now with the added spice of werewolves with real abs, vampires...
41. Twilight: So the Lion Fell in Love with the Lamb 23.07.2020 1:05:38
It’s Red Flag City as Sam and Shelby dive into the first installment of their five-episode Twilight Saga extravaganza. Twilight (2008) offers plenty of opportunity to discuss abusive relationships, artistic responsibility, and...
40. Love and Basketball: I’ve Been in Love with You Since I Was Eleven (with Sam Perpignand) 16.07.2020 1:01:38
The gorgeous and talented Sam Perpignand (aka Salt n Sprinkles) joins Shelby and Sam to talk about Love & Basketball, Sanaa Lathan’s arms, and the questionable existence of Timothee Chalamet.
39. Dance with Me: I Don’t Want to Be in Love (with Alex Feliciano) 02.07.2020 1:01:41
Special guest Alex Feliciano calls in all the way from Costa Rica to talk with Shelby and Sam about one of her childhood favorites, Dance with Me (1998). We chat about the...
38. The Lovebirds: Two People Declaring Their Eternal Love for Each Other. How Problematic. 25.06.2020 58:21
Sam and Shelby spend some time worshipping Issa Rae and the rest of the time talking about The Lovebirds, a Netflix romp so full of jokes that Sam made a callback list.
37. Legally Blonde: I’ll Get the Love of My Life Back (with Jessica Kate) 18.06.2020 53:18
Romance author and podcaster Jessica Kate joins Shelby and Sam to talk about the iconic 2001 film Legally Blonde. They discuss Reese Witherspoon’s perfection and women supporting women, and Sam has a...
36. 40 Days and 40 Nights: It’s So Hard Giving Up What You Love the Most 28.05.2020 59:04
Sam and Shelby talk about 40 Days and 40 Nights, a movie that has not aged well in the 18 years since its release. Talking points include how bad the movie is,...
35. Naked: I Have Been Known to Be a Pretty Tender Lover 21.05.2020 55:54
The Netflix original movie Naked (2017) proves a great framework for Sam and Shelby to talk about the pros and cons of time loops and whether it’s possible to change a man...
34. 13 Going On 30: Oh, for the Love of Pete! You Taught It to Me! 14.05.2020 58:01
Can we be flirty and thriving even though we’re not 30? Please? Sam and Shelby discuss 13 Going on 30 and how proud we should be of ourselves for being able to...
33. Isn’t It Romantic?: Holy Crap! I Love Me! 07.05.2020 55:28
It turns out someone turned this podcast into a movie (before the podcast existed, probably), and that movie is Isn’t It Romantic? Sam and Shelby discuss opening yourself up to your lovers...
32. 10 Things I Hate About You: At Long Last, Love Has Arrived 30.04.2020 53:34
Try not to get too bummed out as Sam and Shelby discuss the Heath Ledger/Julia Stiles classic 10 Things I Hate About You. The hosts talk about the movie’s fun background bits,...
31. When Harry Met Sally: The Thing Is, I Love You 23.04.2020 59:07
When Harry Met Sally brings up a lot of feelings for Sam and Shelby. What feelings, you ask? Oh, mostly just, you know, utter joy and delight from watching and talking about...
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