The Right Fight

Sometimes we feel alone, like we have no one to turn to, no one to comfort us, no one to confide in, but despite the feeling, the truth of the matter is that we are never alone. There is One with us who will never leave us. Kenny and Tammie recount an experience their family had that proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that we are not alone.

The only way to know if a relationship is right, or if you're enabling a harmful relationship, is by standing on the truth. When the truth is your anchor, things become clear, and you have a firm foundation to stand on. Join Kenny and Tammie for this truth in episode 70.

We should keep an open mind and hear out other peoples perspectives, but that doesn't mean we should always accept those perspectives as truth. Kenny and Tammie do a wonderful job at demonstrating how to listen, love, and seek truth, all right here in episode 69.

The fear of The Lord is not some scared dread. It's an awe, a reverence, the realization that He is so big, and we are so small. But in His bigness, this fear, we find His great love for us, His protection and security, His wisdom, which begins with fearing The Lord.

The parable of the Prodigal Son paints a beautiful picture of us returning to God, and how He receives us with open arms as He's running to meet us halfway. That is not all the parable aims to show us though. It's a heart checker. When other prodigals return home, do we respond in the same way as our Father, or do we respond the same way the Prodigal Son's brother did?

In today's episode Kenny and Tammie create an open discussion for a two sided issue, addressing how children can combat the feeling of shutting out the advice and instruction of their parents, and how parents can continue to give advice and wisdom, build relationships with their kids, and avoid prompting the reaction of their child shutting out their wisdom. Join us for episode 66.

When dealing with depression, anxiety, etc, your brain gets wired differently than normal. That's why it's so hard to just snap out of what you're going through. However, there is something that is able to rewire your brain, and that is the Word of God. Jump in now for episode 65 with Kenny and Tammie.

In this episode, Kenny and Tammie break down how protecting yourself can sometimes be the unloving thing to do in a situation. We're not talking about situations like abuse, to be clear. We're talking about situations where what you feel, and what you want to do and say can be justified, but isn't the loving thing to do. Join us for episode 64 and glean some incredible wisdom.

Despite what some may think, purpose is not tied to success, money, status, position, or your career. Your purpose is something beautifully separate from all of that. Join Kenny and Tammie as they help you find your purpose in episode 63.

We can't love unless we're operating out of truth, but to do that, we need the right perspective. Perspective doesn't change the truth, it reveals it. Hop in now for episode 62.

To truly trust requires the action of faith behind it. It is not enough to say you trust, then either move when you should not, or stand still when you should move. Sometimes the situation is scary, but when you trust in the One who is true, you can be sure that He will always do what He says. Tune in now with Kenny and Tammie for How To Trust God.

If we stand for something, we need to be sure of the "why". Are we standing out of fear, justification, or defensiveness? Or are we standing to love? The answer to this episode's title may surprise you, but not for the reason you might expect. Listen as Kenny and Tammie tackle this big question, in episode 60.

The persona of "alpha male" is just a compensation for the insecurity of not being enough. The truth, however, is that you will never be enough. But within that fact comes vulnerability, honesty, love, and true strength. Join Kenny and Tammie as they take on this hot social topic.

Loving your enemies doesn’t mean becoming a doormat, it means praying for them, choosing what is best for them, forgiving as you have been forgiven. It’s hard, but it’s freeing. Join Kenny and Tammie for episode 58.

Boundaries are often set up with good intentions, but before you know it, you’ve walled yourself in, and your boundaries have gone from protecting to hurting. Love doesn’t need “conventional” boundaries, love is its own boundary. Join Kenny and Tammie in episode 57 as they cover this very hot topic.

In this episode Tammie's mom takes a seat at the table to help us understand that there is only one thing that can truly free us from trauma — God. His word, His presence, His voice, His goodness is what will heal us, and free us from trauma.

Most have probably experienced grief, and it never is easy. However, there are some things we can always rest in as we grieve — God is near to the broken hearted, and He makes all things new. Kenny and Tammie talk about how they handle grief, join them now for episode 55.

What is worship? Worship is a response to who God is. But worship goes way beyond just singing songs in church, or in your car on the way to work. True worship extends from every area of our lives. Everything we do is to be done unto Jesus.

Kenny and Tammie tackle the topic of self love, how it really isn’t loving, and then take on a big question — does God love Himself? Join them now for episode 53.

Conflict is a hard thing, but you’re a lot safer going to someone with the truth, in love, and working through things, versus letting things build up inside of you, or allowing someone to continue on in something that is not loving. Here is episode 51 with Kenny and Tammie.

The world thinks that to be loving, you must be tolerant, but real love isn't tolerant to things that aren't loving. We join Kenny and Tammie for yet another hot topic in episode fifty of The Right Fight Podcast.

The world says that we shouldn’t care what other people think about us, but love says that we should care why someone thinks something about us, because it might reveal the truth about a lie we’ve been believing. Or, it might be an opportunity to go to that person and ask them why they believe something about us, so we can show them what the truth of the matter is. It’s a hot topic, that Kenny and...

God speaks to us personally, He never leads us astray, and it always consistently aligns with His word. We just need to get still and listen. Join Kenny and Tammie as they cover how God speaks, and how to listen.

True repentance not only carries a change, but a desire to change, and a sensitivity to the situation. Here’s episode 48 with Kenny and Tammie.

The simple answer to this question is - you can’t. We don’t have the power to forgive ourselves. It’s not up to us. But the wonderful thing is that there is One who does have the power to forgive us, to set us free from guilt, shame, and condemnation, and He already has. You just have to choose to walk in that freedom. Kenny and Tammie are here again, for episode 47.