The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

Has your marriage felt different lately? Maybe the needs you and your spouse had when you first said "I do" have changed. In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, join Rusty and Heather Bryant as they explore how individual needs shift due to time, the changing seasons of life, and the impact of betrayal and trauma. Your initial expectations may not align with where you and your spouse ar...

Are you struggling with lingering pain in your marriage, even after you've done "the work?" In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the difficult topic of recurring pain in relationships, especially after experiences of betrayal, infidelity, or broken trust. They explore the reality that while healing can occur, the pain can return and discuss why these t...

Is your marriage in a place where it feels like only a miracle can save it? In this powerful episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the topic of needing a divine intervention in your relationship. Drawing from their own miracle marriage story and from the hundreds of prayer requests they have already received for their February prayer challenge, they explore the realit...

Start the year strong by exploring all the ways The Redeemed Marriage can help you invest in your relationship in 2025. From our weekly podcast and marriage coaching to retreats, intensives, and monthly mentoring, we’ve designed resources to support every stage of your journey. Learn about our conferences, February Prayer Challenge, free resources, and how to stay connected with us on social media...

The holidays are often called the most wonderful time of the year, but for many, this season can bring pain to the surface. Whether you're dealing with betrayal, the loss of a loved one, or unmet expectations, the Christmas season can feel anything but joyful. Rusty and Heather share from their own experience of navigating infidelity during the holidays and offer practical tips to avoid the holida...

This week, Rusty and Heather continue their conversation with Casey and Meygan Caston from Marriage365. In Part 2, hear what Casey and Meygan wish they could go back and tell their newlywed selves and uncover the number one issue couples bring to Marriage365 for help. Plus, things heat up as the conversation shifts to the bedroom! Don't miss this lively, fun, and insightful episode! Get the Book -...

This week Rusty and Heather are joined by Casey and Meygan Caston, founders of Marriage365. They share the powerful story of a rocky start to their marriage, nearly leading to divorce within the first three years. After reaching out for help, they found healing and now encourage couples worldwide. Tune in to hear their inspiring journey, learn about the incredible resources Marriage365 offers, and...

We're revisiting one of our most impactful episodes on the topic of triggers. Anyone who has experienced deep hurt knows how easily certain moments, places, or conversations can stir up painful memories. In the aftermath of infidelity, these triggers can be especially frequent and intense. While time can soften their grip, they have a way of resurfacing when least expected. Join us as we share how...

In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the topic of control in marriage. Who should hold the reins in a healthy relationship? What happens when betrayal tips the balance? Using the backdrop of their own story of infidelity, they explore whether a temporary shift in control is necessary, how long it should last, and how to move forward to restore a healthy balan...

In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss what it means to be a safe space for your spouse. Emotional safety is essential in marriage, allowing both partners to be vulnerable and open without fear. But what does this look like in practice? Listen in as they explore common barriers to safety; such as criticism, dismissing each other’s feelings, always needing to fi...

Does your marriage feel hopeless? Rusty and Heather use their journey through the darkest days of their marriage to share a miraculous story of healing and restoration after infidelity. Speaking directly to couples feeling hopeless, they offer insight and encouragement for those wondering if it’s possible to find hope again. Whether you're navigating deep struggles or simply need a reminder that c...

Disappointment can become a part of even the strongest marriages, usually rooted in unmet or unrealistic expectations. In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather explore how expectations can unintentionally turn into rigid responsibilities, creating tension and resentment between spouses. Listen as they unpack the importance of serving over obligation, the pitfalls of tryi...

Every couple faces differences, but how do you navigate those challenges in a way that strengthens rather than weakens your relationship? Drawing from their own incompatibilities, Rusty and Heather share insights on how couples can embrace their differences, communicate better, and use their unique strengths to grow together. Whether you're feeling misunderstood or simply different, this episode w...

Feeling alone in marriage is something many couples experience, and betrayal only deepens that sense of isolation. In this episode, Rusty and Heather open up about their journey through infidelity and how it caused them to feel alone both individually and as a couple. They discuss some practical steps they took to break free from feeling alone, including rebuilding trust, working towards emotional...

What drives someone to risk everything—marriage, family, and self-worth—for an affair? Whether you are the betrayed, the betrayer, or supporting someone who’s been affected, you likely have unanswered questions. In this powerful episode, Heather bravely opens up about her early thoughts and emotions that led her down the dangerous path to infidelity. Join us as we re-examine this raw and candid ac...

Join Rusty and Heather in this special reprisal episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast. Discover the compelling narrative of their relationship—from high school sweethearts, through the devastating challenges of infidelity, to the transformative redemption that birthed a marriage ministry. Their candid storytelling offers hope and practical insights, inspiring couples to navigate their own journ...

In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather offer encouragement and wisdom for those who feel like they're the only ones working on their marriage. The discussion reminds us that while we cannot fix our spouse, we can focus on becoming the person God wants us to be. Through serving, praying, and trusting that God is for your marriage, you can make a significant impact on yo...

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather share their incredible journey from a marriage in crisis to a ministry to other marriages. They reflect on their first experience at WinShape Marriage nearly 20 years ago, back it was still under construction and part of a dream to help broken marriages. Fast forward to 2011, after Heather’s confession of an affair, they re...

In this week’s episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the challenging topic of conflict, arguing, and fighting within marriage. Drawing from their own experiences with unhealthy conflict resolution, Heather opens up about the dangers of always needing to be right, while Rusty shares how damaging it can be to accept blame and avoid confrontation. Together, they explore...

Rusty and Heather Bryant expose the enemy's relentless pursuit of marriages. Drawing from their personal experience with Heather's infidelity and the restoration that followed, they shine a light on the common lies the enemy uses to destroy marriages. Join them as they uncover the enemy's deception and share practical ways to safeguard your marriage against these attacks.  Marriage Coaching Inform...

Rusty and Heather open up about their journey in the 13 years since Heather's confession of unfaithfulness on August 23, 2011. Having recently passed another anniversary, they reflect on the reasons they initially chose to stay together and how God has honored their decision over the years. With their second and last child now off to college, they also explore how different their lives could have...

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss a new chapter of their marriage—empty nesting, or as they affectionately call it, their "second honeymoon." As their youngest son heads to college this week, Rusty and Heather share the intentional steps they've taken to prepare for this season, including staying connected and rediscovering their shared passions and...

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather address a question from a listener struggling with triggers while in a church setting related to past infidelity. Despite years of healing, the listener and her husband find themselves reliving painful memories whenever their pastor preaches on adultery. Rusty and Heather draw from their own journey through infidelity and s...

In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant answer a Summer Shorts question from a listener in Oklahoma. They discuss practical ways couples can grow closer to God individually and together. Their candid conversation reveals how their individual and collective spiritual lives have changed post infidelity. Drawing from that personal experience, Rusty and Heather share...

This week a listener from Kansas asks about the complexities of celebrating a big anniversary milestone after their marriage has been marred by infidelity. Having just celebrated 28 years of marriage, Rusty and Heather discuss the importance of celebrating restoration and redemption. They share personal stories of anniversaries following their own journey through infidelity, and how their celebrat...